Hi guys,

I read through the discussions in Sajha. I appreciate how ideas are thrown back and forth to see both sides of the issues. There is something that has been on my mind for a long time. The issue I want to talk about in this platform is of homosexuality. 

First things first, I am homosexual. But contrary to what pops up in the mind of a lot people when hearing the word 'gay', I am not girly behaving. I am an average looking guy. If anyone were to interact with me or see me, they would not have a clue about my sexual orientation. However, I feel like I am done living a lie. As soon as I am done with my finals, I am breaking up with my girlfriend. I am coming out of the closet. I am thinking of confiding my sexuality to my siblings soon. I would like to tell it to my parents too but I am not sure if they will even be able to grasp the concept of 'homosexuality' without comparing me with a transexual (which I am not). 

Before any one starts off with the arguments that homosexuality is abnormal and not natural, I would like to point out a few facts. Homosexuality is found in species other than humans like bonobos, dolphins, sea horses and even fruit flies. And even if we were to consider it immoral, how does it affect the society? When two homosexuals get together, its a concensual act. No one is forcing themselves on the other person. I have the same aspirations like any other heterosexual couple. I do not want to hide my love for my partner from the society. I want to be able to live with a guy peacefully without being constantly scrutinized. 

So the question that is up for discussion is how does the current generation of Nepal feel about someone's right to love the person who is also from the same gender? I am very interested to see where this discussion goes.

chaurey talking from experience? ;)

@cublas
C/O Chaure :
Happyness does not mean fullment your personnal needs only. You can not be happy making your parents/relative mad. If u want to be happy ignoring your society, you are absolutely wrong. I used define on same way when i was teen. But life is so complex and not good to judge parents love to you for your unnatural needs.
IN this thread you are neither looking for suggestion nor listining other's opinion but you seems counting gay in Sajha.
For your parents( u do not care what other 99% people surrounding think) hapyness is not only you althiouth u think u deserve 100% but social dignity plays higher role than yr personnal interest. You can not prepare your parents facing questions/(asked or unasked! propar word always afraid of facing question and/or not getting chance to answer) about his son's abnormality. Whatver you think but people behind you/your parents are talking about your unnatural way of pleasure( normal peole do the same stuff in secret but that;s secret but people always wondering about asss u accept or not,) if if your happyness is associated with your parent's happyness too, you have to be carefull, not so smart like ass right activist. I just want anybody lives happily without making curse to thier near and dear family.