Bro thats the same problem everyone faces when you come to states for Undergraduate. You are not alone..... Try to focus on one thing ..not many things at same time and work for it....one day you will be proud of yourself that you did it....cheers!!!!!

secretkiller · Jan 6, 2011 10:20 PM

Good one Secretkiller. Dukhe, everyone goes thru that more or less. Don't forget what you came here for. Focus on study... Can't forget work. Keep a positive attitude. You will have friends. Once you finish study and find a decent job... Life will be a bit better. Long distances are not so easy to maintain. Try your best..don't be upset if it didn't work out as you wish. In few years, you will be glad to know that it was just a phase of life...rather hard...but hey you will get over it. It's all about realization. I spent some of my years here just like you said. Don't forget whatever you are going thru is momentary. Keep positive attitude. It makes life easier. Like Secretkiller said you will be proud on your achievement. Cheers!

guchcha chor · Jan 7, 2011 2:44 AM

Thank u bro haru....i will giv a try

Dukhe · Jan 7, 2011 10:01 PM

Thabks for inspiring words secretkiller and guchha chor....

Dukhe · Jan 7, 2011 10:01 PM

Duke bro! Yo Pida timro matra haina. Hami sabai undergrads haru ko ho. Ma pani yeha testai Pida liyera bachna gareko thiye. Bro keep having positive attitude and you will definitely succeed. Yo nepaliko chorole tettikai haar manne Kura kaha aaucha ra. I am damn sure one day you will be proud of yourself. All the very best

oshodeep · Jan 8, 2011 12:06 PM

Thank u bro...bt yo frustration le sarai garo banaudo raicha....ma ta eklai basnai hunna bhanya....nanathari naramra soch bahek ke aunnan....tara yup bro...nepali ko choro ho...haar ta manne chaina...again thanks a lot...

Dukhe · Jan 8, 2011 1:02 PM

Nice Advice from everyone bro.......well its been 14 yrs since I got here as a 18 yrs old boy full of hollywood inspired America. Once I landed here it didnt take long for my dreams to shatter. I got a huge culture shock and went on huge depression ......felt so bad that I wanted to return back home and back to NOTHING but those days that NOTHING back home was so attractive. I was working so hard under paid and over worked....But I continued to study and soon I got my work permit and got a better job better life, met the right girl, finished school got a better job, got married , bought a house and had children........looking back bro those dark days shaped me and my character for life, always remember...Tough times dont last tough people do.... Last edited: 08-Jan-11 10:49 PM

terobaaje · Jan 8, 2011 1:35 PM

@terobaje, did you get married twice? ;-) kidding.

guchcha chor · Jan 8, 2011 3:28 PM

Dukhe bro,  see once things start to click you can even marry multiple times as 'terobaje' said. Ha ha ha !

adhikari_bandhu · Jan 8, 2011 9:34 PM

There I fixed it.....thanks for pointing that out.....hhhhahaaa!!!

terobaaje · Jan 8, 2011 10:51 PM