women are from venus, men are from mars is a really popular, funny bok about gender differneces and why its hard for men to undeerstand women and vice versa. there is another famous book called, why men dont' listen and women can't read maps. same thing. fireworks are only possible when there is there is a chemistry.....if fireworks were that easy, why would marraiges fade away? as for your fancy, you ought to keep fancying for another decade or so...parishram ko phal mitho huncha niii.