What should i do guyes

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salam_namaste

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If a girl says choose your family or me. whom do u choose?

bisal

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your family

pilot23

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it depends broda. u shud first see whoz right n whoz wrong..ur family is also important for u and if ur luv is true thn the girl is also imp for u..aafno family yedi wrong cha vane u cnt jst leave the girl. common dude usle pani ta timro lagi vanera sacrifise ta obviously garekai cha hola nii timle pani ta uslai support garnu parcha nii..
dnt take any decision in haste. frst thnk seriously cz if u once lose tht gal may be u wnt gt her bak ever n u might hv to repent throughout ur life...
best of luck dude n dn wrry evrythngz gnna be alritt...

spreadlove

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Life is about choices you make buddy. Sometimes choosing becomes utterly tough, especially when it comes to choosing your life partner which demands what-to-do-what-not-to-do sorts of sacrifices you have to make. Carefulness, maturity and far-sightedness play a big role in your kind of case. I think often times we discount our parents opinions when we should at least hear them out because we think we have gained enough maturity at least to decide our own future. But listen to them, they would never want you to suffer, provided, have your say as well. May be they are not able to see the girl via your eyes, may be they are missing out something that needs to be understood. Importantly, talk to the girl as well, they question she is asking looks kiddish, but is highly important as well. She needs to understand that today if you choose her over your family, tomorrow she might be the victim of abandonment as well. Its a plain human nature, nothing personal.

Bottomline, dont compromise your family. Work out between you and your girl.

kalam

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i think its a very tough question to answer. unfortunately it is iam sure a very common problem nowadays. and obviously every situation is different but i would suggest go with your family unless you feel like your family is completely wrong.

bisal

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If a girl asks me to choose one, I’ll dump her on the spot and look for another girl who respects my family. I expect from my family to respect her as well. In this case I am blessed.

pilot23

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yaa right bisal u r indeed blessed in this case thats y ur sayin, ull dump that gurl on the spot cz u neva been in such situation...
its easy givin out suggestions but its equally hard being on the situation....

nixactly

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k bachha jasto kura gari ra hola....dimag chaina timi haru ko.....esto jabo kura requires discussion huh???

ज्याकयास हरु

spreadlove

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nixactly...even your one line input is a part of discussion....r u a jackass as well...In sajha we care, we care about brothers/sisters/ Nepalese. Any input that could bring their spirit up should be encouraged....l

pilot23

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ta muj! lai yo kura jaabo lagcha vane kina bichma hero banera aaunu paryo talai ch!knee.....side laag muj! ta rand! lai kalle post ma aayera tauko dukha vanya cha ch!kne discuss garnu chaina vane muj! chupa lagera bas na ki muj! sajha tero bau ko ho k hi issue nikalnu agadi taalai sodhna laii...ch!kne.

pilot23

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thts for the faggot nixactly.

191karma

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I think choose family. If she loves you, she will also respect your family. Looks like she is selfish which I dont think is a good choice in a long run. You can find another girl (it may take time), but you cannot replace your family.

NitiSa

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I have read somewhere that “"It took 18 years for a mother to make her son Adult (in Nepal, until he leave the house) but it took only 18 minute for a girl to make her fool." Anyway you do have a situation and this is tough. If she is your true love then she should never make you choose . If she doesnot understand the value of family then she is not going to understand the one she is going to have with you in the future. If its your family making you choose then you have to find out the reason ( why they don’t like her) I would say both are important part of life so its better to talk with both and resolve this issue. When love is in the picture.. it should cause harmony not the other way

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pintu

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Man, of course your family.

Jai_Nepal

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Who do you chose?

A. Your family
B. Girlfriend
C. Neither
D. Need more info.

Answer: D

Gay Goat

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It is not a reasonable demand in relationship, and you lack leadership in life.

nixactly

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guys u can rant at me whichever u want....i juss want you guys to step up.....and take these decison by yourself......there are some other imortant things that needs discussion.....theres no question that i wud choose my parents over my gifrlfriend in such case.......take it easy guys..

devroad

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At any level, I don't think you can compromise your family. There can be things that cannot be easily settled, but I think you should choose to make compromises with both your family and your girlfriend/wife. It's never a wise choice to leave your family, and if the girl is someone you choose to live with the for the rest of your life, you should try to work it out. It will definitely be hard, but there is nothing that can't be done. It is a decision that will affect you for the rest of your life, so make sure you know what you are doing before you do it. Often at times, you make the wrong choice and later opt to not like it when family ties have already been broken, and things are not as same as they were before.

I think you should carefully listen and understand the circumstances that you should face, should you choose to go one way or the other. It's never an easy choice but, before you make any down drop decisions, I think you should really consider listening to what your family is trying to convey. They might be right or wrong, depending on how you perceive things, but they would never lead you on the wrong path.