Hello sathiharu, I've been living in the US for good amount of time, about ten years. But now I completely lost interest of living in US life. I havent visited Nepal for a long time and @ the same time my parents were denied for visas. I think most of my frustration is due to home sickness.I have few properties in Ktm, besides that I got arround one million $ in cash. Very honestly I m in real dilemma whether to move to Nepal or not. Talked to my close friends and families. Some suggested to stay here, some to move to Nepal and some to migrate to different countries. Immigration problem in my family is also a vital reason for my decision. Friends, plz give me your very honest and true suggestions. I truly appreciate and god bless u forever.
SuperStar · Nov 14, 2011 4:56 PM · 10,931 views
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no_more_crush · Nov 14, 2011 5:34 PM
@Superstar: Having lived over in US for 8 years now, i feel you and your stance on leaving US. First of all, congrats for saving $1 million cash if you are being honest ;-). Let me start by asking few questions now. 1. What's your status and what's your job title? If you are GC holder and have a pretty decent job, then i would say NO. U.S.A has lot of opportunities for you and your offsprings so think about your offsprings future if you are not happy with yours. However if you are student/immigrant and struggling with your status, i would suggest you to go HOME. Think about new business ideas and investment. 2. Do you have any business or investment ideas in Nepal? Since Nepal is still a developing country, there are lot of things that can be improved and made money out of. Nowadays like US, Nepalese have become a consumer freak. They are willing to spend more than they earn. So think of new innovate ideas, study the market and invest on it. Since you have enough money, a good fair business analysis will defintely give a good result. After you have a good business, not only will you get rich but you will also be popular and stay with your family happily. 3. Do you have g.f? Are you getting laid ;-)? Now coming back to the third question, a person becomes lonely when he/she doesn't have anyone to share their feelings. So find someone or hang out with someone that has similiar traits. Share your feelings and have a emotional relationship along with physical later. Having a g.f would defintely heal your feeling of loneliness. Hope that helps! Peace Sirus_Me
sirus_me · Nov 14, 2011 7:30 PM
You have a million dollars in cash and your parents didn't get visa? Not trying to be a prick but I find that VERY hard to believe.
footyfan · Nov 14, 2011 8:15 PM
Your parents can get greencard if you have million dollars let alone the visa
anon · Nov 14, 2011 8:30 PM
@ No-more-crush and Sirus-me, My heartful thanks for your suggestions. Very honestly, maintainig the status, not rt now but in the coming short future, I think, is gonna be very very tough to me. Plus Life is so much stressful and hectic because of the business Im doing rt now. As far as my interest in Nepali market, I have an active investment company paying taxes in Nepal for past 3 yrs eventhough its not doing any business rt now. Security issue and kids education are the reasons Im disturbed more than anythings rt now. Your input really helps me to ease my decisions. Thank u much and much again. Superstar............
SuperStar · Nov 14, 2011 9:09 PM
@ Footyfan, you got the strong point, but didnot happen the way I thought. It was denied. Also Im not here asking serious suggestion to waste anybody's valuable time. Thank u for your time. @Anon, yes that woud be the case if I applied my GC through Investment Visa and then apply for parents. But having a million dollor doesnt grant GC to your parents. thanx for ur time though.. ..Superstar
SuperStar · Nov 14, 2011 9:16 PM
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