झापाली किन फटाहा हुन्छन र ?

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झापाली किन फटाहा हुन्छन र ? I still don't understand why they are soo called ?? Please can any one make me clear .

gauleketo · Jun 29, 2009 2:59 AM · 71,572 views

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Look at this eqv: 5 Nepali (average) = 1 Jhapali, 5 Jhapali = 1 Syanjali, 3 Syanjali = 1 Nuwakote ... Reality :: Nepali from all district are "sajjan", few of them are "fataha". 

npJHILKE · Jun 29, 2009 3:48 AM

I do not know why people dub these people this way, but people generally say that Jhapali and Syangjali are different.

sakuntalasharma · Jun 29, 2009 3:55 AM

jhapalis are khattam but biratnagar wasis are jhannai khattam.......

pilot23 · Jun 29, 2009 9:09 AM

I let me add something here. 5 Nepali (average) = 1 Jhapali, 5 Jhapali = 1 Syanjali, 3 Syanjali = 1 Nuwakote ... 5 Nuwakote = 1 shaptariya ( they walk with close fist, scare of lapche) 5 shapariya = 1 khatriya 5 khatriya = 1 dead bhihari

syanjali · Jun 29, 2009 10:26 AM

"= 1 Dead Bhihari" ha ha...good one

Poon-Hill · Jun 29, 2009 10:34 AM

I used to live with a Synjali in kathmandu. my friends used to warn me to be careful with him. Once I had gone to my home ,when I came back he changed the room  without informing me. What u feel when u come back to room  and there are somebody else? More than half of my things were lost . It was discusting.

sukeluto · Jun 29, 2009 10:41 AM

Mr.Lute; That's a sad story, यो एउटासम्योग मात्रै होला, उखान बददै गएको र उक्तिको रुपमा प्रायोग हुन थालयो , बदमासी को कुरामा कोही भन्दा कोही कम छैनन । एउटाले बिगारने हजारौले भोग्नु पर्ने भनेको एहि हो , त्यो मुर्खले के गर्‍यो सारा स्याङ्जाली को नाम बेचिदियो, now you beleive that the proverb was right. Last edited: 29-Jun-09 11:35 AM

syanjali · Jun 29, 2009 11:34 AM

Please don't take it as an offence to whatever "-li" s but it's true at least to some extent, and false too!! Our knowledge, attitude, skills and behaviors are mainly governed by the society we live. I am not a sociologist but we don't have to be a sociologist to understand this fact. Mostly, a child develops her behavior learning form seniors. For example, speaking "bad words" is more common in Mongoloid families in Nepal compared to orthodox Bahuns. Obviously, that 'generally' determines what words that child uses when he grows up. Just think of your "guffadi" friend, it is more likely that her/his family members too are guffadi, it's natural, it's how your friend knew how to be a guffadi. Look even in US, kallu's don't hesitate to commit a crime but gore's think many times. Lamjunges (officially, I'm not from Lamjung) are storytellers, syangajali are comparatavely more literate/cleverer, jhapalis are even more literate and probably cleverer too; every Jumli knows about courts and similar messes. I have not met so many Dangalis and others. Specifically about Syanjali and Jhapalis: due to their education, they probably had a generally superior thinking power compared to ordinary people. It is not unusual to use your skill for your own benefit, a human behavior, and that's what they did. Their attitude to benefit only themselves was induced to other people in the society, and every child born now will attempt to learn their senior's attitude even now. Damn, they are selfish...personally I had some 3-4 interactions with Syanjalis..they all turned out to be snakes. I have one of my best friend, who is Syanjali and a couple of Jhapalis who are good. But I have seen bad Jhapalis too. Bottomline: There is no clear cutoff, but it generally applies that these *li's are different than others. Last edited: 29-Jun-09 11:57 AM

lamjung · Jun 29, 2009 11:56 AM

यो गीत सुन्नु होस् तेस पछी थाहा हुन्छ झापाली भनेको को हो? तर म चाँही झापा को हैन है तर गहिरो सम्बन्ध चाँही छ है http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...

harculus · Jun 29, 2009 12:04 PM

The truth is is JHAPALIS are smart, clever, talent, not fatahaaas. (few exceptions)

GOFLE · Jun 29, 2009 12:04 PM

  यो गीत सुन्नु होस् http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...

harculus · Jun 29, 2009 12:15 PM

syanjali haru le  aru manche suteko bela ma  tesko finger print liyera sabai property afno banauthe  re pahila pahila .one of my friend who is syanjali told me this story.But now time to say "JAI NEPAL" NOT TO COMPARE SYANJALI ,JHAPALI ,PALPALI....

babu24 · Jun 29, 2009 12:30 PM

I think they migrated form hilly area and had to compete with Rajbansi and Bangali, as the time passed they became more clever according to the needs which is far away from others need, somehow they could not act according to the present environment and society. Where ever they went could not leave their past and could not mold accordingly, therefore they started this proverb. You know about women in Bharatpur (Chitwan, ride bike and their husband sits in the back) same way they are very upfront and very smart,  I like that.  

syanjali · Jun 29, 2009 12:36 PM

I don't agree that  A= multiple of B Let's say A= Nuwakote, My home district But at least, I am not so cunning guy. Even 6 year old people can make me fool ! I wish I could be more clever according to time.

sajhabahadur · Jun 29, 2009 2:26 PM

Phataha ta khoi thaha bhayan.... tara mero anubhav le bhannu parda Jhapali chalakh bhane sarai hunchan ho.... sojho manche le sath nagarda ramro...

dalli_nani · Jun 29, 2009 2:42 PM

फट्यैइँ र बठयाईँमा कतिले फरक छ थाहा भएन तर माथि साथीहरुले भनेजस्तो मुलत: झापालीहरु बाठा हुन्छन। यिनिहरुसँग सोझो मनुस्यले संगत नगर्दा नै ठीक हुन्छ। भन्छन नि अङ्रेजीमा relations are either {symbiotic, mutualistic, commensalitic  or parasitic. झापाली सँगको नाता चै प्राय: commensalitic or  parasitic नै हुन्छ। अब यो उनिहरु को फट्यैइँ या बठ्ह्याईँ हो आँफै पत्ता लगाउनुस्। Last edited: 29-Jun-09 03:08 PM

harikancha · Jun 29, 2009 3:07 PM

Prejudice is the child of ignorance.Thank you

raju161 · Jun 29, 2009 3:24 PM

I used to think Jhapali’s are clever too. While working in Damak I asked some of my friends and colleagues as to how they felt about the opinion of them being considered “clever.” They took it very positively and said that’s their strength. They enjoy the idea that rest of the district people in a way "fear” them. I as well enjoyed working with them and learned  good positive life lessons.   It sure makes sense for them to be clever and smart yet not cunning. It’s because they live by the border of India-Nepal, they have very mixed and diverse ethic cultures from Bahun, Chhetri, Newar, Rai, Limbu, Gurung, Rajbansi, Madeshi, Dhimal, migrant from Darjeeling etc and not to forget the Bhutanese refugee population. Darwin’s “survival-of-the fittest” is manifested in their livelihood.   I think Jhapa is a nice place for farming with 3 season rice farming.   Just to make sure I still think they are clever but not cunning. Also to add I say “We at times see the things the way we are rather than the things are”

subrath · Jun 29, 2009 3:37 PM

jhapalee are clever because jhapa is located near india and even to arrange their bread and butter they have to compete with indians and that's how they became so cunning and selfish.

rajendarr gulal · Jun 29, 2009 3:47 PM

Jhapali maile bheteko ma kohe pani sojo chinan. aauta theyo shool tera jaile paisa jamma garna parne bela agadi serne aani tehe keta haru ko paisa ma mooj garne.afno paisa kahelai nanikalne.Jehos jhapali chai fataha nai hunchan.ma chai kahelai trust gardina jhapalilai. 

harke kancho · Jun 29, 2009 8:44 PM

Ain't Jhapali are real Nepali..because you can see Pali sounds on each word.. Jha+pali....Ne+pali... Help me out!!!

Sexy In Sari · Jun 29, 2009 9:54 PM

CONGRATS EVERYBODY - specially to gauleketo for such threads.. People were already fighting back home in the name of madhesi and pahade.. now you guys took to next level to internet.. GREAT JOB! We need more such threads .. Keep it up!!!

ANS · Jun 29, 2009 10:18 PM

Hoina yo JALI vannye Bittikai Syanjali kin aacuha ha..

ocinboy · Jun 29, 2009 11:31 PM

I also used to hear something like what Syanjali has mentioned. Such kind of inferences must have some links to historical observations. Jhapalis being cleverer is understandable because, compared with the other folks who stayed in the hills, they were cleverer in the first place to realize the the benefits of migration. Also intermixing with the people of different decents and particularly an interaction with a relatively forward and educated community in Darjeeling must have helped them to be "smarter" in some sense. And, it'd be just a matter of few incidents of working together with ordinary hill folks that smartness would manifest itself in the form of cunningness, as is common in cases of smartness devoid of a corresponding ethical counterpart. In general, I used to hear a lot about Purbeli and Paschhimeli, the former sometimes being considered  smarter than the latter. Of course, such generalizations were based on personal observations and do not appear to hold any more. Environment, hardships of survival and many other factors would probably contribute to a particular group being cleverer than the rest, and in the present context, it can be true that the (migrated) people in the plains generally outsmart ordinary people from villages in the hills.  

naivelyStupid · Jun 30, 2009 8:07 AM

..They are not only फटाहा..... they are 'SELFISH' tooooo

vastav · Jun 30, 2009 8:23 AM

I agree, Jhapali are selfish, wicked and heartbreaking sick bastards. I had one jhapali in my apartment, initially he was like a homeless, i found him apartment, found a job for him, everything... but that bastard made all of my roomie moved to another apartment leased by himself and din't give me a month notice either. this is why don't trust jhapali. f4ck hypocrites!

youwanpras · Jun 30, 2009 8:35 AM

जाली का रुपमा स्याङ्जाली ले नाम कमाए , तर मट्टारेहरुले (मट्टारका पनि अझ खत्री हरु)   बिहारीलाई पनि ठीक लागाउछन . नम्बर एक मा मट्टारे को स्थान सुरक्षित छ .

syanjali · Jun 30, 2009 10:04 AM

dammmmiiiiii ....lagyo sabai ko comment .......thanks brooo harruuuu

gauleketo · Jun 30, 2009 1:27 PM

hahaha syanjali, how do you know about mattare? I have never heard anyone making a comment on "Mattare" before. I am from the very "mattar" but I have never been able to fool anyone till date.  I think it all depends on individual as how smart he/she is.

pacific salmon · Jun 30, 2009 6:53 PM

La jaa..NEPALI SABAI CHOR RA DAKU... You guys are happy now.

Gay Goat · Jun 30, 2009 8:59 PM

i don't know about phata or what but 3 jhapalis didn't pay the rent living in our house and ran away so mum decided not to rent them anymore.

Moneyminded · Jul 1, 2009 6:40 AM

ocinboy · Jul 1, 2009 8:28 AM

Good people bad people its not because of place its their attitude and thinking so dont blame the plz dont blame the place ...B like as good human being we all are nepali

ocinboy · Jul 1, 2009 8:30 AM

Re: Jhapali: I was wondering who of my friends/acquaintance is/are from Jhapa.  I could think of only one.  He is very very very "chattu".  Kura-ma ta uuslai jitnai sakinna.  He used to be a politician back in Nepal.  Kangressi ho kyaara.  He is involved in Nepali politics in the US as well.  Chattu ko pani maha-chattu. Tara... As far as I know, he has not harmed anyone.  He is actually a nice guy.  What's more, he is very entertaining.  Good to have in the parties. Re: Syangjali: One of my friends is from Syangja.  Bahun ho, tyo pani Syangja ko.  But he is is very very very sojho. So much for the stereotype.

Riten · Jul 1, 2009 9:40 AM

I hope this thread is here just for the sake of humor only, but not to take it seriously and stereotype people from Jhapa and Syanga. There are good people and not so good people everywhere, we just have to watch our back. Otherwise it be as absurd as saying all black people are bad or all asians are bad drivers. 

Poon-Hill · Jul 1, 2009 9:54 AM

damiii bhai rako chaaaaa keta hoooooooooo

gauleketo · Jul 2, 2009 12:33 AM

you people are jealous of jhapali coz they are clever,,,,, so if every people bcame lik jhapali then Nepal will achieve its destiny

iamthebest · Jul 2, 2009 4:16 AM

    Pls listen to this song before comenting

dipulata · Jul 2, 2009 8:02 AM

They are not only फटाहा..... they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo they are 'SELFISH' tooooo

vastav · Jul 2, 2009 8:35 AM

Dear Mattare; As you from mattar, you do not see and realised it and wondering why they are accusing for , so does Syanjali, Saptariaya ( who are alleged getting fingerprint of walking people).  All over the nation and abroad certain group of people get such remarks like, syanjali, jhapali so does to jews to be too crooked, and sardarji to be too simple / stupid. Jhas are like khatriya of nepal ( khatriya of India are known as rajput/chettri). These are over smart people whose own act are somehow  over the border line makes them name called, "आफ्नो आङको भैंसी नदेख्ने आर्काको आङ्को जुम्रा देख्ने ",  We are one of them of this proverb, because we  left the house & country , staying aborad still could not get away entertaing ourself by name calling. This is the reason some blogs gets out of line.

syanjali · Jul 2, 2009 9:28 AM

Good job!You found another foolish topic to discuss and creat division among nepalese-- Dont try to prove any one selfish or anything else just by the name of teritory --try yourself to be honest.I have lots of doubt on the person who posted this as  he mightnot have been able to prove himself honest and has to take the reference of Jhapali---- we nepalse have nothing except time--

mejasilo · Jul 2, 2009 9:34 AM

jai nepal !!!! 

gauleketo · Jul 3, 2009 4:31 PM

Nepalis are all burglar because we are poor. We don't need to fight with each other. More or less I am burglar too and I am a not Jhapali or Syanjhali.      

2:00am · Jul 4, 2009 1:08 AM

I believe people from kathmandu are the best among the nepalis from other places. They do share, helpful and do not care of money but people from Jhapa, syangja and chitwan are no so.......not evn like to par rent

rookie1 · Jul 4, 2009 2:57 AM

 Guys what are we fighting for....even if one of us win the debate here who is the one that u defeated. That certainly would be a nepali.Come on guys we have better place and topic to fight for, atleast not this.Think about it.

pkr061 · Jul 5, 2009 7:05 AM

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gauleketo · Jul 9, 2009 5:42 PM

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gauleketo · Jul 11, 2009 10:11 AM

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gauleketo · Jul 14, 2009 8:17 PM

We are very prejudice and can not stand on someone's success or smartness. This happen to me last weekend. I had a trip to Boston via Niagara Falls.I had this problem before with my car. On the way to Boston from Niagara my car started making noise and feel it has something to do with Axel shaft or Ball joint. The Bostonian host took me to the nearest AutoaZone and figured out needed a ball joint replacement .  Our host log on internet and made couple phone call and about an hour we see a walking garage in his parking lot. We chilled out with chilled beer and our car was fixed. We are saved and guess what this is a gentleman from JHAPA. See how smart he is, we are always jeleous of other's success and smartness. But it is true some of them are oversmart makes them smelly but you can not judge all the same. No Doubt. Yes, Jhapali are smart and knows how to get things done. 

syanjali · Jul 15, 2009 7:17 PM

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gauleketo · Aug 21, 2009 6:37 PM

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