RNMN - This topic is quite refreshing break from all the madness around us. I can't claim to be a relationship or dating expert but could not resist sounding off. If there was one thing I would say it would be this : be yourself. Do whatever you think makes sense. Being comfortable in your own skin is always a winning proposition. A sensible guy(or girl) comfortable with him or herself is often a good enough reason for a second date - and maybe a third and fourth one too ;) All the best! :)