This thread is continuation of  http://sajha.com/sajha/html/op... After this, I determined to bring her here in US in student visa and started searching college for her. I found some gud n cheap ones. Now when I was about to talk about this to her but hell broke out against us.  Almost for a week she was unreachable. I couldnot find her trace at all. Finnally last week I  knew that Her brother forcefully made her to engage with another guy. and fixed the marriage in June. Then I called my parents and  said them to go and ask her hand for me. My dad turned somehow positive. He said if u guys are in love do wahtever u want. We will face little social disgrace but if u guys live in US that would be fine for him. N he also added that he couldnt  go directly but I would try through someone else. Few days back I finally got chance to talk to her after continuous touch with her friends and mine. She explained that its not her wish to do this but she surrendered against her brother because he asked the wages of what he did for her till date.  Then I asked her will you marry me if I come Nepal now? She said " I am sold. I dont know my owner". It hurt me like anything.  Then again she became contactless asking for forgiveness and bla bla.... all bichod ka sabda haru.. I could not stand this at all. first I am loosing all my hope and dream and she is in a position to be slughtered. So yesterday I made my mind to go Nepal and try my best. To Do whatever I can. booked the last minute flight for 30th.  I informed her about my coming but she just burst in tears and telling me not to come and let her go.. I talked to her this morning for 2 hours.. all the time what I coud hear was her cry... from deep inside of her heart.. Dear sajhaites, As I am going Nepal I have high hope that she would accept me. But incase her heart is really sealed what would be best for me?? I dont have any second thought. May be my craziness for her turn me mad.. Can u please guide me how to convince her in this case. If I marry her it will be a really a big challenge to her family and to mine as well. I have to bring her here in US asap. How long does it takes to get visa for spouse of GC holder if I apply in another week?? is there any other way that I can bring her here apart from this way? (it sudnt require huge Bnk B as I already have 0 bal cse of expensive ticket). thoughtful, inspirational motivative and informative reply expected. God bless Nepali caste system and insanity.......