Mithobhetght ma bora bokera aaune torpe lafanga Ko hatya bhayo bhane jimma mero

Fat beast · Jun 25, 2011 7:46 PM

First of all, fantastic idea! We've needed this type of event for a while now. Muchos gracias. I'd like to tack on a couple of things to this thread since most of us are speaking our minds and sharing words of wisdom (or the lack thereof): People ARE entitled to turn their ideas into money-making machines. This might not be the case for Mitho Bhet Ghat but I don't see why anybody would have a problem with people making money for generating and implementing a novel idea (at least in the Nepali social arena). Butt the F out (pardon my French).   As far as suggestions go (and I know how annoying it must get for you guys when people go..."oh do this and don't do that") but heck I'm going to go for it anyway, IF it's not too late, that is: teaming people up according to thier academic and/or professional accomplishments might not be a bad idea. I do see that it might be a tad impractical but if I were to attend the event, I'd certainly want to come across women who have made something of themselves or are well on their way to doing so. Grouping people by age is definitely a good idea though. Ahh, would have loved to come had it not been so far away!

just sayin · Jun 26, 2011 2:30 AM

 I don't know what is the format of the event, but if the organizer select  one to one then I think that idea is not very effective. A guy or a girl should have choices. It would be better if the organizer seperate people in the age group, and then have them interact like in speed dating. Hence there is a level plain field, otherwise there will be lots of unhappy faces lol.

novaguy83 · Jun 26, 2011 11:01 AM

ke ho yo 4 minute, ghanti ra ghanta ko kuro? nautanki!  set tables that sits 6-8 people and let them talk, have fun. that's the best way to socialize, make friends. station re, keti re, sabai stationma jaane re, issss bhutro! tyasto taal le saathi banainchha? tyasto taal le socialize hunchha? tyo 4 minutema k garne? "tyak tyak, timro rate kati ho?" bhanera sodhne? euta tarika hunchha ni. naam chahi mitho bhet ghaat re.

jantare1 · Jun 26, 2011 11:33 AM

 @jantare, That's what i was talking about too. tyo one by one stattion jane k kura ho k testo .Ani tyo ko ho tyo manche testo idea liyer aaune??? ani kasari k dimag le approve garya managment team testo idea......

राछस · Jun 26, 2011 1:54 PM

 her na tyaha feri...ramro kuro garyo, flag po handechha kun chahi tappar-tuiya le! राछस bro, yi organizerharuko dimag lokharke ko testicle bhanda ki saano chha jasto lagyo, tyahi bhayera yesto raddi idea liyera aayeka!  feri flag hanchha aba kun chahi aalu le! malai baal!

jantare1 · Jun 26, 2011 2:02 PM

Khas ma hamile speed dating event jasto garne bhanera socheko thiyau at the very beginning. Ani, US ma univ. attend gareko nepali haru le matra yesto in-person experience gareko huncha bhanne hypothesis ma whole team biswas garna pugyau. Ani..yo event lai kasari nepali circle ma pani "chada" event jasto na thanai kana accept garaune hola bhanne bichar suru bhayo. Antim ma social networking event jasto garau, yedi bhagwan ko kripa le kasai single nepali dai/bhai or didi/bahini le afnu soul mate (love on first sight) jasto bhetnu bhaye bhayi halyo. Hoina bhane pani tyo "high school ma padda afu lai ek dam man pareko keti tara keti le afu lai man na parayera arkai lai man parako jasto case bhayo bhane pani", antim ma at least facebook through friends bhayi rahane..bhanera "social networking" ko tag halne bichar gareko? tapai haru lai kasto lagcha? k cheez galat garyau hola ta? kehi advice cha bhane hami lai advice dinus na..we really want to make it a very good event, at least to the best of our capacity. Tara hami sabai le yo pahilo patak event organize garna thaleko, we are nervous. Help garnus na..do you think we should cancel this? or ajhai kehi major or minor revision garyo bhane yo event bachaune chance cha, dai/bhai/didi/bahini. -Bishal Thapa

dryounghova · Jun 26, 2011 9:04 PM

lol .... puranakagaz  boko timi euta matrai bhayechau la register garne(if what u were saying was not a lie) prove bhayooo....

Fat beast · Jun 26, 2011 9:17 PM

Posted on 06-26-11 9:15 PM     [Snapshot: 810]     Reply | Notify Admin [Subscribe] Rate this Post:     0 Like       0 Flag         Fix Unicode   For me this whole this is wrong bro, our social life havent been dead like america and europe that we have to find our love from craiglist and other dating site. we have familes to look guy or girl for us. dont forget 90% of our marriage are still arrange marriage and they are better than a love marriage. i can come to your event and act like gentle guy with some hifi life and impress some girls. what if tomorrow after marriage or after been in relationship she found out i am always drunk gajedi? whom to blame me that girl or your organization. you can open dating site and do online business but not like this open and insulting way selling name of all nepalese association . 4 mins re , manche ye yeha eak arka lai chinna barsau lauchan tapai 4 min ma kaam tamam garna khojnu huncha. its just my personal view , i am sorry if i offend somebody.   dryounghova   Posted on 06-26-11 9:36 PM     [Snapshot: 812]     Reply | Notify Admin | Edit [Subscribe] Rate this Post:     0 Like       0 Flag         Fix Unicode   Kehi cheez sahi bhannu bhayo tapai le. Hami nepali lai yesto matchmaking garne aawassyakta aayi sakeko chaina? Tyo mamu/daddy le keta/keti khojididaina ma good husband/wife fela parcha bhanne kura ma chahi tapai ra ma disagree garnu parne huncha..tara yo thread ko topic tyo hoina. Tapai le time invest garera gahiro soch dinu bhayeko rahecha. Tesko lagi dhanyabad. Hami le chahi yo "money back guarantee" jasto service dina athawa..yo event ma bhag linus tapai lai pakka ramro bhauju/buhari khoji dine pani bhanna khojeko hoina. Maaf pau testo galaf vibe yo event le tapai lai diyo bhane. Tara it is just simply a misunderstanding. Tapai ko opinion sahi huna sakcha hamro wording galat bhako or message clean na bhako huna sakcha. Website lekhda euta startup kholna ateko jasto pani katai katai sound hundo rahecha hamro website bata. Tara tyo galat ho dai/bhai. khas ma goal chahi..laaj lagera para para basne didi/dai/bhai/bahini tara sathi sanga chuttai cahhi tyo keta/keti kasto ramro bhanera kura garne ko lagi, euta ice break garne opportunity..ra hami sacchikai tyo lajayera afnu bhagya ma baheko keta/keti nai kehi samay aajai dhilo bhetne cha bhane..tyo process yo event ko madhyam le ali kati speed up garaideu bhanne asha liyera kadam chaleko hamile. Sahi bhannu bhayo..hamro mamu daddy haru ko arrange marriage gare pani marriage successful cha dherai. Ra..bhagya ma bhako keta/keti yesai bhet huncha usai. Hami le cahi kehi ramailo garda gardai yo event ko marfat..ra MAIN..tyo drink kinne $20..euta kavre-palanchowk ko babu ko education ma lagaideu bhanne socheko? yedi tapai le high expectation na likana pani hamro event ma aaunu bhayo..ra kohi bhetnu bhayena bhane pani.tapai ko $20 le kunai bidyarthi lai maddat huncha..ani.....hami lai pani bhetnu huncha bhane ta teti naramro kura ta hoina ni, hoina ra?..ani hami arko barsa yo event lai kasari ramro banaune bhanera..salla pani garumla..aaunus na yo event ma ek tali...lets see if you like it? kaso dai/bhai?

dryounghova · Jun 26, 2011 9:39 PM

 bishal ji, Your idea to support the poor children is great. no dobut on that.  however the way you are trying to organize the event doesn't seem digetable. why don't u guys make it really simple. Just maintain the proportion, and let them socialize. that's it. Make it simple....

राछस · Jun 26, 2011 9:44 PM

  Why do the women stay at their tables, forcing the men to come to them? This just perpetuates the age-old gender role where men are expected to approach women which immediately gives the women all the power. What delicate flowers they are! How about equalizing things a little? One of the most imortant thing to consider in these events is to bring as many women as you can otherwise the majority will be all BOKAS...How can you invite more ladies ? How about doing something like "LADIES DRINK FREE" kinda thing ? That way i am sure more ladies will come to the event...Make it like going to bar kind of thing and let it be open rather than ringing bell every 2-3 minutes....If you do that you'll have hordes of people coming to the event...The key point here is to offer something FREE to ladies. I've already registered for it and i am looking forward to it, but if i don't see lots of girls, i might not enter to the site. I'll let my 20 dollars go to the poor kids rather than spending my time with BOKAS.

Purana Kagaz · Jun 26, 2011 9:49 PM

Hajur rakchyas dai/bhai,   Natra tesai garnu parla. Saturday ko lagi chahi hami le table chair set garne fix bhayi sakyo..tyo din tehi setup ma start garnu parla..ani yeso interest herera natra. tehi ko tehi..tyo chair table lai panchayera..tapai le bhane jastai proportion mildaudai..open floor event garnu parla...saturday kai second session ra sunday ko session. Good point rakchyas dai. Mero teammate ko idea chahi kasto bhane, by chance, dherai daju/bhai ani thorai didi/bahini event ma aaunu bhayo bhane ta, didi/bhahini ta overwhelm hunu huncha..tesaile mech ma rakkhyau bhane ta..at least euta didi/bahini le euta daju/bhai lai matra respond garnu parcha ni bhanne socheko. First tali dai ek dam multi-level saman experience nagari sochna na sakine..first level cahi sochyau hamiley. La yo chahi ramro suggestion dinu bhayo. Dhanyabaad. So, would we be seeing you at the event rakchyas dai/bhai? Last edited: 26-Jun-11 10:02 PM

dryounghova · Jun 26, 2011 9:51 PM

@purana kaagaz,     hami le euta galti garyau..women bhanda dherai men huncha bhanera assume garyau. Tyo cahhi hamro galti ho purana kaagaz. Tara, tyo women sitting down bhaneko chahi, jo thorai number huncha..wuh cahi table ma basne ani dherai jana bhako gender chahi table ma move bhayo bhane tyo thorai jansankhya bhako gender lai overwhelm hundaina ni dherai bhanera ho. Tapai le sahi bhannu bhayo..gender X chahi table sarne bhanera lekhnu parne. Thank you. Free drinks for ladies excellent idea..tara dai/bhai, tapai ko first paragraph ma chahi hami le assume garyo ani keti manche lai priority diyo bhanera bhannu bhayo..ani third paragraph ma chahi...ladies free drink bhannu bhayo..aru kasai le pheri man naparaula ki. Malai tahha cha, tapai le ta bhujnu huncha bhanera..tapai ko suggestion ho aakhir, aru kasai lai yo idea le marka parla? kasto cha ta tapai ko bichar tyo bare ma? tapai tahah cha dai cha ni, pheri jati ramro sochera gare pani ..kasai na kasai lai ta chitta pakka nabhujla..hoina? tara thank you dai/bhai for suggestions. I like the "free drinks" idea. Tara tapai aauunus..dhoka bata na farkinu hola..tapai creative hunu hundo rahecha..chit chat ta garnai parcha hami..hamro arko saal pani garne plan cha yo..yo tali golbheda khayanau bhane :)

dryounghova · Jun 26, 2011 10:02 PM

Yo vanda ramro kura k huna sakchha Last edited: 26-Jun-11 10:48 PM

DalluKoSanu · Jun 26, 2011 10:28 PM

 speed dating, See yourself.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...

nep_tom · Jun 27, 2011 1:35 AM

Organizers: Would you mind filling us in on the success of the event? It would be nice to see some pictures/videos too, if the attendees have expressed their consent. Muchos gracias.

just sayin · Jul 6, 2011 9:04 PM

sakkisakyaa event raichha bakwaas event sure flop bho hola Last edited: 15-Aug-11 01:35 PM

MaEkBalak · Aug 15, 2011 1:14 PM

read above Last edited: 15-Aug-11 01:35 PM

MaEkBalak · Aug 15, 2011 1:26 PM