Situation: SEX n BF

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I am in extreme situation, just wondering what will you guys do. I met my BF 2years back in college, i thought he was nice, he is cool , he is bindas, just like buddha. I fell for him, we moved together in the same apt, until recently i found abt this guy, HE JUST PRETENDS all these( just to sleep with girls as he has slept in past), he travels to diff state just to sleep. But I like him, i felt for him, u know nepali gl are nepali, once you gave ur heart, cant change, i did everything to win him back, he is a chain smoker, stole cigarette, liquor from my working place, i even befriend his best friend who is from the same community and caste, his habit also same, stealing, sleeping with gls. Now what ppl will do in this situation. ADVISE NEEDED

Kentuckykanchi · Dec 21, 2011 12:54 AM · 39,455 views

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@kanchi first thing first get urself straight first. U can't be confused over anything, make up ur mind and do whatever u think is right. As an outsider, i think u r one of the dumbest girls that every guy wants to hook up to at first and then try to get rid of. U know everything and still lay in the bed waiting for the guy????? F**k that... Get out of the situation that u created ( not intentionally still) and move on... There way more guys in US than girls.. I am pretty sure u can find the one that will love u and don't care abt the past. U seem like a nice girl who cares if there was another another kanchi she would have cut that tiny little shiat and make one more morcha abt the issue.

goddamn · Dec 21, 2011 3:39 PM

First of all I am very sorry to hear your story. Also there is nothing new I am putting here that hadn't been said before. Having said so, now do what majority of us are suggesting here. Move on with your life. Just Isolate yourself from him and don't contact him at all. Don't call him, don't text him, don't receive his phone calls and  don't see him either. And slowly it will fade away and trust me on this. If you are still living in his apartment, leave that one as soon as you can. The first thing you have to do is separte that "attachment" for him from yourself. Don't tell me its hard, I know its hard but its not impossible either. Just try to do it and you will be thankful to yourself later that you did at right time. You will find someone a way better than him and at that time you will feel that "Feel" again.So don't worry about it now. Talk with your friends they are a great live savers. If you are not in contact with people for a while call them and say you just wanted to say "hello" and see how many people will be glad that you called. Do something that you are always intersted to do but couldn't able to do so far for whatever reason. This is the right time. You will find yourself a better person ever than before. To answer your question, No One deserves to be suffer in this world.If I would have been in that situation, I would have left him. Don't grief about it anymore because its nott gone do anything better. Past is already gone and there is a very bright future looking for your ahead. one small note. browse sajha chat if you get bored or feel alone. There are great guys,gals, entertainer, poets,musicians, singers all kind of people(serial,PIH,CG,footyfan,naam,dhwase,dallu,rahulvai,grace,mulmiz,nepal_united,sleeples just to name few). However there are  also some कामचोर 's and माहाअल्छी 's too....  .Best time to meet people is  office time(9 am to 5 pm) and after 9 PM. Good luck for you and May god bless you

namit_thapa · Dec 21, 2011 9:48 PM

This post looks like a troll.

birey · Dec 26, 2011 4:56 PM

shakya she is not your mother why are you calling her bitchhhh ... are yu getting to old ...stop asking for free .. kanchi best thing for you is move on i can date guy who smoke but not with guy who sleep around who know if he have hiv ... your man have hiv and has bad manner of stealing ... i cant date this kinda guy who i cant even tell with my friend he my bf .. u better without him even you are ugly then other gal but we all are special to our friend n parent .. respect your self stop dating jerk ... u think you are in love with i am 100% sure there is only 30 person left for u to say you are in love with him  broke up with him ....call him ugly call him boka make him felt he is worst guy in earth ... after that move u will cry for 3 month  1 yrs to forget him  1 and half yrs u be with some nice guy  who is much better then him ..but if u always fall in love with bad guy then u better make lot gf then hang learn from them dont do anything stupid belive on guy word .. try to be happy Last edited: 27-Dec-11 01:51 AM

metalgal · Dec 27, 2011 1:47 AM

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bittertruth · Dec 27, 2011 10:41 AM

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