Bubly,

I dont know what your situation is. Let me give you a simple suggestion. First love yourself, follow your dreams, and then think about your surroundings such as social life, love life, family, and others. If you cannot control yourself how can you support others. Always keep in mind that one day you will be on your own and people will always judge you no matter what.

Last night i was listening to Anderson Cooper. He talked about a women in Africa, who was gang raped.  They made her brother to have sex with her and killed him after he refused to do so. They burnt her children infront of her. Basically, these gang of political supporters were trying to frighten these villagers by making a family as an example. Later that women was kicked out by her husband. That women is still alive and fighting against the government.

There are worse things around us. Just look at inspirational poeple around you and take it from there. I know life is hard, but keep in mind its just a phase and will go away. Dont get lost in imagination and stop thinking too much. Love yourself and try to be happy.