What would you have done in this situation?

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I have been dating this guy for few months, to describe him, he is average looking, well, his table manners are disgusting and he has never paid for my dinner, the only thing he bought for me was $4 candlestand on my birthday. His positive sides are that he is calm, well educated and well travelled, thats about it..Anyways, coming to the topic, he always prioritizes his friends before me and likes to party out. We just get to meet for like 2 hours on the weekend.Last night, when i had enough of him, I couldnt handle my anger, i was jumping up and down with anger, screaming and calling him names, while he was trying to hold me, i took out my lipstick and drew all over his face and then asked him to leave my place.. He was calm throughout and i cant believe he wants me back, I kinda feel ashamed of how i handled the situation, ohh help me how i should control my anger and ohh i miss him.. what wud u have done? i know im crazy:(

bchic · Sep 27, 2010 1:17 PM · 29,168 views

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He may be educated but he certainly is not wise, dimagkharab bhai, hehhe no, hes not dhoti, just some cheap european guy, boii i hate cheap people. He paid for coffee on the first date with a student discount card and everytime,i complain for not offering, his excuse is" oh u know, ima poor student, im in deep shit", dont understand if he has money to travel abroad, how come, he cannot even give a nice gift on my birthday or atleast offer to pay for a dinner. I would have understood if he really is a poor student like he says but the thing is that he is working and buys lots of designer clothes for himself. Now, i dont regret smudging lipstick on his face, cheap people like that tend to be selfish in most aspects of the relationship. 

bchic · Oct 2, 2010 8:14 AM

hi bchic,I think he is a Jew then. How come you into a totle speaking European? Do you like Nepali men? Mexicans? The first will most likely hand all his belongings to you. This guy will never make you pay for at least lunch or dinner. And the latter will keep you like a queen and himself work very hard for that. And he also has that... pretty awesome. Think about it.

furke · Oct 2, 2010 8:33 AM

Well, I don't see any problem here. Since you are regretting for what you did and missing him, it shows you still like him. Moreover, you know that he still wants you back. This one can be solved if you dare to talk to him and find out what you guys really want. But after reading your another post I came to realize that the situation is even more problematic besides smearing lipstick over his face. If you think the guy is "not wise" enough for you or "poor enough" who cannot even travel or pay your bills or lets say cannot offer gifts for you (seems like that's what entice you better) then -- -- -- there's no meaning of "missing" him. I mean you people are up to "dating" only. Isn't it? Not seriously in love.

sanee · Oct 2, 2010 9:07 AM

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