@corona
As much as it hurts for being cheated and lied on that we start wishing HELL for them, but believe me forgiveness to cheater is still best thing to do. Not because they deserve forgiveness but its for our own happiness & growth to move on. Holding grudge against Ex will not allow us to love another person wholeheartedly because of our hurt emotional health. My Ex apologized to me after MANY years of break up, I forgave him long time before even he apologized, but good to know he realized all his wrong doings and pain he caused. I am now with the most wonderful man (my soulmate), we have been together for a very long time and soon taking our wedding vows. Looking back I am thankful that "Ex" Exited so my soulmate can Enter into my life :)
Settle only for the man that treats you right!
Good luck on finding yours!