Posted by: behoove_me October 17, 2011
Closing chapter on some recently banned users
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This might not sit well with many, and this is not an ethical solution specially when sajha had been free all these years, but how about a nominal membership only fee? I know quite a few users have been banned recently, but nothing stops them from registering again and again and spread similar hatred and vile. I understand many of us are students here, but a paltry membership fee would not hurt.

And regarding Nas, I have no idea what took you so long San. He played with almost everyone's emotions, he also made awesome writers like Sitara, Nepe, Ashu, Paschim, Nazar, Netaz neta, sum_off, dissappear in thin air, and suddenly became the messiah of neo-keyboard happy crowd. Last time I checked, he was nothing less than a sexual predator or a pedophile. For those who came in late, sajha was a lot better site than this.

Also, here is an example, and before I even mention this, I'd like to underscore that not all of us possess the similar kindness, generosity, endurance and patience and most of us are prone to fly off the handle when our fuse is lit.

Last month there was an individual who had a different opinion with me regarding a not-so-sensitive matter,  while I tried my best to not lose my cool and handle his name calling like a gentleman, he kept on using words like ‘moron’, a$$hole, dhoti, etc. umpteen times until he finally gave up. Agreed, his words were not as profane as Nas’s, and agreed we need to respect freedom of speech, but since you brought in the instance of ‘respect’ how do we respond to this? He was clearly disrespecting my generosity.

Also, there was a time when I ‘respectfully’ listed few of my opinions sometime ago . A mister phd somewhere in midwest was belligerent enough in his reply to call me ‘moron’ and ‘hypocrite’ in his FIRST reply to my post just because my opinion did not sit well with his.

These maybe trivial issues and I know there are TONS of similar incidents here, I know we all know better, and I know someone here cannot wait to call me a crybaby but I am interested to know how does one respond to such name-calling when it is absolutely uncalled for?
 

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