Vivant,

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that the intention for your call for 'balance' is good. 

But I also see Nas's words below yours saying:
"Why so much grudge against poor me ?

What have I done to be treated like this ?

Why dear ! Why?"

With that in mind, I think you (you, as in the greater Nepali men) are being unfair to the people that you are asking to have a balanced perspective. Especially if you (again, the greater Nepali men) are unwilling to do what it takes to walk the "middle path." Why should other people care whether they have a balanced perspective of "Nepali men" or not if Nepali men are not taking responsibility for each other to make sure they are *acting and speaking* maturely?

Why would the burden of respecting and "having a balanced perspective" of Nepal be on foreign nations if Nepalese don't have what it takes to regulate themselves? Could it be that us Nepalese, both men or women, are more willing to blame other people's vision (especially Indians) rather than take responsibility for our own *words and action*?

Similarily, you Nepali guys, as usual, want us girls to 'adjust' our vision so that your homeboys never come out looking bad. Typical.