wtf is this

hannspree · Apr 9, 2011 2:03 PM

It's not easy but Y should ignore X and move on. Y will not be able to forget/forgive X's betrayal. X will always find a guy, so will Y.

Messiah · Apr 9, 2011 2:03 PM

First of, so sorry to hear this. If she has left you once for another man, she will leave you in future. I do not see her as your future wife in any way. If you are heartbroken twice, it will be difficult for you to live life. Nevertheless, it's your life; and choice is yours too.   

hareep · Apr 9, 2011 2:07 PM

 I would not accept X in any circumstances because for her materialistic life seems more important than love, emotions and feelings. Now when Z ditched her and she's again looking for the love of Y but where was she when Y begged her to come back into her life. Even though i know that every girls are looking for a successful person in their life but why do they don't thnk this before even starting any relationship. I know its sound harsh and i am sure there will be few comments after mine against me but for me those X type if girl are a cheap a$$ biatchhhh...

pandora · Apr 9, 2011 2:37 PM

Y should accept X, date a month and dump her and say he was ignored.

Stiffler · Apr 9, 2011 3:40 PM

@hannspree: sorry bro..I know it looks like a mathematical equation and yes it is a f@cked up one!! @all: Y is taking ur suggestion and he thanks you all. Any other different ideas here?

Grenade · Apr 9, 2011 10:04 PM

Grenade : This is common issue in US which you already mentioned and i have seen few cases as such too once the girl dumped the boy just for sake of some dumbass with PR forgetting the moments & relationship,memories she shared with boy the girl doesn't deserve the another chance but give yourself some time i know if you love someone it's hard to let them go just like that but before making any moves let the girl realize her mistakes and see how she comes out don't commit anything in rush . Just stick as good friend without showing her anykind of emotions to her for few months if boy thinks she is good enough to be trusted they can start fresh relationship putting the past behind . I know several people who ended up making wrong decisions just give it a thought i am sure boys so such mistakes too specially these days where Int. students are more worried about their future rather then their studies .

NepaliNetworks · Apr 9, 2011 10:17 PM

 Y should accept X   and   dump her before she finds next Z to avoid next embarrasment

hannspree · Apr 9, 2011 10:20 PM

I suggest Y to stay away from X, she doesn't deserve his love.  love is not something like in-n-out burger which you can eat when hungry and trash when full.  -DrKanchho

Drkanchho · Apr 9, 2011 10:30 PM

I like nepalinetworks suggestion... That way it'll be way lot for u easier to take the next step. So, stick to her, not as a boyfriend but as a very close friend

Fat beast · Apr 10, 2011 7:47 AM

 Don't know about X or Y or Z but i ended up taking Risperdal. साला, म अझै सोच्छु म नै किन भनेर ? You know, as far as i know,  मैले आज सम्म कसैको केहि बिगारेको छैन. FML.

राछस · Apr 10, 2011 8:09 AM

x did wrong, bt if y is so depressed n is sure will be happy with x, and if y thinks his luv is big enuff to forgive x for the betrayal thn y shud accpt x back ..cz if x n y succeed this will just be forgotten in time

pilot23 · Apr 10, 2011 10:37 AM

The concept of  "Once did and Will do it again" is completely wrong. Just don't rush, give both of yourself some time, do not see each other for al least 6 months, be a good friend, don't be too emotional. Within this period, if both of u realize, what mistake u guys had made( how  "Z'" was able to break the bank), monitor each other activities, write daily that helps to express your feeling comfortably, avoid predator friends, be positive, always think of a best moments that u guys have spent together, the most important thing is feel the necessity of each others love for each other. Blend this recipes with completely positive attitudes and see the outcome. The best input will always have a fruitful outcome. And, remember there is no guarantee that the next one in line will be better than u already have/had. people make mistakes, nobody is perfect. Keep on rockin' 

all the way · Apr 10, 2011 12:43 PM

 Y should be in his own way and should tell x not to bother him again as he has moved on.If possible use 'Jab We Met'.Burn all her gifts,photos etc.Y will feel lot better.She has already learnt her lesson by getting betrayed by Z.There is no point in Y betraying X again as X is human being.Better tell her clearly that x is in no mood to reconcile with her and try to find someone else, may be w

rahul80 · Apr 10, 2011 12:55 PM

 Y should talk to X... make her fall in love with him and then find "W" (a PR girl) and dump Y. And then yell: "What goes around comes around!"

Jai_Nepal · Apr 10, 2011 2:15 PM

 hhehhehehe.... XYZW....  observe her again closely and analyze her behaviors for at least a year as a good fren. if she has truly changed then i don't think u should deny ur love... people makes mistake... and if u forgive her this time then it would be appreciated life long.  keep dating wid others as welll. if u find that it was just an another lie then simply move on.... don't get too emotional during this period...

dimebagkale · Apr 10, 2011 3:18 PM

@Rakchhas: I read ur thread couple of weeks ago. Are u and Y on the same boat? How are u doing these days?

Grenade · Apr 11, 2011 10:12 PM

@all: thank you for your inputs. Y has finally figured out that x had a "bad romance" with z. Y says there are not any chances under any circumstances that y will go back to x again and marry. That brings the story to an end.

Grenade · Apr 24, 2011 2:00 PM

Well it's not about "Z" anymore it's about X(Girl) don't rush sometimes it takes longer to recognize inner person even the outer one acts properly . Y should take his time openly and keep the relation limited to open friendship not more then that . She needs help - help her  . But don't lost yourself deeply just for her . She needs to realize she was the one who dumped (Y) just cause the other one has (PR) . When two people are in relationship they need to figure out their future too . I don't think she has yet realized meaning of true relationship  unless (Y) is just seeking a partner to hang around .

NepaliNetworks · Apr 24, 2011 2:29 PM

 ...     Dude, a fren of mine is in the same sh*t & thus I'm gonna drop few words for ya(guyz) who have been the victims.       Can ya not talk 'bout this f**ked up gurl for f**k sake, knowin' dat she f**ked wid other dude while she was wid ya..in so called ur fake f**k love.. & ya f**kin' dumb arse.. don't ya know just like the way ya kissed her, some other kissed her, just like ya f**ked her, some other f**ked her in dat same f**kin pussy hole bi@tch, he might have even got himself thru the Detour hole as well..    Dude .. r ya so f**kin' ugly, ya can't even find another girl or wait for a better one ..& in the mean time study and work.. focus on ur career..  can ya not think of nemesis wid dis whore by gettin'urself better and broader wid wiseness and knowledge in the pursuitness of a good career .....step up f**k.. think about ur mum, dad, ur brothers & sisters f**ker, call 'em almost everyday so ya can feel their love, on the other hand they'd be much happy and their happiness would erase ur mountain of sorrow who rite now is whore X.. For f**k sake stay away from love dude at present.. when time comes,it comes to ya.. ya don't have to rush anywhere... even though she might not look as good as ur present f**ked up X, if the upcoming (A) loves ya wid whole heart.. what else wud ya expect f**ker.. Change urself or ya r a f**kin looser & in few years, dude ya'll be in such a bad shape dude, ya won't even have time to regret & it'll be too late even to find an ugly f**ked up girl.. so f**k everything else do wut ya gotta do.. family comes first,& education or put money first idc.. but I love $$$'s .. b**tch educate urself, hope dat's wut ya r here for, stay close wid ur family, mum dad, bro, sis..dude think about 'em  not dis f**ked up sh*t   Put up ur emotions for revenge, by literating urself f**ker..    it feels so good to be on the top and watch all those who dumped ya sinkin' down & below.. hope ya understand f**kface, f**kin' coward.. prove urself if ya r a maN!!                  

Aap Bhi Naa · Apr 24, 2011 3:22 PM