Friends,
This is your beloved loote again with yet another controversial topic.

If someone is virigin before marriage, should he/she feel proud about it? In other words, is virginity a matter of pride?

Share your views.

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Loote

Sex is the most important task because it tells your character. There is two different kinda sex: rape and prostitution ( some of you think that "if she gets paid and he is satisfied, how has anyone been hurt?"). Rest, there is love, sharing companionship, trust and dedication than go for sex, it happens within commited couple, married people, and GF BF. Once you have sex it means you not only love her/him , but also do sharing, caring, and much more. If you had done this before, it's likly 5% people have chance to break the relationship.
Ok, guy you come up with idea that you do sex with a gal whom you don't know anything? It is just bull-shit.

I think it is. It shows commitment on behalf of yourself toward the partner you may never have met (as in the case of arranged marriage), or even towards the partner you may know for a while and want to marry later on. It also shows commitment towards other things more important in life than sex- such as work, ethics etc.- all of which are a part of a broader spectrum of life improvement- for oneself and the partner. However, if sex is not a issue between partners that are almost certain to get married then it's up to them. For me virginity is a responsibility- towards the image for my family.
However, if you dont think ex is an issue and are just casually "dating [I hate that word since when did Nepalese learn to date? Do they(we) even know, or NEED FOR THAT MATTER, the purpose ofdating?]", then you might want to be careful later on because your spuse may never look at you the same way ever again!

i agree with timetraveller! :) :)

is this even a topic to discuss about.?

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I gotta agree with timetraveller too. What I'm gonna do before I get married is to test the intactness of my hone wala's hymen just to ensure that she's not used goods, know what I mean? This is just the first stage of the test. The second stage entails shoving a coke-bottle in her chacha to ensure that it is flexible--yet firm-- enough for my gargantuan one-eyed snake. I am also gonna grab her tittays to make sure they're not silicone implants, coz if you like em fake, try one of em pornstars. Seriously, if I really wanted to find meself a non-virgin, I would subsribe to bethemask.com(check it out)--it would give me the chance of banging a pornstar(yes, nice landing strip and all that, and they're *shock* actually good in bed.).This buddy of mine is a proctologist/holistic doctor/gynecologist--all in one-- who is so damn good at spotting non-virgins just by the way they walk and sh1t. He says non-virgins have a certain swagger( he says, it resemble's G. Dubya's swagger--hmm, very interesting) when they walk--something virgins seem to lack. Also, check out what clothes she wears. If she's primarily got mini skirts in her closet and nothing else, she's more than likely a hoochie momma with a dildo hidden in her purse or something like that. Also do not hesitate to ask her this question "Do you like going to the beach?". Now why ask this question? Here's the reason: people who often head to the beach are shaved down there, and what you're doing is youre' indirectly asking her if she's shaved or not....! Think about it. It works like a charm.

thugged out - hmm..okay! but you see one thing you can't always check the hymen ke cause it could be broken for various reasons ni! like somepeople are born like that and some could have had accidents ke!!
also hmmm...one question that goes to this thread ke?? how does each person view a virgin as, cause there's different kinds ni like would still be considered a virgin if you've had either anal or oral sex??? so i guess it's different in everyone's view ni!
and thugged out there's no way you could test that ke! if that's how you look at a virgin!

wtf, what a stupid question, SO STUPID!

I guess virginity is a powerful bargaining point. It is possible for virgin people to use the virginity of oneself in a really effective way against the people who are not virgin.

ram ram ram ram ram.................

Nails, since you asked, about anal sex, actually you can tell if she's into backdoor action quite easily. For one, gals who do anal have a hard time controlling their bowel movements. Second, the anus will look like a cauliflower. You have a point about oral. Aren't you in high school? Tell us about "rainbow parties":
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rainbow+party&defid=1003777

I am not an open-minded(like I am about anything) person about this, never will be. My post was a bit sarcastic, but yes, my wife's gotta be a virgin, or I'm gonna dump her so fast she won't know what hit her. That's the bottomline.

thugged out - what's a rainbow party? :S :S

nails
You are putting too much emphasis on circumstancial evidence.

Click that link above. This shock jock dude I listen to in the morning was talking about it. Here's the link again:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=rainbow+party&defid=1003777

There's a book out by an author who discusses these phenomena seen in some high schools. The book has cause quite a stir. The school which she used to do her research is totally riled up about it. Not just the school, the whole community. The highschool is somewhere in the North-East--could have been CT.

khaobaadi - what does that mean??? i think everything needs to be considered ke! so in my view a person that has had oral sex is not a virgin ke!

thugged out - what's the test to test if a guy is a virgin or not?? there is none ni! :S :S

Well, here's how you figure it out: if he lasts more than 3 seconds the first time you have sex with him, then he's not a virgin....!

...i don't think normal people have anal sex except the girls who are in porno....

thugged out - that's dumb ke!! and to really tell you there's no such test to figure out a person's virginity ke for female or for male ke!

clearly i don't care if someone is a virgin or not ke, i was just curious as to how people would exactly define a virgin as ke!

ss74k - i agree with you! :) :)

ram ram ram...........

lol! You're actually wrong. It has been noted that people who do anal and oral and avoid vaginal come from conservative cultures. Plus, after the whole Bill Clinton deal, oral sex isn't classified as sex by some young boys/gals anymore. Furthermore, lots of women are into anal. Supposedly it's a very different type of orgasm. Muslim women, for example, are very much into anal. I don't know about Hindu women though.