Male Chauvinist Pig

Of all the people in the Sajha, you Behoove. I would have never expected you would resort to this. Now that you have done it and I have completely lost my will to participate in Sajha. I still love the dramatization that you have provided in the narration, I must be imagined as evil witch and you are on course on your witch hunt. I wish for similar dramatization here as in Julius Caesar with "Eh tu, Behoove." At the end of this story you will be knighted, and offered accolades in the forms of LIKES, while I will be one to be torched in my defiant act of standing out and speaking.

I still have fond memories of you while you may not remember me, I am actually subscribed to your post. Over the span of two years I have followed you in shadow. No doubt, you are a wordsmith as you are able to depict me as evil person hissing and my screams having  ability to shake your computer screen. I wish I had those abilities. I don't mind you attacking me, I just expected  you did that with more class.

My "F Yous" were directly at the site's administrator lack of moderation. I never wanted to attack any one personally. It could have been my frustration that lead to the outburst. I admit I might have gone little overboard. Yes, I was very angry. I might not have participated in Sajha as much as you did, nor have I offered in the magnitude you do, but somehow I used to feel there is bond among the people who travel and settle thousands of miles away from home. Sadly, those people still hold same mindset.  No matter how angry I was, I still felt bad for the outburst and decided that I should offer my apologies. I entered the room and I was demanded "An apology".  I just could not surrender myself to bruised egos.

You decided to use adjectives such as harlots, hooker to develop my character as such I will regard my anonymity as a boon. Did you see me Behoove calling names at Neo? I only directed two "F Yous" to him and reflect once that you might as well have daughter one day and these constant harassing will serve you reminder.

Why would I direct my fury at Neo? Because I felt he was responsible to keep things in order. I saw his lack of actions as silent endorsement  of things that keeps going on. I just had to make myself heard. Don't mistake my unwillingness to debate with something else, it was actually my respect for you that I did not want to get involved.  That is only reason I left the room in the first place.

Like you said, neo could care less about individual like me. I can agree to that.

I am glad we will never meet in person and I never proclaimed messiah in anonymity. In fact, you have proclaimed yourself as messiah of the "Male chauvinist pigs" by writing this diatribe. Only a male chauvinist can find relation between changing a tampon and banning a user.

 

Yours Truly

Ojaswi Rana

 And how stupid it sounds. After insulting a lady and womanhood, you guys go and say that Ojaswi is actually a guy. it makes this whole argument even worse. And am stumped you do not realise that. 

I do not need to win debates. I am already a winner in real life. Winners do not have to win anything. I am the most cool and happy person you will ever find. The people who can win from this is yourself, Neo, BT and others. A simple apology and you win. I have nothing to win or lose in this debate. I am standing up for what is right. I am not the one who insulted womanhood and laughed it off. 

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freedom, I don't have anything to win. I don't think my comments were harsh to anyone or you as well. I just said what I saw. Sometimes we don't see ourselves unless we see mirror. 
But seems like one who was giving lecture on spirituality is holding a grudge towards me, as he thinks now am his nemesis'. You are welcome bro. Be cool, good for you. You still are my friend. 
 











 

I took that post as a sarcasm, .. It was entertaining.. so I liked it not coz he's ready to call randi again and again.. 
I've been liking his post, he's good at it.
You can read his 'Vanilla' as well. It's good, some may not like it, but I liked it again. 

Liking doesn't mean wholehearted submission of self, if you don't know what I meant, please go ahead and read, Geology Tiger's " "लाइक ", it's contextual. It reflects sort of things why and how we 'like'. 

I don't think — that 'like' invalidated my plea for apology when I am saying I still mean it. 

Have a good one bro 

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 Apology my ass....SMH

Enough with the apology thing.... Don't feed the troll anymore who is going hyperbole with same thing again and again. It isffunny that one person completely ignoring the foul words thrown by someone but he is shouting apologies apologies for the same person who spewed venom with similar foul words on the other person.

 

Someone started a nasty thread, Ojoswi got mad ( may be real may be she was looking for such oppertunityu, who knows) she entered the chat room, fired all her nasty collection (i hope (s)he doesnt have anyhting worse then that) at Ne0 without warning. Behoove couldnt tolerate this behavior of Ojaswi, started a  thread.

After behoove's thread looks like a drama was staged, both Ojaswi and freedom jumped in asking for apologies, 

For me, if  things were not staged most of the behavior are very natural 

1. a guy started a nasty  thread ojwasi got irritated/frustrated/mad whatever whaterve ( undestandable, According to Newtons third law to every action there is equal but opposite recation)

2. Ojaswi enetered chhat room vomitted her anger at ne0 ( not a wise move here from ojaswi's side but hey she is also a ordinary human being, all weakanesses expected)

3, Behoove could not stand Ojaswi's  bevavior, started a thread about her behavior in chat ( Again, Newtons third law, was a reaction to Ojaswis action, used few sharp words but again, hey Behoove being ordinary human being, all weakness expected

All these situations are as expected in present day society and happening everyday in internet,

The debate is neither unique nor the mother of all debates, just very general one. Freedom bro demanded apololgy, thats also ok, but later  Freedom bro pushed it so hard that situation started to become dramatic. 


At this stage I started to think is it natural or staged to create hurricane in a cup of tea ?
Ne0 has provided sajha  forum for people who want to express themslevs in one way or the other. He has shown tolerance as much as he can ( my opnion) to either side of the spectrum but again  all weakness expected on his side too. 

Since the this type of debate is happenign everyday in every langauge  ( check internet ) but Freedom bro you are pushing too hard and looks like taking it  personal  

Freedomji, 
Stop beating the dead horse, and accept that it is dead. It is never going the be alive again. Also please apologize for whole other brown (that includes me), yellow, black race, as you were clearly demeaning to them saying they are inferior some time back. and here is hug for you. 

Looks like things have calmed down a lot over the weekend! I generally take a little break from sajha during the weekend due to other obligations and it helps to put priorities into perspective. Looks like my general outlook has already been put forth by Juggy but I want to respond to Freedom to be fair to his comments.

"Neo you do not have to apologize out of compulsion. Unless you realize what you did was wrong what use faking tears?. And I am sorry, I will be more careful with my analogy next time. I was just writing another analogy but realized it will not be proper in essence so I deleted it. Again you are repeat that Behoove's post is a mix of good and bad. So technically if what you say is true, he should have 1 thumbs up and 1 thumbs down from you. The thumbs down is also there to be used you know that right?. As for me, my defense of Ojaswi and all women is a thumbs down for him."

It's unfortunate that you were not satisfied with my apology, which was explicitly for anyone who were offended. I do not know what you were expecting. As far as the technicality of 1 thumbs up and 1 thumbs down, I'm afraid that is not technically possible. You can either give a thumbs up or a thumbs down for a post. You cannot give both a thumbs up and a thumbs down. So, even if I wanted to take your suggestion, i would not be able to due to technical issue.

On another note, it is regrettable to see your good bye message. Even though people have difference of opinion, it is always fun to see multiple point of views. I always consider sajha as an extended virtual family so people will always have diversity of opinions. However, it is important to be reasonable just so that everyone does not have to scold a family member that they are being unreasonable!

Sajha is just a virtual hangout, it's not the end of the world. It should be taken for entertainment purpose only! Just because you hold a minority view does not mean you are wrong. We just can't take this virtual world too seriously. 

ALSO, it's OK to be wrong sometimes. If you think you cannot ever be wrong, then you need help.

From past sajha experience, we have had many sajha members who have been active in sajha to a point that go way over board and it ends up being they need psychological help in one way or other, and that their sajha activity were just a release from their psychological problems. I  hope that this is not the case with you, and if it is, I sincerely hope that you will get any necessary help.

Good luck to you in all your future endeavors.

Freedom bro,

Welcome back! It seems like you enjoy telling others what to do :)

Like you had instructed me to, I woudn't mind giving thumbs down first,  but unfortunately I see positive things first so I would end up giving thumbs up first :)

As far as psychological problems, the first step is denial, and in my opinion, enlightenment is not something that you can claim for yourself, since it might be a sign of a problem :)

And, yes, by now, I know that you like to have the last word, and I will let you have it this time (If I am mistaken about it then congratulations on doing the right thing!)

Can someone please retire already, can't take this long to move on! 

And here I thought my hug was so enlightening to make him retire. ;-)

 Pray Continue, PLEASE! This is most interesting!!

This was kinda interesting initially, but not anymore.  I dont know how come you guys have so much of time and energy to have a virtual fight and affect your persona life? 

 Good going so far. We can't stop now.