आठ वर्ष यता पढाइको सिलसिलामा अमेरिका पढ्न आएका दर्जन नेपाली तन्नेरीहरुसँग दशैंताका भेट भएको थियो । उनीहरु सवैले पढाइ सिध्याए अमेरिकामा हैसियत अनुसारका काम गरिरहेका छन् तर कोही पनि नेपाल फर्कनका लागि तयार छैनन् । नेपालमा सिस्टम छैन, नेपालमा भ्रष्टाचार मात्र छ, आफूसँगै पढेका साथीहरु कता पुगे कता, सम्पर्कको साजाल कमजोर भयो, आफूले पढेको डिग्रीको सदुपयोग हुदैन देखि लिएर अमेरिकाको वातावरणसँग भावनात्मक सम्बन्ध बसिसक्यो भन्ने सम्मका कारणहरु उनीहरुले दिए । तपाईंहरुलाई के लाग्छ के यी नैं हुन अमेरिकामा बस्ने नेपाली विद्यार्थीहरुको नेपाल फर्किने अनिच्छाका कारण ?
Kadie · Nov 16, 2010 5:51 PM · 17,888 views
All those reasonings are in fact true. Now would those reasons hold back anyone who is really determined to go back to Nepal? No. Definitely not. But still, fact remains that all those statements are valid. Let's not judge.
riten · Nov 16, 2010 8:08 PM
$, car, luxury, safety n security, no shortage of anything,(basic goods) respect to human being, job, hot water, beer, hot chicks, whites, Latins, Desi, , cheap chicken, ego, self respect, self-esteem n, being able to live without any fear of kidnapping, force donation form Maoist/terrorist r just a few to name there r 100s of more reasons .
easy going · Nov 16, 2010 8:25 PM
It is just "money". Wide roads and cars come to close second. Increasingly expensive house in Kathmandu is probably third for those who don't have house in KTM. I don't think there are many nepali in danger of being kidnapped if they go to Nepal. Rather I have met Nepali who are not willing to go home even if they are working in a really dangerous liquor store/gas station. Nepali have gone to fight a war for British at a time when Nepal was the safest place in the earth. They still go to Afganisthan and Iraq. People like excitement of going out; a continuous eventless life in Nepal can bore even the most lazy man. Last edited: 16-Nov-10 09:51 PM
pire · Nov 16, 2010 9:51 PM
यो साझाको कुराकानी धागोमा प्रतिकि्रया दिनुहुनु पिरेरितेन र इजी गोइंगजीलाई धन्यवाद तपाईंहरुको कुरामा म पनि सहमत छु । विश्व एउटा साझा घर हो जहाँ बसेपनि भइहाल्छ नी भन्ने सोच राखेर अमेरिका र अन्य मुलुक बस्ने नेपालीहरु पनि होलान् । नेपालमा असुरक्षा छ भनेजस्तो छैन धारामा पानी आउँदैन प्रदुषणको समस्या छ नेताहरुको बुद्धिले घाँस खाएको छ भन्दैमा हामी युवा वर्गले आफ्नो दायित्व भुल्ने कुरा हुँदैन । देशका लागि केही गर्ने सोच भएदेखी विदेसमा बसेर पनि धेरै काम गर्न भने नसकिने होइन । हामीसँग पूँजी र आइडिया छ भने व्यापार व्यवसायको साजाल विस्तार गर्न सक्छौं भलै अहिले असुरक्षाले गर्दा लगानी जोखिममा पर्न सक्छ । देश अहिले संक्रमणकालिन अवश्थामा भएका बेला ठूल्ठूलो डलरको खोला बगाइदिने गफदिने गफाडिहरु भन्दा एउटा दुर दराजको विपन्न परिवारको नेपाली बालकको भविष्य बनाउनका लागि उसलाई पढ्ने खर्च जुटाइदिनेसम्मको मुटु भएको नेपाली मन चाहिएको छ । हामी धेरै गर्न सक्छौं । गर्नेहरुले गरेर देखाएका छन् । <br>
Kadie · Nov 16, 2010 10:20 PM
Ho,tyo sarhai nai dukha ko pal ho...desh bikas garne karnadar haru sabai bhatabhat america aayera yeti basepachi desh kasari bancha ta?ani nepal pani napharkani re ...
chamatkar · Nov 18, 2010 11:07 AM
It is just because of money. Their family ranks a high class in Nepal if they live in america and may be the second reason is What will they do? if they move to Nepal .., Their place is already Replaced by other Nepales in Nepal and they cant compete with Nepalese............
kushall · Nov 18, 2010 2:09 PM
It is just because of money. Their family ranks a high class in Nepal if they live in america and may be the second reason is What will they do? if they move to Nepal .., Their place is already Replaced by other Nepales in Nepal and they cant compete with Nepalese............
kushall · Nov 18, 2010 2:09 PM
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harkey69 · Nov 18, 2010 4:10 PM
How about we students just spent 50000-100000 just for undergrad and worked our butts off to pay the fees. How soon can we get the money back in Nepal? Everybody loves their country.
maxpayne · Nov 18, 2010 4:52 PM
I've heard rumors that the Nepali Govt will enact a provision for dual citizenship. That might make it easier for folks who want to repatriate in flesh when they slowly realize that there's more to life than the 9 to 5 in the US. Top 3 reasons why people don't want to move back. 1) Being viewed as a failure upon returning to Nepal for good. 2) The basic infrastructure in Nepal is weak, albeit its on an upward swing 3) Jobs in America reward you for being honest and hardworking, not always the case in Nepal. As far as I can decipher, its not extremely difficult to make money in Nepal. I have plenty of friends and relatives who've made good money through business and service ventures without ever stepping out of country. There's a huge demand for goods and services in Nepal because of this remittance boom, hence the returns are high. Hell, even banks give 12% return on your deposit.
hakim_saab · Nov 18, 2010 7:41 PM
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