he drink can of beer while i smoke cig- i done have any feeling for him .. .nor he has for me we both treat each other like we are same gender .,,, one night we both got drunk badly ending up with sex . we decided whatever is happen is past we wont tell any one keep it secret .. we dont wanted to broke our friendship .. because we hangout with same friend circle some time we will end up with same party same group of friend we both act like normal.... we don't chat ,text or call ....we never did this thing before there is no reason to be text around ... Last edited: 03-Dec-11 01:12 AM
metalgal · Dec 1, 2011 6:02 AM · 22,436 views
lol this just reminds me of one proverb LOVE A GAL AND SHE WILL [Disallowed String for - bad word] YOU!!! [Disallowed String for - bad word] A GAL AND SHE WILL LOVE YOU!!! delusion my fren!! delusion!!!
alece · Dec 1, 2011 7:44 AM
I sure hope you ain't for real!
sanju.baba · Dec 1, 2011 9:12 AM
@ metalgal, perfect lovestory masala for bollywood movie :D nevermind, enjoy your life, what else, just becareful and use protection :D
bittertruth · Dec 1, 2011 10:54 AM
wait!!! aren't u the same gal who wanted to break his boy frens leg and u came asking for help to eff his life ?? aba tyo kta ko nii khutta bhachideu lol!!! and glad that u survived that paranoia!! :D
alece · Dec 1, 2011 11:14 AM
Metalgal, sounds that you r not looking for boyfriend, but your body is looking for one. Moral of story, dont smoke ;p dont hang out with that guy and wait for a while to find its love/ infatuation/ S3XUAL need
nepali_superman · Dec 1, 2011 11:53 AM
Sex is a beautiful natural thing. You should not think like it was wrong and appreciate it for what it was worth.
rethink · Dec 1, 2011 12:09 PM
I strongly believe in the fact that friend with benefits merely works / never works. I'd say never works. If you have physical realtionship then you tend to be close more eventhough you say you dont. You will feel it down the way. My suggestion: get it clear. if you guys are not in love, stop this stuff and move on ASAP before its too late. It aint going anywhere gal. Share your stuff with your close friend only and shut it out. ~GooDLucK
no_more_crush · Dec 1, 2011 1:24 PM
no more crush, I suppose it's a personal thing but I have had a very beautiful friendship with benefit and it was the best relationship ever. The friendship was beautiful without too much expectations besides that of friendship. We did a lot of things together like friends with others but we both appreciated the benefits we shared with each other. Later on we no longer needed the benefits because I got into an exclusive relationship and so did she but to date we are still great friends - although no more benefits expected anymore It's a great relationship.
rethink · Dec 1, 2011 1:32 PM
@rethink, you yourself projected the answer. If it was the best relationship ever then why would you go for other relationship? I dont want to be judgemental on personal hormones. If you are not cheating with your current realtionship and don't have the same flame with your ex ( best relationship according to you), then thats fine. Good for you. Do whatever suits for you. ~GooDLucK
no_more_crush · Dec 1, 2011 1:40 PM
An exclusive partnership seems to be the norm so that is why I joined the bandwagon. With exclusive partnerships comes it's own challenges which have to be dealt with tender love and care to grow the plant of love together so there is definitely lot of work. However, with friendship with benefit the amount of compromise and effort required is far less but part of the reason is living together with another person comes with a whole new set of challanges which have been overcome in due time, I'm happy to say
rethink · Dec 1, 2011 2:37 PM
I believe in love, I don't believe in friends with benifits actually benefits anyone in the long run. Look for a true love, sex will follow. The feeling of love is very very great, well for some love may not last but when it does it is a bliss. Try to love truely and expect true love. I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all. The more relationships you have, the more pieces you will be cut into. my 2 cents.
bodmas · Dec 1, 2011 3:52 PM
don't you think this is something you don't make public. if this is something that you do frequently with multiple people, we all know who you are.
anon · Dec 1, 2011 4:44 PM
नेपालीमा एउता भनाइ छ " नसो पस्यो माया बस्यो " forf girl
dbst · Dec 1, 2011 8:02 PM
anan are you still in 50s or 80s why u think i am using some nick name when i come here to talk about my problem with huh?is not like i giving you my personal info or anything .. what big deal of telling here .. are you try to tell me that .who am i ... here i tell you who am i ... read 1000 times me i love myself thing i do for living is talk talk talk there is nothing in this world more important then my self i do it if i wanted i dont care how you look at me what you think all i know is my life is my responsible ... i know how to take care my self ...shut up and watch ..old man ...
metalgal · Dec 1, 2011 11:10 PM
Someone needs serious grammar lessons.
bodmas · Dec 1, 2011 11:59 PM
@ metalgal, I didn't want to go in details. but what you are experiencing is biological stuff which is when seen from other's eyes looks like emotional and feelings for others. when you had sex, endorphine got released, it's mixed up and it directly affects eachother's nervous system, so, that hormonal effect is upon you. it's gonna last for long time. sometimes it fades up pretty quick. it depends how you are inside. don't worry. have fun. this is about time to lose your virginity anyway.. lol :D
bittertruth · Dec 2, 2011 1:30 AM
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lamopuri · Dec 2, 2011 2:00 AM
I love when a girl gets open ans talks about what she wants.
goddamn · Dec 2, 2011 12:48 PM
Goddamn...you nailed it brother! I like girls when they tell what they want too...like Rashika kanchhi... makes my life easy....lol
sanju.baba · Dec 2, 2011 5:48 PM
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