Confused keta i can feel for you, she has been with you for 5 yrs if she had any problems she could have left you while ago she shouldn't take like 5yrs to realize that' . the first guy she met through her parent's wasnt' great as u maybe  The second one is probably in her mind is betta then you . she was with you when she needed you..she left you when she found betta one She is just the oppurtunistic biatch .thanks god you two were just an item no kids involve or traditional marriage in nepal then would be hard. take positive out of it  probably 5 yrs taught you many things about relationship, womens so you can carry that experience ahead and handle your future relationship better while she had 5 yrs with you if she really loved you man she wouldnt' have cut off n move on so easy.you were just a thingy of past..she is looking for someone betta den u ..obiviously she compared btwn u n him n she choose him. mate u got get out of this mess n just move on wit life..no point sticking to one ditched u ..plenty of chicks out there .who loves u fo who u r ..its just matter of time. GUYS SHIT HAPPENS N SHIT HAPPENS FOR REASON. BREAKUP IS ALWAYS HARD NO MATTER HOW MANY BREAKUPS YOU GO TRHOUGH IN LIFE. SOMETIME ITS NOT JUST ABOUT LOVE ITS TO DO WITH BEING USED TO WITH THE PERSON.WHEN PPL BREAK UP ITS ALWAYS UGLY AND ALWAYS A REASON BEHIND IT .EVENTUALLY YOU 'LL MOVE ON THINGS WILL CALM DOWN. MAN I HAVE HAD MANY BREAKS UP IN LIFE ..TELL YOU MAN ITS NOT EG BUT EVENTUALLY YOU 'LL MEET SOMEONE N U'LL MOVE ON .LIFE WILL START TAKING IT COURSE IN   A RITE WAY.MAN DO GOOD BE GOOD N GOOD THINGS WILL COME TO YOU ONE DAY..N OFCOURSE GOOD GURL WILL COME YOUR WAY..MAN THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA..BE STRONG .N MAKE A TOUGH DECISION.GET THE FCK OUT OF HER LIFE N FIGHT FOR YOUR FUTURE N SHOW HER WHAT YOU ARE SO PROVE HER WRONG FOR DITCHING YOU . SHE PROBABLY THINK HER NEW MAN IS BETTER THEN U THAT' Y C CHOOSE HIM OVER YOU BUT IT COULD BE SHORT LIVED MAN EVRYTHING IS SO BRIGHT N GOOD IN BEGINING STAGE. MAN IF I WAS YOU I'LL NOT GO BACK TO HER NOR EVEN TRY TO GET HER BACK WHEN SHE ALREADY PREFER OTHER OVER ME I HAVE  A DIGNITY I RATHER BE KRISHNA PARSAD ..LIVE ALONE DIE ALONE THEN CHASE SOMEONE WHO DITCH ME .. SO CONFUSED GUYS ITS HARD ..MY SUGGESTION MOVE ON BRO..LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT WOMENS. YOU GOT TO DO SO MANY THINGS IN LIFE SO HOLD YOURSELF SET A GOAL ..N KICK HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY . TAKE CARE N GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR BRO>. NOTE: LISTEN TO MARIAH CAREY" HERO" MIGHT GIVE YOU THE POWER TO FIGHT . Last edited: 25-Mar-11 10:50 PM

crazyNep · Mar 25, 2011 8:57 PM

It's been 5 years of you being in relationship with her. Don't you think marriage is important? This shows your no intent to marry her. Girls are always insecure until marriage. What's the age of the girl now? You know, parents want to get her married b4 her age is too gone to get a decent boy for her. I guess you took her granted all these years. She stayed with you for 5 years and will stay n love u forever if u treat her right. Did you officially proposed her with a rose n ring getting down to your knees? Do you celebrate your Anniversary, do you guys talk about how u guys met time and again and do you look at her when she dresses good and give compliments, do you take her out? These r small things that matter. Remember what u used to do to her when u guys just met and what u r doing to her now. Stop treating her as a trash n she will love u again as in the first year of your relationship.

furke · Mar 26, 2011 1:41 AM

Guys, you've been a tremendous help for me. Anyways, whoever she choses is her wish, but I concluded that I cannot be turn negative all of a sudden and start hating her. After all I am no more than human!!! She deserves the respect!!!!

confused_keta · Mar 26, 2011 2:19 AM