bittertruth,  thanks for your input.   I agree 100 % that life definitely could be bed of roses for people, if they work hard and have good intention. alchi haru ko laagi, jaha gaye pani saasti nai huncha.   I think  facing difficulties in life and happiness are two different things.  I am more happier here in US than when I was in Kathmandu 8 years ago.  It will be a lie to say that I do not have any difficulty here.

FIY:  I immigrated to US under DV Program,  a naturalized US citizen,  have a decent job in  a decent company and working hard like everyone else.   I  do not not work in  gorey/dhoti/pakistani.

Sajha is a public platform,  everyone of us have the right to express our opinion and we should respect one another.   The person who started this thread  + some others have  pointed their  finger on the DV holders and generalized them as stupid people ( please read the above lead thread  ).    I am not here for बाद-बिबाद /   I am simply telling them not to be generalize  and hate people who are working hard for a better life.  Also, respect the way they live and their freedom.

~ Love for love, hate for hate ~