" i have seen plenty of Nepali girls who have been mall of kale. only serious kurakani welcome.." those two sentences are oxymoron... after writing: " i have seen plenty of Nepali girls who have been mall of kale." you can't expect people to give serious consideration to the line: "only serious kurakani welcome..

suike · Apr 17, 2009 12:17 PM

when you repeat words like male chauvinistic, narrow minded and pigs, please speak for youself. You have no rights to generalize all Nepali men. Some of us treat women with respect and love , maybe more than the blacks or whites in America. mabe, you haven't watched jerry springer or murice's shows. I don't know why Nepali kids think all other culture are supreme and Nepali is the most inferior. I don't know what kinda family you come from but i've always seen male respecting and treating right in a Nepali society. Exceptions are everywhere, homeboys have tendency to leave women after knocking them up or engaging in domestic voilence too, but i'm sure there are some good ones as well. shame to you all Nepali who love to degrade your own race. no one will respect you , because u don't even respect yourself.. if this continues your significant other may leave u for  a homeless homeboy.. watch out...

dyamn · Apr 17, 2009 12:26 PM

"when you repeat words like male chauvinistic, narrow minded and pigs, please speak for youself. You have no rights to generalize all Nepali men." - I am trying to prove a point here!!! What do you have to say about the title of the thread then: "Why Nepali girls like Hapsi" Isn't that a generalization in itself? "mabe, you haven't watched jerry springer or murice's shows" - Oh I have!!! That said, i have seen Harke beat Sita till she has bruises in her eyes!!! "shame to you all Nepali who love to degrade your own race. no one will respect you , because u don't even respect yourself.." -My friend! When an alcoholic goes to a rehab to be a better man, the first step he needs to do is acknowledge: "Yes I am an alcoholic" Thats not disrespecting culture....thats loving culture to an extent that you care about its future!

suike · Apr 17, 2009 12:40 PM

I can sense some serious racism here.... The topic itself is racist... and most of the post too....

gyanguru · Apr 17, 2009 12:44 PM

not racist.. i think the topic is always sexist from Nepali guys.

tintotopi · Apr 17, 2009 12:48 PM

i am saying that bcoz the topics are always   why nepali girls like indian guys why nepali girls like black guys why nepali girls dance in hindi songs why nepali girls have attitude blah blah blah   get a life boys.. if you cant get a girl thats because you have problems and high expectation from and for girls .. ie.. now you should start a topic why nepali girls dont like me and go for others..   may be u have things to improve on your part rather than blaming the girls... peace

tintotopi · Apr 17, 2009 12:51 PM

It doesnot matter who you choose, black, white, african, american, asian, spanish, mexican etc etc..as long as you are truly in love with your partner. Love doesnot look at race, color, religion.

nepalion · Apr 17, 2009 12:52 PM

some one has big issue here with big fonts.. any psychitrist in the house?

tintotopi · Apr 17, 2009 12:56 PM

I guess not all gurl likes hapsi...they will first look for white, then nepali, then japs/thai/korea etc then maxican and if they don't find any they will go for hapsi........and even if they don't find hapsi....i really don't know what they are going to do.....may be...animal

Free H1B · Apr 17, 2009 1:05 PM

Its because: They can. They're not in Nepal anymore. Fk the samaj. Let em go where their feet takes em BECAUSE, the samaj is not structured to care and protect each and every of its million strong diaspora. The samaj is only structured as a criticism machine whereby individuals can dissipate their jealousy and frustration (or so it seems). But all this can change. Good or bad is not decided by the samaj BECAUSE, the samaj is nothing but a representation of the mixed-up, mashed-up thoughts of its contributors. Good/bad is decided by time and proven by history. We say 'our Nepali women' but in actuality, they aren't 'OURS'. Each of them is just another individual soul wanting to the experience the world. They belong solely to themselves, and its THEIR CHOICE whether to follow the Nepali ethics or not. Good or bad, who are we to comment? BTW, all these discussions that we're having right now has already happened for MOST other countries in 1960s-1980s. We might need a historian to give us a parallel to facts about what happened back then :) Interesting thought?

dekchidriver · Apr 17, 2009 1:06 PM

Suresh Nepal, Making your fonts bigger doesnt give your opinion more weight, it just makes you look like you have really bad eyesight. If u think hooking up with a nepali chick is as easy as saying ure pretty, i think u need to wake up and look around.

dekchidriver · Apr 17, 2009 1:10 PM

Suike, what's up with you and the quotes man? mind you, if i may, you're not arguing in a court or writing a english paper here, where every words matter. try to grasp the idea rather than trying to be argumentative, wouldn't it be "closed minded" if u don't? listen man, who ever started this thread is a real ignorant. I do not support this and any other threads motivated to lead hatred to any particular race , caste or groups. But again, you and some others in here being racist and steriotypical to Nepali men is not fair either. One ignorant started the thread and all of you without using your brain started bashing on your own race. It's like you're supporting the classic Nepaling saying, " aru ley achi khayo bhandai ma timi pani achi khanay." And what Jerry Springer and other trash shows show is that there are pleanty of trash in western society too who treat women badly. And Kalays don't necessarly treat their women like queen all the time too. And there is no statistics of how many men or women go back to the same trash life after those shows and getting that check to appear on tv, so let's not jump saying those shows are complete success to transform a trash into a gentleman/woman.

dyamn · Apr 17, 2009 1:22 PM

"try to grasp the idea rather than trying to be argumentative, wouldn't it be "closed minded" if u don't? " - didn't you do the same by pulling in words from my argument instead of "grasping" the broader social meaning I was trying to convey...."we" in my sentence structure was a satirical "we" which actually meant "you - the thread starter"....but anyway.... "mind you, if i may, you're not arguing in a court or writing a english paper here, where every words matter." - if that makes my argument stronger, why not? "But again, you and some others in here being racist" - "ma mahaan, mero desh mahan, nepali janta mahan, we are the best!" - if saying that "will not" make me racist, and finding flaws in my culture and trying to reform it makes me "racist" then I am "racist - the dyamn way"......

suike · Apr 17, 2009 1:41 PM

Ha ha u r funny bro

dyamn · Apr 17, 2009 2:57 PM

that ta i am :)

suike · Apr 17, 2009 5:07 PM

Man, our open society and open values (culture) really light themselves up here at the forums. Look at these people go - " nepalese girls dating hapsi guys, nepalese girls - showing.... " ... "nepalese girls being ..... " ... come on already... it does get you some traffic, but what's the point ? Just because you had a nepalese friend who dated a black guy, does not mean you can generalize. I don't know how people come out with stupid topics such as these, but I really want to congratulate the thread starter for making himself look like an A-hole. I hope through natural selection, genes such as yours are completely eradicated, as I can fully predict that happening in further generations. It is really a disgrace to speak about (Nepalese) women in such manner.. Last edited: 17-Apr-09 06:38 PM

devroad · Apr 17, 2009 6:37 PM

I think the thread writer is a loser/dumpee.

bisal · Apr 17, 2009 8:44 PM

Maybe they find them very handsome!! Why are you all up in knots!!

silly_lily · Apr 17, 2009 8:48 PM

or may be they have what you don't lol.

i_my · Apr 17, 2009 9:01 PM

एउटा पुरानो भनाइ याद आयो, फ्यौरोले अङ्गुर खान नपाउदा भन्छ रे, अगूर अमिलो छ। त्यो अङ्गुर बिग्रेको छ। त्यो अङ्गुर खायो भने बिसन्चो हुन्छ, आदी इत्यादी!! त्यस्तै हो कि??  

mcmxc · Apr 17, 2009 9:31 PM