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 how to reject a girl?
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Posted on 03-20-13 8:35 PM     Reply [Subscribe]
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 My kith and kin are showing prospective brides for me and I had to add them in facebook in order to interact with them. Now the problem is how to reject them?I don't wanna sound rude and wanna be as polite as possible. Any suggestions to deny them gracefully? thanks! 
 
Posted on 03-20-13 8:59 PM     [Snapshot: 57]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Tell them you have a friend and handsome guy, he is interested, so u had no choice.. then u can send them my facebook or give me their facebook... :)

 
Posted on 03-20-13 9:06 PM     [Snapshot: 78]     Reply [Subscribe]
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 Dude, That's what happened to me. I had to say that i am looking for a mature girl (she was little young !). I told her you're still young and you need to complete your studies and all that.

But i still kept her in facebook. Days went by and started chatting with her again in facebook pretty much everyday. Now, here i am married with her now  lol 

 
Posted on 03-20-13 9:18 PM     [Snapshot: 101]     Reply [Subscribe]
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 nice story US returnee..but I don't envision myself in that kind of situation. She is just not my type. And I worry....if I should add other prospective brides as well. It is just so difficult for me to say NO. :(
 
Posted on 03-20-13 9:20 PM     [Snapshot: 121]     Reply [Subscribe]
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 @nagaan, that sounds like a plan. Why don't you pass along your facebook ID so that I in turn can pass along to the girls? I would be more than glad to do you that favor... :D
 
Posted on 03-20-13 9:57 PM     [Snapshot: 182]     Reply [Subscribe]
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ok lincoln bro,

just say to them nice, handsome guy, age 29, working in usa, has car, house.. hoina.. they will also be happy ni that this guy from usa is taking interest in them.. good for u also ni for giving good referal... and good for me also.. everybody happy..

http://www.facebook.com/
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Posted on 03-21-13 12:37 AM     [Snapshot: 365]     Reply [Subscribe]
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1)Tell her in a nice way that you cannot see the relationship going beyond friendship. It is
  better to be honest, otherwise she might think you are leading her on and might start to
  fantasize.

2)Send her an "accidental" email. If her name is Anmol, address her as Anjali or something
  Create a fake story. For example, "Anjali, it was nice to chat with you the other night.
  I hope when i am in Nepal, we can go to Nagarkot as planned."

3)Send her a goodbye email which goes something like, "The past year has been wonderful. You are
  a nice person and it was a pleasure meeting you. However, i do not see any possibility of a
  relationship between us. I wish you best of luck and happiness for your future."

4)Send her an "accidental" text message on her mobile.

5)Change your facebook status to "In a relationship." And appear busy on facebook.

6)Tell her you are not really into Nepali girls. You like korean or filipino girls.
 


 
Posted on 03-21-13 3:10 AM     [Snapshot: 437]     Reply [Subscribe]
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Aaaba bhayeni "No" ta bhannai paryo. Just tell her that she is a great girl
and she deserves someone who will love her a lot but you are not the one
for her. She deserves to know what you did not like in her. So, try to explain
in a polite manner your point of view. 
Best wishes finding "the ideal girl" :)
-Geshe


 
Posted on 03-21-13 12:19 PM     [Snapshot: 682]     Reply [Subscribe]
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 thanks geshe. your input was insightful.
 
Posted on 03-21-13 1:19 PM     [Snapshot: 745]     Reply [Subscribe]
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US returnee:

That was a good one. Once they get a hold of you and are determined, you just can't do anything bout it. hehee lol
 
Posted on 03-21-13 2:07 PM     [Snapshot: 810]     Reply [Subscribe]
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tell her you think of her as a bahini LOL
 
Posted on 03-21-13 7:04 PM     [Snapshot: 977]     Reply [Subscribe]
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WELLL learn from da druggist !! SAY I got herpes and hiv by doing drugs.
 
Posted on 03-21-13 10:00 PM     [Snapshot: 1112]     Reply [Subscribe]
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@ Druggist,

she might say, "It is ok. Nepal survives on Aids!" :)


 


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