It has been more than a year since number had this problem and people are still advicing him. For all we know he might be celebrating Xmas with his lady love right this instant. I was surprised to see this thread come back up and even more surprised to see my response. I totally forgot that I had even posted in this thread. LOL

Uncle L, believe me in real life I dont go around analyzing everything possible in a psych. perspective and give my opinion about it. Infact until I read your comment I wasnt even aware that I did that in sajha! lol. I guess there is more of a psychologist in me than I had allowed myself to believe. Its atleast good to know that I help your brain cells from dying a slow death! ;) BTW, I am still waiting for you to post the rest of your 'story.' It totally fascinates me! And Merry Xmas and  a Happy New Year BTW.