The hard work of all these days to keep myself pure- do you mean to say I won't get paid for it. I stayed virgin becoz I don't want to betray my would be wife. I don't want her to betray me. Prolly I was grown the wrong way that I cannot think like you guys. I want my gal to be just mine. p.s. I found some one misunderstanding the meaning of virgin. I ment to say a gal who didn't have sex with another guy, not just her some skin is torn.