Going to  Dance resturants or Massage parlors doen't make one untrustworthy.

Role_model · Jan 18, 2012 10:39 AM

Beeecause. Put yourself in our shoes. We work hard, sweat and blood, to come home, and there's no dinner, you're angry that we did not bring in that stupid flower seed and thus don't talk to us properly, and when we try to make a joke, you take it personally and get even angrier, and by then we are just as equally confused as to what to say or rather what NOT to say to keep the pot from boiling over, and finally, the last straw, when its bedtime (aka sexytime) you pout and face the wall and sleep and we are left tinkering our thumbs contemplating the mysteries of the universe. nowdays couples goto strip clubs or dance restaurants. I hear its better than therapy (and cheaper).

Cacophonix · Jan 18, 2012 10:44 AM

Nilasha you sound naive and young. Men are guided by one thing only and no matter how perfect relation you seem to have they will always covet another sexy girl that comes in front of their sight. The degree of desire will vary but they will always have that.

p_didi · Jan 18, 2012 12:01 PM

okay coco, you maybe a rookie redditor!

one that got away · Jan 18, 2012 12:04 PM

Zgr

sanju.baba · Jan 18, 2012 12:08 PM

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bittertruth · Jan 18, 2012 12:20 PM

I think if all women are trustworthy then all men will be trustworthy...ketiharu paila aafulai sudhara ani aruko barema bichar garnu...

bhustigre · Jan 18, 2012 12:29 PM

i go there each week. i love massage

Citizen of Nepal · Jan 18, 2012 12:44 PM

 Its faith and belief.  If you do not believe your partner than you will find mistakes in his every action but if you believe him, everything seems right. On the other hand, why did he had a situation where he had to go to dance restaurant and massage parlour? Did you tried to find the solution before you dumping him? Or were you so angry with him that you didnt spoke to him? Relationship stands on regular frank communicaton, and if you have not done that or if you are not prepared to do that, your relationship will not go far. However, I am not saying he did right by going to dance restaurant and massage parlour... He could have tried to solve any issues or asked you to go to the dance bar/ massage parlour together...... 

gyanguru · Jan 18, 2012 1:05 PM

another sexist thread. FYI, discussion related to the following can never be generalized: men vs women, / boys vs girls gf cheating on bf ( vice-versa), who is more loyal in the relationship

no_more_crush · Jan 18, 2012 4:53 PM

just correcting some mistake taraju ma keta ra keti lai rakhdai praya keta ko taol dherai huncha but again nepal ko kanon anusar keta ra keti barabar hunchan ofcourse kanoni rop ma kanon anda hai ra tyo taraju bokne manche le aakhean ma kalo pattey lagako huncha ya its not good idea to cheat no matter what its just matter of time the bf or gf will know eventually if they are cheated or not and consequences maynot be always fruitful or good

intelligentguy · Jan 18, 2012 6:06 PM

Just think sex as a sports.. Then no one gets hurt, lol

goenkaraj · Jan 18, 2012 8:14 PM

Thanks for replies. U are right there are no correct answer for this. Everyone is so different. So......

Nilasha · Jan 19, 2012 11:52 AM

so...we are all different eggplant from the same farm.

chaurey · Jan 19, 2012 12:07 PM