I am with aap bhi naa bro. Please don't make your baggage public and money doesn't buy parents.

anon · Jun 7, 2011 9:20 PM

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the_hareeb · Jun 8, 2011 12:26 PM

 look i know this is public place...but it is what it is...... we all wanna move forward..... ONCE U HAVE MONEY>>> U CAN REGENERATE THAT MONEY>>>> then take care of ur parents when ur money make money itself.... u guys will be behind so bad ........... watch...

justcantgetenough · Jun 9, 2011 1:47 AM

@ anon We are not trying to buy parents from money!! The individual life U have should not be governed from ur parents otherwise u will be ghanta girl or ghanta boy all the time... We gotta move on...We gotta life to live......... 

justcantgetenough · Jun 9, 2011 2:00 AM

जननि जन्म भूमिस्च स्वर्गादपि गरियसि--लाइ परिवर्तन गरि अब यसो भन्नु पर्ला  पत्नि परभूमिस्च स्वर्गदपि गरियसि--अर्थात पत्नि र परदेश स्वर्ग भन्दा पनि प्यारो हुन्छ।   नोट:यो मेरो धारणा भने होइन है।

atibho · Jun 9, 2011 12:40 PM

 @ ati bho timro dharana chai k ho ni sathi.....  tradition ko pachhi lagera yo beautiful life lai ruin garaunu parchha jasto lagchha timilai......

justcantgetenough · Jun 9, 2011 2:18 PM

 we gotta solve this issue

justcantgetenough · Jun 10, 2011 2:01 AM

 k bhannu hunchhani ta yesma

justcantgetenough · Jun 12, 2011 6:37 PM

     To anonymous: And what lord buddha did to his own parents? Did he take care of his parents in their old age? Why to talk about pay or repay? Its a process that every human goes through.I think communication and finding a mutual understanding between parents and children is the key to have a happy and healthy family relationship. We just don't talk extensively with our parents. Whatever is told by our parents is the ultimate truth, according to our culture. The vocabulary we use everyday is in fact the problem. To respect, care and nourish your parent is good. But not to the extent that one feels that s/he is pushed to the edge and is the only one to bear all the responsibilities. Equality starts at home we all know it but we hardly practice it. Typical Nepalese us, exceptions excluded.   Chori vaneko arka ko sampati ho. Chora vaneko budheskal ko latthi ho.Blah blah..these are the very vocabularies which create our mentality, shape up our thinking pattern, get manifested not only in our individual behaviour but also in society and in country at large. Enough is enough for both sons and daughters. I think it is a good start that finally we begin to talk on this issue. 

nepaliketi007 · Jun 13, 2011 4:58 PM

FYI: Lord buddha was a crown prince.Am I not understanding or ur arguments are too dumb. Sorry to be rude.

anon · Jun 13, 2011 5:11 PM

You failed the Test.  Goddess Laxmi always test your  ATTITUDE  before she wants to UPGRADE your  WEALTH AND FORTUNE.

Sexy In Sari · Jun 13, 2011 5:15 PM

 anon: agra ko kura garda gagra bujhney timlaye k upnam deu khai....:)

nepaliketi007 · Jun 14, 2011 3:31 AM

 @justcantgetenough:  I can see your argument and your point of view. If the amount going to your parents is unreasonable, you should simply decrease the amount by having a "man-to-man" dialogue. Hopefully, your parents are reasonable people. However, if the money going to your parents is reasonable by Nepali standards and considering other factors like loans, etc. and money is being used for necessities and not showing off, it's a different issue now. Here, I'd recommend go for a win-win scenario and not, a win-lose scenario. Create a picture where both parties can win. Kind of like a dialectic. Be creative. I would take it as an opportunity to learn and teach something to/from your family. I can see one way out for a win-win scenario: By insisting on investing your money in Nepal and not simply using it as a cash cow. I am not a finance guru but an engineer so ask someone with more experience in this regard. My dui paisa.

GuitarDaku · Jun 14, 2011 10:35 PM