Are u a guy or a girl? Anyways, I'm not sure what your had written down on these marital websites about yourself but one thing is you have to be unique to catch a ladies/guys attention. There are millions of other people out there trying to attract a worthwhile soulmate, so what sets u apart from all of them?  An attractive profile will gain interest from ladies/guys, so it's a bit like a resume....make sure u have all details about yourself, not just facts about age, height, religeon,etc....but also in your own words, a few solid good paragraphs about how u feel about love, marriage, relationships....etc..... obviously don't make words up, it must be completely the truth, from your heart and how u really feel if you had an amazing woman/man in your life. Most guys profiles have none or boring details on their marital profiles so no one will give a crap will they. Also, obviously a good clear digital picture helps, scrub up, don't wear sunglasses and don't use a crap webcam...know your 'good side' and smile from your heart, not fake, but truly so she can see it from your eyes aswell. I hate looking at people who are expressionless...who the hell wants to spend their life with someone who looks miserable....? Erghhh...... Good Luck! Last edited: 05-Dec-09 04:14 PM

Femme Fatale · Dec 5, 2009 4:11 PM

miss femme fatale, no one has expressionless face. You just don't know how to read it. Even a thousands of year old stone has something to say. read devkota's pagal.

100dollar · Dec 5, 2009 7:44 PM

Mr 100 bucks, Lets not compare a stone with a face. A thousand year old stone has the stories of the past. Just from a quick glance, a woman wants to see an expression from a man that shows some kind of warmth, soul and sincerity. Let me show u pictures of some guys expressions on these marital websites and i would be intrigued to know what u could depict from them (behind their bleedin sunglasses in most cases!)

Femme Fatale · Dec 6, 2009 2:33 PM

Thats why I think women are complicated. They can never be happy.

2:00am · Dec 6, 2009 3:02 PM

2.00 am, Don't generalise all women! There are plenty out there who just wants the free and simple things in life. But mainly i was only talking about these marital websites, u have to make an impression first or else u will get passed by. I prefer the normal way of meeting someone though, much simpler and less eerie.

Femme Fatale · Dec 6, 2009 3:10 PM