When a loving relationship turns sour and one party does not want to let it to be over, how do you convince the other party that it is finally over and that you don't want to be bothered again.
aris · Jul 12, 2009 5:01 PM · 19,117 views
with a permanent marker write the following words "Break Up" on your ass cheeks and moon the person you wish not to be with. Wishing you all the best!
MagicMushroom · Jul 12, 2009 9:53 PM
When it already was/is a "loving" relationship, work it out would be my first suggestion. Talk and find where you dont agree and try to get not bothered by the difference in opinions first. Suppose, it wasnt. Then, still talk and see what the MoU was and how both of you drifted away from it, and how it would be best for both of you to end up separate ways. I always believed/still believe in cordial breakups than i-will-not-let-know-and-get-the-hell-out-of-him/her breakups. Will help you to move on real quick with your life! Good Luck
Sleepless · Jul 12, 2009 10:59 PM
aris, If the other party feels 'It's not over yet'. Then why don't you reconsider yourself once. Don't just click the world fashain word,' break up' . Cool down and think what's the root coz of this comotion, and try to best solve about the issues rather then get over . You don't realize it's consequences right now, ' ans it's quite easy to say it's over now. Think, Rethink!
uncle tom · Jul 13, 2009 1:52 AM
Aris if you are the one who wants to see it over, better don't waste your valuable time seeking the answer!On the other hand if you are the one who wants it not to be over, i would be very happy to see that band-aid that heals situation like this.
raju161 · Jul 13, 2009 8:59 AM
Party A -->Loves-->Party B Party B-->Feels indifferent about-->Party A If Party B reconsiders solely based on the fact that nobody could ever love him/her in the same intensity as Party A, and decides to stick around, the relationship is doomed to fail. You will eventually figure out that there's no way in hell you'll be able to spend the rest of your life with him/her. Abort! Abort! Now, addressing the main issue, I think it's imperative to break it to him/her ASAP. Give him/her a good reason and make it clear to him/her that things will not workout, period. No, things won't work if (s)he starts reducing his/her call volume by 50 percent, or if (s)he assures you that his/her body fat percentage will be less than 15 percent by the end of August. You get the idea, right?
Just Sayin · Jul 13, 2009 11:05 AM
report to police...
Power_Ranger · Jul 13, 2009 11:15 AM
JUST DO WHAT I'VE TOLD YOU TO DO..... Party A? Party B? WTF?? BOTTOM LINE IS JUST BREAK UP AND MOVE ON .......LET THE COPS KNOW IF THIS PERSON HARASSES YOU, GROW SOME BALLS DUDE! (even if yer a grl grow one for just this one time)
MagicMushroom · Jul 13, 2009 11:38 AM
Bro you gotta be Heavy Duty and listen to what Phil Collins says....Period I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord And I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord Can you feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord, oh Lord Well if you told me you were drowning, I would not lend a hand I've seen your face before my friend, but I don't know if you know who I am Well I was there and I saw what you did, I saw it with my own two eyes So you can wipe off that grin, I know where you've been It's all been a pack of lies And I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord, oh Lord Well I remember, I remember, don't worry, how could I ever forget It's the first time, the last time we ever met But I know the reason why you keep your silence UP, oh no you don't fool me Well the hurt doesn't show, but the pain still grows It's no stranger to you and me I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord I can feel it in the air tonight, oh Lord, oh lord Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord I can feel it coming in the air tonight, oh Lord And I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh Lord I can feel it in the air tonight, oh lord, oh lord, oh lord Well I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh lord, oh lord I can feel it in the air tonight, oh lord, oh lord, oh lord, oh lord And I've been waiting for this moment for all my life, oh lord, oh lord, oh lord And I can feel it in the air tonight, Oh Lord... I've been waiting for this moment, all my life, Oh Lord, Oh Lord Last edited: 13-Jul-09 01:19 PM
raju161 · Jul 13, 2009 1:13 PM
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raju161 · Jul 13, 2009 1:14 PM
Thanks guys. If it aint over until the fat lady sing, I can tell you that the fat lady has sung.
Aris · Jul 14, 2009 12:52 PM
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