Is this only for gals? If for boys too, i answer that when guys give damn to gals, he loves her coz gals doesn't know the respect if he gives too.

what????? i really didnt get it!!!! how can u say that "ok that guy is in love"/./....

Ok, I can't give u the practical eg, but if i have to say the truth about a guy loving a gal is "When he dedicates everything of his life for her, even if he doesn't get anything" How did u like?

A guy is in love with you if he listens to you.I mean really and sincerely listens to you remember important dates which has significance for you.- CAUSE guys don't even remember there best friend's b'day A guy is in love with you if he calls you before you sleep and after you wake up. Ocassionally calls or texts you ,checking out how you doin? Tells you about his dreams and ambitions. He is jealous or is interested of your guys friends. Hope it helps and the guys is in really love with you.

hehe..well not really sure or know about love...but if ur talkn about being attracted to another person..esp at the start/beginnnin ;oP..i guess the person will give the other person tonnes of attn maybe to the excessive side?haha (if ur skipping everything..pls just read the last paragraph!;oP hehe) person will seem to be gettn possessive/sensitive/curious esp when it comes to things related to ur frens of the other gender?tho if both person has been together for a while and there is trust with each other..less of these..tho they might show a tinge of jealousy time to time?which is a good thing no?;oP hehe.. basically i guess u have to lookout for those small things/details he/she does for u that no one has done(or might do) for u..the willingness to be there for u time and time again.. even tho smtimes it seems its too troublesome for the other person?u know willing giving a lot..lot more than ur normal frens?;oP hehe.. anyways i shall stop here..typing like i know!?.. i guess if tacts and etiquette is thrown out of the window(which a lot of ppl might find totally unromantic blah blah blah ;oP hey im a guy!im givin a guys view!and dun the other gender always feel we lack so much in that department?;oP)..best is if u like the other person and u feel he/she might like u..lay it straight out :oD..smtimes words are clearer than small un-noticeable actions eh? ;oP hehe..tho would u believe that?trust is a big factor? but i guess the "fulfillment" part is when as as each day passes by..ur still finding out(and u cant seem to stop feeln of "knowing") esp being with the person..that the other person loves/cares for u so much!and u do too!and u go on sayn to urself..so this is love huh?so i did fall in love and the other person loves me huh?;oP hehe ok enuf bhakwash if this love thingy exist..i believe its a journey that starts..and that will never end?esp if its really *drum roll* "love" ;oP...u just have to ride with it?tho the ride might bring u joy and sorrow etc..but 1st u have to make the hard decision of..loving the other person?which will be hard if u already have been heartbroken before?hehe.. this might just come naturally to some of us?(good for them!) for some other knuckleheads like me!no fret!less tension!;oP hehe.. arghhh!!skip everything i just typed and hope u read this end part!..i feel there is just no definite way to find out if the other person loves u..loves u the way u want to be loved?;oP hehe..each of us have their own definition of this word called love dun we?but wat matters is..if u like that person..give urself a chance!go for it!:oD(ok im being a hypocrite here which i am!;oP hehe)...esp if he/she seems to be showing u lots of attn and doin those things(tiny details esp tryn to be there) for u that most ppl would not bother with :oD but us humans..i guess the conventional idea of romance is that the manly the knight in shining armour loves to woo or while the fair maiden waits to be wooed? anyways good luck!:oD

thanks a lot guys... it is really imp for me..... i love this guy named A and he too does love me but i am really confused... we stay together but we dont have a physical relation ......... he is very understandin and gives me my space but sometimes he is very rude to me but sometimes he does like very cute things for me..... cook food and if i am sick he brings lots of fruits and he cares a lot ............i dont know i am madly in love with him and if he leaves me god knows what will happen to me..... so plz help me out ... what do u think????

im crackn up sayn this..but yeah..dun think too much!! haha... u said ur unsure..so dun jump and rush just cos ur scared of losing him(dun let ur doubts get the better of u!:oD tho its hard :oS hehe)..he seems to like u..and im sure u do too and he sees that too?im sure u do the same for him like he does for u?..plus when did rush ever do good?(oops i gotta tell myself that too about the rush thingy!always am rushin onto things!atti!:@ ;oP) this sounds like a cliche but..well as they say..go on with the flow?:oD if u feel like takin "risk" well u only will know once u do it hoina? haha..i just felt like a counselor(an unqualified at that! ) good luck again!:oD

you can never tell if your guy is in love with you...what you can tell is if you are in love with him...and if you think you are, I suggest you be absolutely sure. Let me put it this way.... (If) someday you find out that the guy is actually seeing another girl, and would be happier with her than you...how would you feel? Would you cry for yourself or smile for him? I think therein lies the answer you are seek.

haha i agree wid u usablues that u can neva tell that a guy is in luv wid u but u can surely find out if the guy is interested on you... BUt u can't tell hez interested cuz he luvs u or hez interested jus cuz u r preety ..or watever the reason mite be ohh alina yea dun rush... he mite jus thnk u as a frien and probably helpin u as a frien... well my suggestion try to spend more time wid him.. u know hang out, go out for site seein.... or watever... learn more abt him n the way he react when hez around u.. n finally ask him on a date ^^ Gud Luck alina

calling ... txting... everyday is not love but just a show up .... a real one is how practical he is ... in a real wrld... juss my thought ...

that might b an infatuation.....b careful....relation is a long way 2 go.....

" but sometimes he is very rude to me " This cleary indicates that he does not love you. He could only be a close friend.

I think this is also one way to look for it... That means you may don't even trust yourself.... How...Let me tell you some... Someone who love you told you ,..I love you .And you are asking ,....Do you really love me...? ..Because you don't trust yourself and you don't believe on him or her. BUT on otherside when some one tell you I am Upset with you...You never ask...Are you really upset with me....cause you trust and you are so confident as well as you believe he or she really is upset with you ....that's a lack of confident yourself .... FIrst ask your self insid you ,,....I promise you will find the exact answer yourself.

Its so simple. If he says he loves you then that means he loves you. Nothing more and nothing less.

Eightzotwo when guys say i luv u 8 out of 10 they dun mean it ... i mite jus b sayin that as a frien

thanks a lot for such a good advice..... u guys have been so sweet to me and thanks a lot.... i know what exactly i want and wheere is our relation heading towards.......... u take care

ALINA, go and express him that you love and care for him. I think this way: If he also loves you that is great. If he does not love you yet but when you express yourself to him, begins to realize your feelings and then falls for you, that's is also great. God forbid, if he does not love you or only takes you as a good friend/room mate and when you express yourself to him, he walks away from your life you are betteroff knowing for sure that he is not the man. At least, you will not day dream being with him. The sonner all confusions, especially of this nature is cleared, the better it is. Also, you should tell him that you love him instead of hiding your feelings within yourself because, he might love you but might be waiting for the green light from your side. If you don't tell him anything and some time later he fallas in love with someone else, you'll regret big time that you should have told him your feelings. Actually, I have seen this happen to friend of mine. Both the guys and girls had feelings for each other, but neither of them expressed it and despite knowing that they loved each other, the relationship just ended. We all have the birth right lo love the person we like, so there's nothing wrong or any thing shy in it. Go for it. Good Luck and do let us know the outsome in the sajha thread.