What would you do when a girl ask you for a date/relationship?
I am a 29 year old man who never felt in love. I have been approached by a Brazilian girl who recently joined our office. She is 19 and very attractive. Ever since she joined she has asked for a relationship through her friends as she does not speak good English. She worked as a chambermaid, I being a financial accountant.

As I am going to Nepal in 3 months time and would probably choose a girl to marry. You never know whether you will find the suitable match in 3 weeks time or not.

Her friends say I am not a numb but trying to be clever as I have not responded to their constant push.

I felt I owe her at least a word either yes or no.

What do you guys suggest what should I do? As she is the first person who has expressed her interest towards me, I have some feelings for her. If I ended up getting engaged in 3 months time, god knows where this relationship will drag me.

Suggestions appreciated

Haha :))

Ghaarwali bahaar wali was a good movie in my opinion.
Shweeta dahling whenever i write to you Kuch Kuch Hota Hai yaar.
So tink wat will happen when we meet?

therefore i hope anjeet have found his answer.

Manchhe lai kasto Peer pareko chha bajjiya haru Hindi movie ko guff garchha yar, Peer pareko manchhe lai suggestion dinu ko satta ma. Teri ma bajjiya ho

I think Angeet got his answer. There is majority suggestion on Anjeet should bone the hot chick, and go to Nepal and get married.

The rest is just party bhooj and Bhatter, singing and dancing, and making out with those who are not yet married.

hehe. brazilian cheeks are expensive, stay away from the.

What's the dilemma ? I don't see one... ;-)

launa you ask sajhaians for this kinda thing, ask your soul, meaning yourself! :P if you're in love obviously you wouldnt give a damn about anything and go to her!

POints to be noted:

1) She is 19.. a mere adoloscent who cannot even tell you straight that she likes you because she doesnt speak a language you understand and most probably vice versa! (communication gap??)

2) Your impulse to have something with her might affect 2 women in the future (her and your to be wife).

3) Brazillian women get hurt too if abandoned. (Even though she might be wanting a green card from you!)

4) You asking advice and stating that you might get engaged in 3 months with someone else. (Getting your conscience cleared about thinking of getting a teenager laid??)

5) You seem to know what point you are standingoin. Some people have higher ethics and some have lower. You know what you have to do.whatever your conscience tells you. why asking for advice when you know you wont follow it?

If u get a chance to hit that brazilian arsh, i would have three words for ya" U lucky bastard"

Give me this brazillian chick's number, I will solv your proble, while you get married.
Me love her Loooooooooooooooooong time, I will have her in my mind as long as I can remember.
PS: I don't remember too long

10 years gap! sounds pretty interesting plus the languages ;)

AznshawtY I actually know a guy who got married when he was 34 and his wife was 19. He is a Malaysian muslime. He went back to Malaysia and got married there with a local girl. 15 years gaap yaar. Just think when he was 15 the girl had just born.
As I said earlier this only works in asia.

jeesus christ! thats a huge gap! okay, up to 10 is fine but not more than that!

Oh yeah give the Brazilians number to Sajhahities, we all will have a web conference and come up with the conclusions for you Mr. Anjeet.

Lol to hyperthread

"Well all..." <<-- All in one (or all inside one)

oh come on...what kinda question is that ? is that even considered a dilemma? :-S

i am just bored..and got nothing better to do ..so blah blahing here.. :-)
don't mind me

Suyog All in one is fine too ,
common dude its a conference first then comes the decision....
LOL I know what you meant though!!!!

yes, We all want to be in his shoes and get out of it in the morning.

Brazillian chick? damn, i'd hit it! :P
do what you feel best. sajha's been more like love problem solving site more than any other!

redstone --- aakhir euta nepali nai nepali ko kaam aucha bhanya jastai ho ke ;) everyone asks for help :)