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Posted on 10-28-08 9:52 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Some people mourn in black but I prefer white. Why? Black absorbs all the colors from the spectrum, how could something filled with colors be used for mourning? Black should be used to celebrate. I use white because it reflects all the colors. It has no color, hence has no life. That is how I have lived my life for the past years; I have lived it in a colorless world with no emotions. Life throws different things at you… but sometimes these things can get so overwhelming that you no more want to have emotions and you no more want to have colors. Emotions and colors are all just a way to invite sadness to yourself. With everything good, comes everything bad, which also is accompanied by hurt and sadness. I am tired of being a part of the negative so I gave up the positive. One can’t be too selfish to be asking for the good but not the bad. Hence, I embraced nothingness; numbness brings you no hurt and liberates you. I have been liberated for years now.

            Everyone is born and everyone goes through the same stages of life- infancy, toddlerhood, childhood, teenage and then adulthood. I was born and I too went through infancy and toddlerhood, but something took away the other stages from me. I was robbed out of my childhood and teenage years for no fault of my own. Some of us just lead life in a different way than others but when I tried to tell people around me what had happened, no one paid any heed. I was five years old back then, hardly out of my toddlerhood and into childhood when I was made to realize the truth about this world. It has been twenty years since then but I still remember every detail vividly. Many people say that the reason I remember the detail is because it was in my imagination and I have led myself to believe that it was reality. I have been to shrinks and what do they tell me? They tell me I have an over active imagination… I wish they could explain my nightmares and tell me why I dream about that night every single day of my life?

            Everyone told mommy how beautiful I was ever since I can remember. I was often told that I was a beautiful child, not cute but beautiful. I can’t tell how I look now because I haven’t seen my reflection for years now. Years change your appearance a lot. I remember having hazel eyes and red lips. I had always been a plump child and as long as I can remember, I hated it. People everywhere were running to pinch my cheeks and compliment me on my curls. Mommy made me dress in frilly pink and red clothes. They were always filled with color, bright colors, colors that make my head reel now. But that’s what I remember of myself before it happened. I was a happy child, maybe I was bestowed with too much happiness. Everything needs to be in the right proportion- if someone ever gets more than their share of happiness, the world has a way of evening it out.  My parents always seemed to be happy, though my mom had tendencies of locking herself in the room for a whole day sometimes. Daddy and I never had any problems with that. We were happy going out by ourselves when mom got her spells. That’s what daddy called it- her spells.

            Daddy was the nicest man in the world. Yes he was- he is no more. I sometimes lay down when I have nothing to do and wonder how he looked. I can’t recall, he had hazel eyes but t hats all I remember. I try to feel sad that I can’t remember him but I can’t be sad. Mommy on the other hand, scared me. I saw her once on the floor shaking like she was being electrocuted. They say that’s called seizures but try explaining that to a 3 year old! Ever since, I was scared of mommy. Sometimes when she was stirring something, I would remember the moment I saw her on the floor and I would run away. I once remember hiding under the bed. Mommy was trying to take me out of there but I was scared. I was scared that she would start shaking again and that she would turn into something else. Mommy started crying when I would not come out.  “My own daughter is scared of me” she cried and cried and I came out of there when I could not stand it anymore. I went and sat on her lap and cried with her. I didn’t know why I was crying, I just felt sad that mommy would cry so much.

            Sometimes mommy would talk to the air. I saw her but did not say anything; I thought all mommies talked to the air. She would smile and act like she was talking to her friend. It was amazing at times to watch her do that. It was like watching TV, only I would be staring at mommy. When I think about mommy… I think about the color gray. Don’t ask me why, that’s just how I see her.  I have to sigh when I think of mommy.

             We had just celebrated my fifth birthday, and it had been wonderful. We had gone to a place that let us ride ponies and I got wonderful presents. I got my own doll house, a lot of dolls, some more of the frilly dresses that I now loathe and other small things. Mommy didn’t like the crowd, she never did. Daddy said she could not differentiate between the people and her friends. Only she could see her invisible friends, so that made her very confused. Days after my birthday, mommy was always in her room with her spells. It had been a week already. I really didn’t mind mommy being away because I had the beautiful dolls to play with. I was a happy girl!

            It was a week after my birthday that mommy finally came out of her room. She looked at me and smiled, she looked so relaxed and I was happy to see her come out. Happiness felt good, a warm feeling in your tummy that spread throughout your body. I miss happiness!

             That night when I was sleeping in my room I heard daddy screaming. He was shouting at mommy to stop, but I could not understand what was happening. I ran towards their room but I could not find them there. It was dark, I was scared of darkness. My heart was beating fast and I was so scared that I could feel butterflies in my stomach. I felt like someone would come out of the darkness and pull me into it. I didn’t know if I should look around for them, so I went back to the room. Daddy was screaming louder now. I tried to cover my head with the blanket, but the screaming did not stop. I put the pillow on my head… the screaming would still not stop. I shut my eyes tight, thought about my dollie but the screaming did not go away. I finally had to open my eyes and run down the stairs. I ran towards the screams and ended up in the kitchen.

            I stopped dead at the door. I could not move though I tried to. I could not stop staring at daddy. I did not look at mommy once, so I don’t know how she looked or if she was smiling while hurting daddy. I don’t know if mommy was talking to one of her invisible friends or if she felt any pain while daddy was dying. All I saw was daddy covered in blood and his expression. I can now understand how he was feeling that night. He looked scared and hurt, hurt that the love of his life was doing this to him. He had cuts all over him and he was staring at mommy, it looked like he could not believe what she was doing to him… and then he saw me. He looked scared when he saw me. I felt like he was trying to say something, and I was trying to understand but before I could understand anything, mommy shoved the knife into daddy, and he closed his eyes. I waited for him to open them but he never did. I knew that he was dying… I had never seen a dead person, but at the age of 5, I knew my daddy was dead. I felt something cold inside me. It felt like someone had put their hand on my heart and was squeezing it as hard as they could. I was suffocating, I felt like the room was closing in on me. And when I felt like I was about to lose consciousness, mommy turned around and looked at me.

            She had a smile on her face and she had a distant look on her eyes. She was covered with blood. I have tried to erase that face from my memory for a long time now. At first it hurt me… now I just find it a bit annoying. That face of hers with a slight smile and blood dripping from the side of her face and hands. Daddy’s blood. Mommy then came to me and took me in her arms, carried me to the sofa. “No one will hurt you now,” she whispered in my ear “Sammy told me how he was hurting you, and now he is dead…” Those were the last words I heard before I lost consciousness. 

            When I woke up, I was in a room with white walls and lots of sunshine. The room was white... fit for mourning. The sunshine hurt my eyes. My body was weak, but my memory was strong. I recalled every moment… and the more I remembered the more I hurt. I started shouting and crying, trying to get away from the bed where I lay. It was not long before some people in white came in and held on to me… they injected something in my arm. I can’t remember how many times this happened. All I recall is people coming in and telling me that my parents died in an accident, I tried to explain that I saw what happened but they would not listen to me.

            And one day while I was laying in my bed, a man who I had never seen before came in. He looked at me and smiled. “I’m Sammy,” he said. He was mommy’s friend! I screamed and screamed until I fell asleep with the help of an injection. But Sammy did not stop coming. He came on regular visits… he visited me almost every day and slowly I got used to him. He said he did not know what happened to mommy. But he believed me. Acceptance felt good back then. He believed when I told him what happened. Sammy brought friends with him. He brought Trista, his niece who was around my age… and then he brought other nameless people. Soon I had friends. And soon I felt numb. I enjoyed their company but felt nothing towards them. I knew that I could not let myself get hurt like that again.

            I was transferred to a “mental sanatorium” when I was six, though I had no idea what that meant. The doctors explained that schizophrenia had a genetic tendency. I had no idea what that meant either. I was put in a quiet room to myself. That has been my home ever since. And they let me dress in white. They let me stay in my room without coming out. In fact, they prefer if I stay in my room. But who am I to complain, I like staying here. Sammy visits me here all the time. Sometimes he comes in the middle of the night when I have nightmares, he comes and talks to me in the middle of the night, and then he vanishes. Trista helped me overcome loneliness when I felt lonely as a child. That was a bad feeling- a feeling that clutched at your heart and made it cold like ice. I miss loneliness too.

            Trista is still 7. She has been seven since the time I saw her. Sammy still doesn’t have any gray hair, but I don’t mind them being the same. The shrinks say they don’t exist. Who are they to tell me that the only permanent and real part of my life does not exist? Would you believe anyone if they came and told you that water did not exist? Water that you see, feel and taste every single day of your life. Or what if they told you that your mother was a part of your “over-active imagination?” Shrinks- they think they know it all. Oh, there is someone knocking at the door… I don’t like opening the door for people. Sammy never knocks, nor does Trista, they just glide in through the closed door. I would want to do that some time. The last time I tried, I hit the door so hard that my head split open. I need to convince them to teach me how to do that. I need to go back to my life now. Its black outside… its night time. The world clebrates in black each night while I mourn alone.

           

(Thanks to cow, for pointing out my black-white confusion!)
Last edited: 28-Oct-08 10:46 PM

 
Posted on 10-29-08 7:33 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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"Would you believe anyone if they came and told you that water did not exist? Water that you see, feel and taste every single day of your life."
They said it was an accident but I believed you. Then, Sammy comes for a chit chat; I felt a switch. I guess that was intended. This is a beautifully written complex plot.
-SunnyDev

 
Posted on 11-02-08 6:16 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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there is no confusion...... After I read it I just was dumb found. I was dumbstruck and seriously was numb. Well rythm Well it's written not to say black or white but it was written to find the gap of the lies in the lines of  the truth. The  unusual talking of the mother was really  scary as I kept myself in the place of the lil gal.. Well I can remember once I pushed my sister  . I did it intentionally but I didn't really wanted to push her to the fire place. I pushed but I pushed her so hard that she went just over the fireplace and got burnt.. dyaam I was scared to death... Well fortunately nothing happened to my sister... She loves meh alot and is like my best friend for life..!!! well when kids are scared they mean it and their way of expression things will just make yu feel bad. I felt bad for the lil gal..

Sammy .. well the character sammy was brought up before but I didn't know why he was brought later knew  something different......!!! happened. Father was taken away and SAmmy was brought....... LIL kid always dreamt of the same dream over and over again.. that is a torture that the mom shouldn't have given to the lil young gal.. !!!  BLACK or WHITE they are colour...... it matters to you what  the colour is choosen for and the meaning for the colour is given by yu" the person"

Live and Let live..!!!!!!

don't bother to check my grammar ....!!I know I am bad at it...!!

ROCKS..!!!


 
Posted on 11-02-08 7:19 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rythm,

I am not a good reader. I can't  keep my eyes reading for long time. But you made me to read a lot. Good work dear!


 
Posted on 11-02-08 7:26 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Story is wonderful, also in reality, I know some families in Nepal suffered similar tragedy.Your story reminded me those. Thanks for the story.


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Posted on 11-03-08 8:23 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rythm babez,

this piece was very refreshing. (i need some tryptophan:P)

after these hectic psychology lecures.

I hope to read 'em more.

 

 
Posted on 11-03-08 11:32 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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wow. what a story!! schizoprenic with psychosis, is it??

rhythm, you seem to be a great storyteller. whats amazing is that, you just don't have a story, you have a way of getting into your readers. your short story is like that khasi ko masu mom cooked in dashain. a treat i don't want to miss!

 
Posted on 11-04-08 12:24 AM     Reply [Subscribe]
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rythm hunny, i ve never been a good admirer; i ve been one of those rare auroras in the sky when admiring ppl. Its not that i dont admire the deservee, but for me good is jus another failure short of better, and better almost the best, because 'I am tired of being a part of the negative so I gave up the positive'... :p bravo! i just got a new tag line for my msn!! cheers!
 
Posted on 11-04-08 2:51 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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Rythm,

 

Writing is an arduous task, especially because you need to narrate everything succinctly and still ensure that your point reaches across. The other fact that makes writing more difficult is; choice of words that makes the readers stay adhered to your story. There are two types of writers, the first one is more observant, and publishes after frequent rehearsals, the other, however, writes merely for adulation.

 

I do not want to go further to explain what sort of writer you are, but your effort is definitely laudable. Not every one is as audacious. But then again, not everyone can be a writer too. It takes good amount of reading, inherent creativity and a greater caliber to interpret your thoughts. I have witnessed you writings for last two years, read your replies, and have even commented on them a few times. With apology in advance, I must say that your writing lies in the lower level of mediocrity. You have not advanced to a better writer.

 

I might get killed by your admirers while I type these words, but I came across a lot of mundane terms, clichés, and ambiguous statements. For example:

 

“Life throws different things at you”….. – what does this mean?

 

“Everyone is born and everyone goes through the same stages of life- infancy, toddlerhood, childhood, teenage and then adulthood” – why is ‘everyone’ repeated? And then, does life ends at adulthood? How about being old?

This sentence should have been written as follows to make it more precise –

“Everyone undergoes similar metamorphosis in life (Period).”

It is precise, and does not have redundancies. (This is not the best example, but at least better than the one you have written).

 

“I was often told that I was a beautiful child, not cute but beautiful” – ‘not cute but beautiful” is superfluous.

 

‘Hence, I embraced nothingness; numbness brings you no hurt and liberates you’ – how does nothingness liberate you?

 

‘I am tired of being a part of the negative so I gave up the positive’ – this sentence is poorly written, ‘positive’ what?

 

Rythm, the only thing I find the best in you is, you make an effort, instead of posting something absolutely garbage. But it has been two years since you started writing, and I am really sad to see that it is not going anywhere. And alike most others, do you simply write to seek adulation? Or is it really a passion? Had it been a passion, you should have taken your writing to a different level.

 

If you believe you are a remarkable writer just because you are subscribed by a few in sajha, I must say you are wrong. You need to bring more insight in your stories.

 

I request you not to take this criticism in a negative stride, I do not want to lose what could be a better writer in sajha. But yes, I yawned through the first half and did not care to read the second.

 

You must also understand that besides the ones who sugar coat a bitter pill, there are few others who criticize off limits. I am one of them. You can argue that you at least made an attempt, and here I am, lambasting your story to the core and could not make an effort myself. True, but everything written in a common portal such as sajha is subjected to criticism, I am simply calling spade a spade. I am not ruling out the fact that I can be a worse writer if I write that is. But just for the sake of criticism can’t I reply truthfully?

 

Angeleyes, I can already see you preparing a reply to cuss me out. However, I have found your writings fare a lot better than Rythm’s.

 

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Posted on 11-04-08 5:25 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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P.S: Jet, You say you have commented on other writings of mine in the past... errr... different nick?
 
Posted on 11-05-08 9:40 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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A dark and captivating tale. Different from many of your previous stories. Good stuff. :)
 
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Is it Cappy I "see"after all this time?! Ainch!! Back for good ho ki kaso? :)  Missed  ya all!

Rythm...will read it tomorrow with my morning cuppa hai ta.

The bed beckons for now.


 
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Captain... OMG... is this for real?? Are you BACK? Where have you been... you completely owe me an explnation.. (Afterall I am your ex.. lol) Glad to see you back though. :)

 


 
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Ainch ainch, Eowyn

Rythm -

Don't ask, dont tell  but I did email you.

(Now I hope Poonte doesn't demand the source of that quote in APA and MLA format - he he )




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