Posted by: GuitarDaku June 14, 2011
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@justcantgetenough:
I can see your argument and your point of view. If the amount going to your parents is unreasonable, you should simply decrease the amount by having a "man-to-man" dialogue. Hopefully, your parents are reasonable people.
However, if the money going to your parents is reasonable by Nepali standards and considering other factors like loans, etc. and money is being used for necessities and not showing off, it's a different issue now. Here, I'd recommend go for a win-win scenario and not, a win-lose scenario. Create a picture where both parties can win. Kind of like a dialectic. Be creative. I would take it as an opportunity to learn and teach something to/from your family. I can see one way out for a win-win scenario: By insisting on investing your money in Nepal and not simply using it as a cash cow. I am not a finance guru but an engineer so ask someone with more experience in this regard.
My dui paisa.
I can see your argument and your point of view. If the amount going to your parents is unreasonable, you should simply decrease the amount by having a "man-to-man" dialogue. Hopefully, your parents are reasonable people.
However, if the money going to your parents is reasonable by Nepali standards and considering other factors like loans, etc. and money is being used for necessities and not showing off, it's a different issue now. Here, I'd recommend go for a win-win scenario and not, a win-lose scenario. Create a picture where both parties can win. Kind of like a dialectic. Be creative. I would take it as an opportunity to learn and teach something to/from your family. I can see one way out for a win-win scenario: By insisting on investing your money in Nepal and not simply using it as a cash cow. I am not a finance guru but an engineer so ask someone with more experience in this regard.
My dui paisa.