How much should one sacrifice in a relationship?
How much? I don't think there is any limitation, but should be from both.:) Make any sense?:S My brain's been short circuit.:)
I believe love and relationship are two different things which people have a lot of confusion about.
There are people who are in relationship yet dont love each other and there are people who are in love but dont have a relationship.
AND there are people who are in relationship and are in love as well.
love happens first and to carry on that love we need good relationship.
I think relationship means having faith on one another.
lau baa k ho yesto,,lup and relationship re....sounds like a bigger deal than a spaceship or a battleship,,,,that needs to be put thru a lot of stress analysis in order to be proven that the passengers in it are indeed going to be safe and make their way back home from mission XYZ..huh huh...
i like nidhi's answer. faith and trust are the only thing needed. there is no such thing as sacrifice. that case would be compromise and won't keep anyone happy in a long run.
The question itself shows you're not ready for one dude. If you're in love or are ready to bein a relationship, time is not an issue, it's the thoughts.
love and relationships are overrated
AAh what a topic, makes me so sentimental. Love and relationships are like taste and feeling. You can never describe it but try to compare the feeling with something else. Love is something that makes you forget your existence, you are in extasy when you are in love, everyting blooms, everything smiles. Ever inch you can see welcomes you. Its like tasting khir, until you have eaten khir, no none can describe it to you, what it tastes like.
Relationship is something you share. The more the merrier, the level of association with your counterpart, the depth of understanding, merging of souls as if you are two being with one soul... It is the magnitude of affecttion between two beings bringing them togather even if they are far apart in any dimension.....
Well I am glad to share that I had a small piece of it and boy it was good. My love my love for life, she left everything for me, her family, her dog, her city, everything for me. Its my turn now................................
Zingkira,
Don't even bother. What are you gonna leave anyways? Can't you see that you have nothing to lose now? She will TAKE AWAY everything. Kattu chai samti rakhnu bro natra nidd and chain ta gayo nai hola... kattu sattu ni jala. LMAO.
J/k mate.
IndisGuise ;)
Zingkira,
I liked your analogy about love and relationship but why KHIR????
I think, the time to get out of the relationship is when you are trying to limit yourslef from giving your ALL.
hmmmmmm.......! :D i can tell from experience that you can give both all you have but it just won't be enough for the other person no matter what you do ke! :) :) so they both suck, just keep out of both of them and when you're getting old and you really need someone to help you out when you're sick and stuff then just get married ke! and you're done ni! :) :) or you could always hire someone to look after you in your old age or someone might feel sorry for you and give you medicine in you sick bed ni! but love and relationships! hahaha! you're kidding me right? :D :D
cause you just can't trust people in this world, they all look towards only their benefits ni and when you can't trust anyone then there is NO WAY that a relationship could develop and hmm.. love okay say you fall in love with somone but if you don't go on to develop a relationship that love thing or infatuation will evetually die out! tadha, that's what i think! :D :) and hmm.. if it doesn't go away then you just haha messed up your whole life so the best thing to do is: Stay out of it! :P and don't make me say later on when you suffer like hell - I told you so!! (wink,wink) :P
I think the idea of calling things overrated, has become overrated in itself.
One thing I have found in decent females is that when their feelings are dead, it is never revived.
For eg., This wonderful girl used to like me and she was picture perfect example of understanding, Nepali independent and pretty lady , which ofcourse most of the Nepali girls are. So, she told me, she liked me. It was surreal moment, kinda like awkwardness; why me? What I gotta offer? So, I tell her that I wasnt interested and my "priorities" were different. She accepts and continues to be a super friend. I realise that I need her, relinquish to the fact that I should be with her. Then, I make subtle moves and guarantee myself that she isnt the same, not because she has other man but becuase my words were too strong for her. Anyway, to cut the crap, sometimes you just miss out. Girls in a sense are amzing with feelings, they are more gutsy than guys I think. We, guys, are too strong to express ourself becuase we wont want to be soft.
Was I way too off topic?
Nails fuchi badi janne ke. Maile kehi bujina. Hehe :) I meant it... for now hai feri.
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Casey bro,
You missed a bus. 30 mins and you can catch another one. :)
Of course I do not mean it. ;)
IndisGuise:)
Wise one would get loved instead of loving others. Its always the most safe bet. Yes there is lots of sacrifice needed to maintain a relationship but non to keep the love alive. Love needs no sacrifice. Well there will be some sacrifice but the love overshadows it. So technically there is no sacrifice in love.
i think it depends on the person u r with
How much is too much? eh!!!
The God has gifted you with common-sense, use it. It's like how many spoons of sugar you want for your coffee. :P
What is going to be the next question, How much love is too much? ehe.
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