RELATIONSHIP EXPORTS!

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I need experienced people/experts help to find out solution about my relationship complexity. I have a friend with Indian descendant. She is good looking, smart and gets like 10K back in scholarship from the university per year after paying her all tuition fee which is like 14K / 2semester per year. She is in honor program and works in curio research. She got a home near by the college but her parents live away and get here during the weekends.  One day, she asked me for study together and called me to her home at night but I felt uncomfortable and she came to me. Since, that time we both liked to get together and been studying together at night very often and stay until like 2am. Mostly she looked frowning and complains she could not have good time due to her school workload and looked worried very often. She invited me for dinner with her parents and says her dad complimented (like kitna siddha/ acchha ladka) about me. Now, the intensity of my love for her is growing faster. I tried to find if she has BF and did not get any indication of having it. Now, I need your suggestion how to find out if she liked me. I do not want to mess up my ideal relationship with her but I want to go for long-term relationship with her if she liked. Your suggestions would be appreciated.   Last edited: 26-Feb-11 01:37 PM

mailo bhai · Feb 26, 2011 12:41 PM · 23,458 views

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Please kindly "export" yourself to India.

meek__misfit · Feb 26, 2011 12:45 PM

syd_acid · Feb 26, 2011 12:52 PM

 @Meek_misfit thank you for your comment. I am not Pro-indian. I feel the same way as u do. But the friendship and relationship does not apply the transborder concept it is spiritual and symbiont. 

mailo bhai · Feb 26, 2011 12:55 PM

 @ syd_acid thank you for your electrifying mail and amazing video. I am invited for dinner to her home tonight. I will try to be expressive. 

mailo bhai · Feb 26, 2011 1:06 PM

Mailo-bhai, thul D ko kura suna   Offer her to stay after 2am at your place and if she brings her own shampoo the next day,  then you need to get her a nice soft pillow. And again, if you smell a fresh coffee in the morning while you're in bed the next day, then make a good dinner for her...

Sexy In Sari · Feb 26, 2011 1:08 PM

 SExy in Sari got a naughty mind 

syd_acid · Feb 26, 2011 1:10 PM

 Kitan Siddha= Gullible, and atleast i won't take it as a Compliment!! :-)) Ask her out for other stuffs than usual Library and Books, like going to Movies (or surprize her with some Bollywood dhamka movie in Theater "get ticket first"), Dinner at fancy Restaurant and so on.....If you think it's too early for this then goto College games, Basketball or Football, this would be playing safe, or watch movies together [Hindi or Foreign, you know do something different but within your range] and I am sure you'll get hang of it (what she wants) from it. Oh, and inviting you over for dinner with parents doesn't imply she's into you though :-| [atleast in premature phase] and wass up with this Pro and Anti Indian sentiments??? don't FALL in to this POLITICAL ABYSS!! and  get load of this ;-))

Lahure Kancha · Feb 26, 2011 1:21 PM

Agreed with syd_acid. Sexy in the sari thanks for comment. It might work as well but more risky and i will be frustrated if it fails.

mailo bhai · Feb 26, 2011 1:23 PM

mailo bhai.....expert bhanna khojya jasto chha.....combine study garne, university ma study garne maanche EXPERT ra EXPORT ma confuse??? Study garne ta bahana jasto chha, kharya boka hola ani kasari concentrate garne? Blue balls must be ruining you.... now as the advise......you should tell her how you feel and see what happens, jhapad ki padad, be ready for both....natra aru le udaidela and lata le papa herya jasto hola...

terobaaje · Feb 26, 2011 1:29 PM

@ lahure Kancha! thank you. Your suggestions are real applicable. Mailo agreed with Kancho. 

mailo bhai · Feb 26, 2011 1:32 PM

Thank you terobaja for indicating the mistake and advice too. I apologize for error. Last edited: 26-Feb-11 01:39 PM

mailo bhai · Feb 26, 2011 1:37 PM

If you really like her and want to make yours. Here's what you should do and it will work. It has worked for most of the folks. Always try to go her house during Night to study or to do something related to study. . . One of those days act like you're sleepy from the beginning and fall sleep (only acting) on her couch or whatever. She might let you sleep there because girls are of soft heart... Start chating online on Facebook or messenger. Most people find it easier to express when they chat but not on the phone.. Give her some compliments "you're so cool"...........If you wanna ask her about if she has/had boyfriend,  Ask her, Do you have a boyfriend ? LOL.....Don't forget to add "LOL " part in the question so that it doesn't sound too serious. Apply similar tactics for few days/weeks. When you're at her house, start sitting closely with her, try touching her indirectly. Then there you go...BOOM !! I don't have to tell you what to do after that !  Good Luck.

Purana Kagaz · Feb 26, 2011 1:41 PM

Start having some romantic relationship. If you really do not want to lose her, have sex with her. That is the only way girls will feel committed with their boyfriends. Otherwise, they may choose another path. This is my real life experience. Trust me and good luck!!!

The Lonely Traveler · Feb 26, 2011 1:59 PM

 MAILO BHAI Don't forget to share your results after you got these EXPORTED results hai.

budweiser · Feb 28, 2011 3:54 PM

SIS; You have a unique expression and liked it very much.

बैरागिकाइलो · Feb 28, 2011 4:15 PM

"like kitna siddha/ acchha ladka" lol....la la bro it might a good green signal, go for it. You wait - You Loose

Poon-Hill · Feb 28, 2011 4:44 PM

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