What is want? How much he want? Money or what? Where is he? Is is already married and now in USA? Please elaborate, so that we can have some sense.

timer · Aug 20, 2010 3:12 PM

i would say "disgusting." "newar ko nau maa kalanka." kahan ko newar ho? newar bolna jaanne newar ho ki newar thar matra jhundaune newar ho? newar le dayez line dine gardaina, daaijo matrai dinchha, tyo pani logneko pariwar kasaiko haque laagdaina, baru buhaari laai ghar ko dhukutee ko talaa chaabi ra sampurna aarthik hisaabkitaab herne jimma dinchha, usle dayez magne hoina, buhaari le gharko dhukuti ko taalaa chaabi maagne ho. publish his name, and full details - pareko hami behorulaa, amrika-east coast tira basne rahechha bhane - gayera chaakma bhwakka bhwakka dui laat hanera aaulaa. laaj nabhayeko nakachcharo jwain lai kasari thik parne hamile janyaa chha

samarthan · Aug 20, 2010 3:15 PM

Kick this Bihari's ass. In my whole life I had and have not heard  newar community asking for dowry. Either the blogger is providing wrong information or it must be a man who needs to go to Boxer ( local people in Patana use it instead of RACHI). Last edited: 21-Aug-10 07:59 AM

Bhojpure01 · Aug 20, 2010 3:27 PM

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kbhanchayobhai · Aug 20, 2010 5:45 PM

Most of my friends married without dowry--bahun, newar all. I think people feel very embarrassed to bring dowry these days, but I may be wrong. 

Pire · Aug 20, 2010 6:52 PM

This father in law sounds like a racist mother fokker. He had to drag the race card into the picture. The character of this father in law is clearly that of a racist mothafokka Last edited: 20-Aug-10 07:33 PM

antiracist · Aug 20, 2010 7:29 PM

antiracist is racist for bringing up the race card into this topic.

ShaKEEn · Aug 20, 2010 7:43 PM

Shakeen Tell me something. If he was not racist did he need to say "My son in law is a green card newar"? I rest my case.

antiracist · Aug 20, 2010 7:50 PM

Maybe he is proud of his son in law being a newar? or maybe he isn't sure of newar's tradition of dayez because he is from a different ethnic minority? i think you need to understand what racism truly means before you call someone racist.

ShaKEEn · Aug 20, 2010 8:18 PM

"maybe he's proud of his son in law being Newar"??? How old are you son?

antiracist · Aug 21, 2010 6:23 AM

My son in law is a green card newar. My daughter married him.Now he is asking dayez. What to say about his character?  After you type,My son-in-law is a green card newar. Why is there a need to also type my daughter married him? Oh yeah! that's right, is it because same sex marriage is gaining legal acceptance at more jurisdictions and you want to make it clear that it is your daughter, and not your son, who married this "green card newar"?If this rogue son-in-law is asking for "dayez", then tell him you don't have such money or any other asset he is asking for. If that does not work, explore legal avenues to make him stop with his demands without severing your new-found family ties. That could be quiet a tough balancing act but you gotta be smart and tactful. That fact, that you have seen more years than this green-shoot, should work in your favor.Good luck now. Last edited: 21-Aug-10 07:45 AM

mR. hydE · Aug 21, 2010 7:43 AM

antiracist, old enough to know what racism is. so do you still think this guy is racist? Last edited: 21-Aug-10 09:20 AM

ShaKEEn · Aug 21, 2010 9:20 AM

"dayez?" Isn't it supposed to be "daijo"? So, what's wrong for a Newar to ask for so called "dayez" from a bihari? Wouldn't you be happier if you had a son and you were the person asking for "dayez" instead. Afterall, Biharis die for "Dayez". Correct me if iam wrong!

dimag kharab · Aug 21, 2010 9:29 AM

I had heard in a reddy family of Andhra pradesh, if the boy is in USA(doesn't matter student or permanent resident) and a maters degree graduate,he is worth at least 2 crore in dowry. It is a business there till today.

furke · Aug 21, 2010 2:17 PM

yesto jatho newaar lai ni kina chori deko ta.......

alche · Aug 22, 2010 3:48 AM

  मित्र फादर इन्ल! पहिलो कुरा तपाईंले यहाँ अनावश्यक रुपमा जातको कुरा उठाउनु भयो, मुख्य कुरा त तपाईंको हुनेवाला ज्वाँईले दाईजो माग्यो दिने कि नदिने भन्ने हो? यहाँ जातले कुनै अर्थ रख्दैन; नेपालमा यो दाईजो माग्ने र दाईजो दिने काम हरेक जातिमा छ र हरेक जातका सचेत नवयुवाहरुले यसको बिरुद्दमा वकालत गर्दै आएका पनि छन्। दोश्रो चाँही तपाईंले छोरी बिहे गरी दिदाँ केटाको चरित्र नहेरी ग्रीन कार्डमात्र हेरेर छोरी दिनु भए जस्तो लाग्यो। हुन त मान्छेको चरित्र दुईचार दिनमा बुझ्न सकिने कुरा होइन। तर पनि तपाईंलाई ग्रीन कार्डले हतार गरायो जस्तो लाग्यो। जव तपाईंले छोरी नै दिएर पठाइसक्नु भयो तपाईंका विकल्पहरु सार्हैनै सिमित छन्। त्यसकारण तपाईंले मेरो ज्वाँईले यस्तो भन्यो उसको चरित्रको बारेमा के भन्ने होला भनेर हल्ला गर्दै हिंड्नु बेकार हुन्छ। तर पनि तपाईंको कुरा सुन्दा लाग्छ तपाईंको ज्वाँईको सोचाइस्तर पक्का पनि निम्न छ। कि त तिनिले पढेका छैनन् कि त तिनी पढेका बज्रस्वाँठ हुन्, पढ्योलेख्यो भन्दैमा अथवा अमेरिका आयो भन्दैमा हुन्छ र? गिदिमा गुदि नभए पछी के लाग्यो र? तपाईंलाई के लाग्छ दाईजो लिनेदिने प्रचलन कायम राख्नु ठीक हो? यदी तपाईं यो कुराको बिरोध गर्नुहुन्छ र यो हाम्रो समाजमा रहेको विकृति हो भन्ने मान्नु हुन्छ भने तपाईंले पनि यसमा आफ्नो योगदान दिनुपर्छ, तपाईंले आँफैबाट यसको सुरुवात गर्नुपर्छ; त्यसकारण ज्वाँईलाई सम्झाउनुस्, फकाउनुस्, अलिकति थर्काउनुस्। होइन यदी तपाईंको ज्वाँई मान्दै नमान्ने घामड छन्, तपाईंहरु उसको बिरुद्द केही गर्नु सक्नुहुन्न, अनि तपाईंकी छोरीले पनि ज्वाँईलाई छोड्न सक्दिन भने चुपो लागेर ज्वाँईले जे जे भन्छन् त्यही मान्नुस्, साझा अथवा अन्त कतै गएर मेरो ज्वाँईले यसो गर्‍यो र उसो गर्‍यो भनेर राग अलापेर नहिंड्नुस्, ज्वाँईले थाहा पायो भने झनै नराम्रो होला। तर तपाईंको ज्वाँई सधैं यस्तै यस्तै काम गर्छ, तपाईंको छोरीलाई पनि सधैं सताउँछ भने त्यस्तो ज्वाँईलाई लात हानुस्, छोरीलाई त्यस्तो फटाहाको चुंगुलबाट मुक्त गर्नुस्।    

Geology Tiger · Aug 22, 2010 9:55 AM

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father in law · Aug 23, 2010 12:17 PM

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father in law · Aug 23, 2010 12:17 PM

Well, she must have screamed "Oh Yes, Green Card! Oh Yes, right there, Green Card" at the Honeymoon night... ..so tell your daughter to scream his name instead next time when they..#@%^....everything will be OK...just Chill...

Sexy In Sari · Aug 23, 2010 5:40 PM

Mailay kaha kaha khojena SIS timilai. Kasailay bhanthiyo timilai chiki chiki mari sakyo bhanera, tyo pani timro sambedansil anga ma re ani timro mukh ma pani re. Timilai kasari tha bhayo oh yes green card , oh yes green card bhanera scream gareko bhanera. K timi lai vedha le didha testai khusi le ramauthiyo. Hey ram, mero siausi in saree k bhako lau, paila sabailay kasti soji, lajalu bhanthiyo, k timro ama pani testai thiyo ra. Rama rama

8847 · Aug 23, 2010 6:50 PM