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 Are u guys happy with your student life in America?
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Posted on 12-22-09 2:03 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Personally, I have got the mixed feelings. I am happy in a sense; I have got lots of friend who are ready to help me in any difficulties. I get to have lots of fun. There is a cold beer on the freeze to cool be down, when I have a problem with my girlfriend. I can party whole night without any obligation. But, on the other side my future is not certain, my job after graduation is not guaranteed, can’t go to Nepal, I don’t know when I am going to get married and have kids. This brings a kind of frustration sometime. How about you guys?


 
Posted on 12-22-09 2:31 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Grass is always greener on other side bro, that's all I have to say.
 
Posted on 12-22-09 10:08 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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The difference between you and me is: I did not have a freeze in my room and nor a girlfriend to heat me up! I then did not need a beer either. Otherwise, been there in your shoe!

When you feel your future is not secure, sometimes that's the best thing to have in life, although it's an irony. It automatically trains you for all eventualities. Best of luck!

 
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Is there any software or even a scientific instrument to measure my happiness? Or even a form or bunch of questions that I can answer and calculate my total happiness?.....


I remember one of my professor @ UTA...he gave me a formula to be happy. It is derived from simple Efficeincy formula, which is Efficiency = Output/Input times 100% ( we all know efficiency is never 100%)


So now Compare Efficiency with Happiness,


Happiness = total wishes/desires achieved or fullfilled divided by  total no of wihes/desires times 100%.


We all know what happens if we keep the denominator less and when


denominator (total no of wishes/desires) tends to zero or as it approaches towards zero, Happiness tends to reach Infinity,


 


 
Posted on 12-22-09 11:41 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Why can't you go back to Nepal? 
 
Posted on 12-22-09 12:58 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Stupida, you are not stupid man. I like it.
 
Posted on 12-22-09 1:25 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Quigmire, 5 yrs visa is almost finished....

 
Posted on 12-22-09 1:40 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Wildman....keep your number of expectations as low as you can. You are expecting too much from life....many times happiness comes from giving others, rather than asking or taking away from others


"khoj chan sabaie sukha, sukha vhani,


teyo kaha cha"


"afue mitaie aru li dinue ma jaha cha"


 


"hata ko maila...suna ko thaila"


"kay garnue dhana lay"


"saga ra sisnue khaya ko"


"baysa anandi mana lay".....


 
Posted on 12-22-09 2:02 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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what do you mean happy with student life in America???  are you happy to be in nepal?  we dont need no more philosophical answer....just tell me straight, are you happy to be in nepal?


a hard working student can always be happy no matter where he is. When I was a student in US, i had loans, I was still happy since I had As on all my subjects. a loser can't be happy anywhere.


 
Posted on 12-22-09 4:02 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Wildman, I thought you were talking in general. Don't worry man. Just keep your head up and do your thing. Something will work out for you. 


 
Posted on 12-22-09 4:41 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Quagmire Ji, vhanna sajiloe cha..... yo tapai lay pani bujnue vhakoe cha...ani mahilay pani......ani tes mathi hajur koe jastoe vhagya sabaie ko kaha huncha ra???? aru lay vhanun ya navhanun.....vhagwan pani pacthyapati chan....!!!!!


Anyway, Wildman....you r just normal, like many of us....hami li ni hunthioye testa mixed feelings and frauatrations .....ahilay ni huncha.........tara samaya anusar koe.......


When I was @ ur place , few years back.....auta thul da thiya...bayla bayla ...ramroe ramroe kura garthiya.....uni vhanthiya.....'yo bidharthi samaya vhanay kai yestoe ho.... unli ni hunthioye ray..., baykar aaye chue jastoe......tara kehi varsa pachi enai kura samjayra garba ani ghusi huncha.....' navhandai....uni sahi ho jastoe lagcha.........yeti.......sujab dinchue ki - 'afnoe karthabya bata na chuka'...............vholi ka din haru timra hunay chan..........


For many of us, US was just one-way road; no u turn. SO the best thing is to do keep rolling and find the EXIT that would eventaully take you to the best destination....


 
Posted on 12-22-09 9:48 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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If one is trying to compare ones happiness with someone else, this is not a valid comparison and will never yield any useful results.

Happiness can never be measured by comparing with others, you are happy to have a grilfriend and a cold beer,
i am happy not to have a grilfriend or a cold beer,


you dont have a set future which makes it possible for you to work on realizing the craziest of your dreams,


ps: i totally agaree with Stupida

 
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Posted on 12-23-09 1:16 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Thanks to all the guys for putting in your words. I was kind of talking in general and unfotunately it applies to me as well. The situation we are in right now is quite difficult I guess. Getting a job after graduation is like getting admission in MIT. Going back home makes us think twice due to our political situation over there. For many of us H1 has become like a nightmere. I am not being that pessimist though, but the reality is just around us....so i wish you all guys good luck and wish me too, because I need that....I have got good GPA..and when I apply for an internship...only the reason I get kicked out is,I am not the American citizen....
 


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