Homeyji I can't believe you actually deleted someone's comment because you could not take the pressure nor have the ability to counter his arguments. Snurp I did not see your post but you should repost as new thread so open minded people can discuss, and self proclaimed intellectuals like Homeyji should be banned from that thread.

rethink · Dec 13, 2011 2:52 PM

I'll quote Babal: http://sajha.com/sajha/html/in... If sajha.com were a democracy...like Nepal...it would be dead by now. Can you imagine if sajha were a true democracy what would happen here? It would be total chaos. Sajha is not a democracy. It is a dictatorship. And here, San Pradhan is King. Don't like it? Leave. Go create your own social networking website based on your own rules of fairness. You see, it is this that Nepal could not say and do in the process of creating a constitution. Nepali constitution makers, unlike San Pradhan, tried to satisfy all the people all of the time. And in the process they satisfied no one. The problem with democracies is that they suffer from what we in software development call 'scope creep.' When you start taking everyone's viewpoint and requirement and need into consideration and try to satisfy everyone and make all happy...in the process, nothing gets done. In the end no one is happy. Democracies have limitations. Democracies work when you have mature people with vision who can operate in it. Kindergarten can NOT be run democratically. Not all nations and all people have the maturity to operate in a democracy. For some of us, a strong dictatorship or monarchy works a lot better than a democracy. This is the reason that sajha.com has not crumbled despite constant opposition. Sajha is a public service provided for the benefit for all Nepalese on the terms of its King/dictator: San Pradhan. This is the reason that it is functional, unlike the Nepali Government. What does that tell you my friends?

Homeyji · Dec 13, 2011 3:34 PM

 I dont think San Dai has ever deleted a comment just becase he didnt like it. There certainly has been some moderation when the integrity of Sajha was in question. Care to cite some threads home ji? 

maxpayne · Dec 13, 2011 7:25 PM

I am not San Dai. Thank God. I can't imagine how stressful it must be to manage this whole site, trying to satisfy everybody.

Homeyji · Dec 13, 2011 7:35 PM

 Homey JI, is your reference the reason for deleting the picture I posted yesterday?

nepcha1 · Dec 13, 2011 8:48 PM

Dialogue between Nepali Bandhars and the Nepali Public http://nepalishealthy.blogspot...

Homeyji · Jan 9, 2012 8:32 PM

mananiya mahodaya homeyji ,                                                        hazor le thread chai ekdamai thought provoking nai nikalno bhako cha aba yo prasna hami sabai ko pabitra sano deemag ma aaien rahancha bela bela ma aba yo thought aaunu pani mero bichar ma swabhabik nai ho . khai ke garne garne thahachaina mananiya mahodaya homejii ya that's the word khoi ke garne ke garne and its normal we don't have many examples only example we have is karishma manandhar who went back nepal and still is able to get success that's it pretty much that's about it  there is no other good example . but again ur topic of the thread is fate of confused nepali its really  thought provoking . the answer to ur threat i have got is khai ke garne garne or khai  ke khai ke                                             yours sincerely                     jogi intelligentguy

intelligentguy · Jan 10, 2012 3:23 AM

 Confusion may or may not be PART of the problem, but I think a sure reason why people are LAZY is because .......... (wait for it)......... THIS ISNT TUNDIKHEL.  Let me explain. You have no doubt seen our majestic tundikhel. Have you also noticed its day-time occupants? You know sitting in the sun, cracking peanuts, just wasting time, doing idle talk? THAT is what our society has turned into. confused? more like, confused if he/she should get off his ass and do some hardwork. Putting that up there into perspective out here, in the USA. This is a fast moving place. you dont see kuires lazing about in their own tundikhels cracking peanuts and staring at the sun. If you do see them, either they have planned for that, or they are homeless. Life in Nepal has conditioned us for unreasonable expectancy of free time. Breakfast khayo, ekchin paper padyo, lunch khayo, ekchin sutyo, chiya khayo, ekchin tv heryo, dinner khayo, majale guff garyo ago tapdai, ani sutyo. IF you want to have this sort of lifestyle, there should be no confusion, you are clearly in the wrong country! Another reason is lack of social activities. I know two close friends of mine who are ALWAYS criticizing kuires. I mean, W...T...F man, you're in their land, you can't talk sh!t about them forever. You shouldn't be here if you don't want to change your outlook and learn something new. You know what mentality I'm talking about right? The Nepali Hepaity mentality. Everything else sucks our c*ck. With that smug attitude, how are you to mingle with khaires? Please take an initiative and talk to them, start a conversation, you will see they are very similar to us in feeling. They feel happy, sad, pissed off, but these emotions are triggered by a different set of things than what triggers them in us!  Everything is an opportunity, including life. Dont waste your time being confused, act now. I have this nice quote that I'd like to share with sajhaites -  Those who refuse to accept things, must look to change it. and those who refuse to change things, must learn to accept it.

Cacophonix · Jan 10, 2012 8:35 AM

 Cacophonix, It sounds like what you are saying is that is people need to find a positive solution that they can actively work work towards. It sounds like you are tired of seeing negativity around you. What you seem to be saying is that it is not good enough for people to: in one extreme do this Negative activity: Life in Nepal has conditioned us for unreasonable expectancy of free time. Breakfast khayo, ekchin paper padyo, lunch khayo, ekchin sutyo, chiya khayo, ekchin tv heryo, dinner khayo, majale guff garyo ago tapdai, ani sutyo. IF you want to have this sort of lifestyle, there should be no confusion, you are clearly in the wrong country! http://www.healthcanal.com/men... And in the other extreme do this Negatvity: Another reason is lack of social activities. I know two close friends of mine who are ALWAYS criticizing kuires. I mean, W...T...F man, you're in their land, you can't talk sh!t about them forever. You shouldn't be here if you don't want to change your outlook and learn something new. You know what mentality I'm talking about right? The Nepali Hepaity mentality. Everything else sucks our c*ck. With that smug attitude, how are you to mingle with khaires? Please take an initiative and talk to them, start a conversation, you will see they are very similar to us in feeling. They feel happy, sad, pissed off, but these emotions are triggered by a different set of things than what triggers them in us!  At a certain point people need to gain the maturity to do Positive activity. Is that what you're saying?  Last edited: 10-Jan-12 08:56 AM Last edited: 11-Jan-12 03:30 PM

BABAL Khate · Jan 10, 2012 8:56 AM

 IntelligentGuy, Karishma Manandhar is only one Nepali that has gone back to Nepal. There are many other Nepalese who have many different reasons for going back to Nepal: http://www.afn.org.np/download... But everybody doesn't have to go back to Nepal in order to serve Nepal. There many many Nepalese who are serving Nepal by living outside of Nepal. Think about it, even BP Koirala at one point in his career was doing a lot of service for Nepal outside of Nepal.  Look at our own San Pradhan and how much work and service he is providing the Nepali community by living right here in America.  Last edited: 10-Jan-12 09:03 AM

BABAL Khate · Jan 10, 2012 9:02 AM

People say time is money. But does everyone who has lots of time necessarily have money?  Freedom is not always the answer. These people have too much freedom: http://sajha.com/sajha/html/in... Life in Nepal has conditioned us for unreasonable expectancy of free time. Breakfast khayo, ekchin paper padyo, lunch khayo, ekchin sutyo, chiya khayo, ekchin tv heryo, dinner khayo, majale guff garyo ago tapdai, ani sutyo. IF you want to have this sort of lifestyle, there should be no confusion, you are clearly in the wrong country! Let me explain. You have no doubt seen our majestic tundikhel. Have you also noticed its day-time occupants? You know sitting in the sun, cracking peanuts, just wasting time, doing idle talk? THAT is what our society has turned into. confused? more like, confused if he/she should get off his ass and do some hardwork. There are a lot of people in this world who have a lot of time on their hands. Too much time is as much a problem as having too little time. If you watched this movie with Justin Timberlake, you will see the problems that come from having too little time: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I... There are many people who have too much time on their hands. They have too much freedom. They use that free time to abuse drugs, alcohol or do Nepal Bandhs. If these people were busy doing positive and productive things, then not only would they be doing good for themselves but they would be doing good for Nepal as well. Do you disagree?

Homeyji · Jan 10, 2012 9:50 AM