Ok i have been having feelings for guys! well Honestly I felt this way when I was back home as well! But I tried to supress those feelings or thought I was sick n was wondering if there are any brothers/sisters that are going through the same situation!

@Lahure kancha
thanks yaar!
I just had an opportunity to taLK WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS GOING TO THE SAME SITUATION LIKE ME coz of my posting!! n WITH SUPPORTERS LIKE YOU , i M SO GLAD i DID POST THIS N i MEAN IT!!
thanks again!!

 GREEK HISTORY 101: [based upon my conversation with my Friend who is Self Taught Scholar in GREEK History]

--> Will you be shocked if I say PLATO and ARISTOTLE were SEXUAL PARTNERS (for Novice Plato is Teacher of Aristotle) and will you be surprised to hear ARISTOTLE and ALEXANDER THE GREAT were Sexual partner too (Aristotle was guru of Alexander)!!

Don't be surprised cause THEY WERE, before you Question me you should Understand the term PEDERASTY First ( ok here you go en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pederasty) read it first then then we'll proceed further!!

So bottom line is, in Ancient Greek it was common for the Older Men (Teacher) to have a Sexual Relationship with Adolescent Student (young boys), it was considered normal so i feel i won't be wrong to say Most of the Ancient Greek Men's were Bisexual!!

To Understand More about Homosexuality in Ancient Greek do refer this : en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_ancient_Greece

hera babu......timi ajai confused nai chou. US gayo bhandai ma teha ko culture lai aangalnu parcha bhanne chaina ra hami nepali lai suhaudaina pani. Hami typical nepali le testo tadha ko kura sochnu pani hudaina. Timro gay hune echhya/choice hola tara bholi timro bau ama le yo bare tha pauda unharu lai katti naramro laagcha hola yo bare socheko chou? Bato hidna pani laajai mardo huncha hera.Yesto kadam chalnu bhanda agi timi le lakhau patak sochnu parcha. Laagcha timi le dherai keti  bheteko chainou tei bhayera timi lai keta tira attraction badheko matra ho. Ali outgoing hou ani keta tira dherai focus garnu chod deu other than that u should be fine.
Tara being gay is trying to challenge the way of nature.

Define Typical Nepali ??? We are proud of our different root, heritage and customs yet we are all proud Nepali......I don't have answer for what is called typical Nepali, but if you have do share!!

Gay hune ikshya hoina mahasya, he was born that way, it is his Identity!! And there is nothing American and Nepali about it, Humans are same everywhere!! I feel Nepal is more Liberal and Progressive than America in Gay Rights, In Nepal Gay Couples can Marry and transgenders are recongnized as Third Sex (Tesro lingi)...in US there is big discrimination and LGBT Rights are limited, in most of the States they can't even get married!!!! So be Proud of being Nepali that we don't discriminate among our Brother and Sisters, Sons and Daughters!!


समाज परिवर्तनशिल हुन्छ, जुन समाज समय अनुसार परिवर्तन हुन सक्दैन त्यो नासिदै जान्छ!! 

त्यो समाज के समाज जसले एक अर्कामा भेदभाउ राख्छ ?? जसरी महासय तपाइलाई आफ्नो जोइ पोइ रोज्ने अधिकार छ भने, हाम्रो मित्रलाई पनि तेतिकै अधिकार छ!!

Being GAY is WAY of the NATURE...it's MOST NATURAL THING cause it's PART OF HIM/HER......Accepting NOT IS not being NATURAL!!

बुझ्नेलाई श्रीखण्ड नबुझ्नेलाई खुर्पाको बिड!!

@Nepal ma what a sick person ur  ..
being gay is not challenging nature. as laurekancha n other had told you previously. I think you need a help man not gay people.
Learn to accept other for who they are
@visible101 just ignore ignorant like Nepalma. i know your parents will accept you for who you are.

Guys someday if your brother or your son in future comes n says to u he is gay what would you do ..u will kill him or u'll throw em out or make a fun of em...
@visible as laurekancha said tell your parent's n ur closest person i know it l b hard in the begining but eventually they will accept you for who u r ..coz they love you ..
best of luck let us know how you go with your parent's aru tori laure ko kura nasuna..only person you need to confront is your parent's n urslf as long as u r happy n ur parent's accept u dont' even worry about anyone.

 i know few of my friends very good people who are gays n  i have straight friends who i can never trust ..so its about the person u r not  what  ur sexuality or belief is

Good luck gay hunting in Sajha. Bro lie nepali keta nai chayeko jasto cha ni. You might find some old horny guys here in sajha who might be willing to try something different...
But seriously, i hope this is not your imagination. Fantasy  is good only in non-real world.

visible if you are in the US then you might be lucky because there are lot more nepali guys in the US than girls. So chances of finding nepali girls are very low so they might be willing to try out something different because of lack of opportunities. Many Nepali guys are frustrated and desperate as far as finding nepali girls. Desperate times call for desperate measures so who knows.

another avenue to look at is the fashion industry Prabal Gurung who is happily gay and may be interested to meet other Nepalis with similar interests.

good luck

this is an incorrect and ignorant statement: "Being GAY is WAY of the NATURE...it's MOST NATURAL THING"

apparently, you haven't heard about natural selection. homosexuals (be it gay or lesbian) cannot pass on their genes (unless artificial insemination, but in this case, 50% heredity is contributed by non-gay partner). therefore their frequency in the population gene pool wanes out over generations.

am not bashing on gays... just sharing the truth.

Nas ji: but if you insert in boy's then it's all slushy, fudgy and stinky in there??? wtf is that, how'd you know?

@Bhikhaari Also you missed the point, it's Natural for him to accept of who he is than to pretend who he is not!!

Yeah your point is valid, but are you suggesting homosexuality is heretical??

Also, Homosexuality is not limited to Humans only, it has been found on other Species too!!

i don't give a rat's ass if it's natural for him or not. if he's happy with being a gay, then that's fine. it's all about being happy. but all i am saying is nature acts against homosexuality because two penises or two vaginas on their own cannot make babies. you need one from each group.

and NO, homosexuality is NOT heretical. read above. you missed my point completely.

homosexuality is caused due to aberrations in chromosomal alignment and crossing over. it's a fluke of nature that happens due to very many reasons.

Yeah main thing is, if he's Happy then so be it!!

+ yeah that's one of the hypothesis and I kinda agree to it!!

Homosexuality in animals can be explained in two ways. One they didn't get to do it with female so they did it with males. two, they were very horny so they did it with whoever they had the chance with. I don't think they have animals who are strictly gay.

@grg dai---Sathi don't ever be a psychologist!
U suck at your explanations!

@grg dai...Im j/k btw haha....It's just funny the way u explained it!

Lahurre kancha,
I also dont believe, Gandhi was a bisexual. And british might have used as a propoganda to diminish his will power, however, ppl keep on saying this is the dark side of this guy, that guy, who knows.

You also read autobiography, I also read the findings of journalist. It is atleast written by somone, you also read, i also read, but who is gonna decide wht is the truth. I always believe, history is written by winners not looser, whtever a winner says can be truth for future, and looser real truth will be truth among himself or within few reach ppl.A winner , with support of few ppl can make truth twisted to false so is the vice versa.

@vaadgaule
"Fantasy  is good only in non-real world" What does suppose to mean any way sathi! It's the fact that is infront of your eyes but u just cannot broaden ur mind enough to realize that it could be real as well! Just look around man A gay person could be one of your relatives /friends!!

@chaurey, Nas

Hina sathi haru...why do u guys just co-relate being gay/lesbian as SEX only..I Know u guys r straight n might have girlfriends but did u fall love with them people just coz o ftheir boobs/ass , is that all? If that 's the case i feel sorry for them girls!
Being gay Simply means living a n healthy normal life but it's just that u r attracted to same sex where u guys are attracted to opposite sex!
Ani aru mera sati haru did u just wake up one day n thought n said" umm, I might trying being gay on sunday , monday n Tuesday n straight on weekends hm? "Would u make love if a hot guy comes to u n offers it? Nope right! Like wise the hot girls doesn't  do anything to me man! 

So thank you for ya'll suggestions of me trying to have sex with a hot girl! But no thank you n yea save those hot girls for hot guys l;ike YOURSELVES!!
 

@cRAZY neP, laHURE kANCHA
Thanks guys for all your support ....some of my family memebers here in States know about me...at first they were reluctant but they are pretty accepting now!!!
N they are still scared n requests me not to tell about me being gay to anyone else n I think its not coz of the fact that they disgust me but simply coz of the fact that they love me so much n they wouldn't wanna see me getting hurt!!

भने पछि गे समलिङीहरु दई थरि हुँदा रहेछन्, एक थरि चाँहि नाजजीले भने जस्तै गन्हाउने गुदद्वारमा मैथुन गरेर आनन्द लिने, अर्को थरि चाँही छामछुम र माड्मुड सम्म चाँही गर्ने, सँगै रहनसहन पनि गर्ने तर गन्हाउने गुदद्वारमा मैथुन नगर्ने, अनि हाम्रो visible101 चाँहि दोस्रो किसिमको गे समलिङीमा पर्नुभएछ।

यदी छामछुम पनि नगर्ने, गन्हाउने गुदद्वारमा मैथुन पनि नगर्ने तर केटाकेटा बस्दैमा गे समलिङी हुने भए त भए जति सबैलाई गे समलिङी भनिन्थ्यो होला नि, हैन र?  खै हामी पनि लामो समयसम्म कुनै काम कलाको अभ्यास नै नगरि केटाकेटा मात्र सँगै बसेकै हो, तर न त कसैले हामीलाई गे समलिङी भन्यो न त आफूलाई त्यस्तो गे समलिङी हुँ भन्ने दिव्य ज्ञान प्राप्त भयो । 

जे होस् यहाँ साथीभाइबाट ज्ञानगुणको कुरा प्राप्त हुँदै छ त्यसको लागि सबैलाई धन्यवाद!