Hi, I am currently in a relationship. But after a long-time relationship, he/she wants to break up. But she says she cares about me. I love her but she says she wants a break up. She is a good girl and understands everything. I don't want to force her in a relationship in which she doesn't want to. Will it be ok to take a break to realize our feelings towards us? What should I do? I love her so much..
huribatas · Nov 20, 2009 9:34 AM · 20,247 views
Common dude...If c is not interested then why you??.......go and get another...u can find a lot..move on..
goodvibes · Nov 20, 2009 1:14 PM
yea, just lets it be. If she want to break how come you think you are still in relationship and in love?? Just stay away with him/her for some time and you will know whether that person is in love or not. if s/he loves you then you will see that person in your arm within short time.... Give it a try......
PeaceSoul · Nov 23, 2009 10:46 AM
dude girls use guys for the moment, reply back. if u don't believe, tell me an epic where a girl didn't use guys for their purpose, e.g, Mahabharat, Ramayan to Twilight. u seem like a nice guy, don't fall for any girl ever; make her fall for you.
hereigo · Nov 24, 2009 12:03 AM
"If you love someone, set her free … If she ever comes back, she’s yours, if she doesn't, she never was.".this f'ing works. give her some space, if she is asking for it. If she truly loves u, she'll miss u and come back. The question is how long u can wait...
emerald911 · Nov 24, 2009 1:51 PM
Hey Huritatas bro, It's a common phrase used by girls, if they are not sure what they really want. It happened to me as well. My ex.gf said the same thing and I gave her a space, after 2 months she came back and claimed how much she loved and missed me. We go back together. After, a year later we break up again. This is a sign that relationship is not working. Even the time we were separated, she used to call me all the time and she used to show that she loved and cared about me. I would say just give her a space or just break up with her. It's just going to get worst and worst in your relationship if you try to force yourself/her to believe that you should be together. Everything happens for a reason bro. When I had to go through it, it felt like this is the end of the world. A year later I am happy that it didn't work, so give yourself sometime and I am sure you will look back and feel different than you are feeling right now. Peace!
Ahead_of_the_rest · Nov 30, 2009 9:07 PM
Huribatas, Dude, you don't know you were just dumped. Man, be grown up, and forget her. Lots of men don't understand the signal. By the way, you are probably still under some shock..but hookup is the best medicine for breakup.
Pire · Dec 4, 2009 3:05 PM
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