marry her if you like her

xenon_zero · Nov 3, 2011 9:32 AM

You are talking like you found a $100 in a street. Dude, Grow up. what do you mean by "Balla balla euta kt payeko, tyo pani nontechincal parechha".. You are talking like you did a mistake...If you love her accept her whatever she is otherwise please do not ruin other's life.

ihateamerica · Nov 3, 2011 2:48 PM

your divorce is guaranteed my fren.

gurkha's · Nov 3, 2011 3:16 PM

 sojho keto, sidha kura garnuparda - she deserves better! and you obviously need to grow up. when it comes to marriage, i think all these things like qualification, job, looks, etc are suferficial. i want something deep - the person. as a guy, i'd look for a good-by-nature girl. seems like you are looking at her as if she's your burden because you'll probably have to spend for her education. you want someone who is already qualified, ready to get a job and share economic burden. well, you might find one but who knows, right? if i were you and wanted the girl despite that issue with her education, i'd go and say, "well, this is what i have earned so far and this is how our lives might look like when we get married. i can't promise to afford your education right after we get married and neither do i expect to share economic burden until you are qualified and get a job. time will take its toll but i'll be happy with you and if you think you'll be happy with me, let's do it!"

jantare1 · Nov 3, 2011 4:24 PM

Depends on what course she completed as bachlors. And also depends on University here so better get the advise of the international advisor from University. If you think practically, education is most important then anything else. Even more in US, it is impossible to have a wife who is not self dependent. So good luck.

जय नेपाल · Nov 3, 2011 4:26 PM

I'm a bit surprised to find you not mentioning the amount (money, jewellery,land) in dowry that you seek for marrying a girl.   Aba keti lai padhaunu parcha bhanera chinta garne manche le, daijo namagi kana ta bihe gardai nagarne hola ni. 

footyfan · Nov 3, 2011 4:29 PM

 lol naamarda   

furke · Nov 3, 2011 5:32 PM

I believe what Ekdamsojho is going through is a valid reason to be worried about. Of course he might love his girl but my frens, truth be told, this world runs on money. A popular saying goes "Money is not everything" but it ain't nothing either. It is a great deal if you have to sustain the livelihood. Money comes falls on topmost when it comes to priority. Of course, relationship is based on compromise but one should also not be a burden to another, economic burden to be precise if not psychological. If he earned enough then he would not have hesitated to move forward and marry the girl he likes. I don't think it is a good idea to call him namarda or discourage him by saying he is gonna get divorced soon. We are all brothers here and we should encourage each other. What Jantarei has suggested hits the mark. You should sort this thing out before you guys commit yourself. Both of you should know what to expect. May be she has her means to support herself too. I don't think after marriage everything should fall over the husband's head. Like I said, it is all compromise. Now how far can u go depends on how much or how well are you both gonna compromise in case you face any challenges. Now Ekdamsojho talk to her and lay down the facts. She also has the right to know what to expect. Good luck bro....

GoodAss · Nov 3, 2011 8:04 PM

Damm!!  Nepali KETA haru ko sochai hera ta.. Sojho Keta lai mero sojho middle finger...ani Goodass lai ass-ma ek laat haanu parnay....

Sexy In Sari · Nov 3, 2011 9:02 PM