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I have always tried my best not to hurt anyone in my life..but to some extent i don't know how it happened.No clue how i fell in love, no clue what motivated me even though the person i love had no interest on me to approach,no clue why i dint approach anyone who said..don't rush i will be there for you no matter what.I went after whom i adore without thinking, without paying attention for how the person was,without an expect ion of anything in return.However , when i stayed in a relationship i started expecting more than what i thought i would.I knew deep down inside me there was a doubt  whether the person i am with cares about me the same way i do.It's official now i was right, the person felt guilty about something that he has done which let him be in this relationship, not because he wanted to be with her,simply out of guiltiness accepts her as his wife.Still he is trying to comfort her not to make her feel bad saying "Listen i dint get you as i pictured you and yes i wouldn't accept you as my wife however i came back because  your love was strong to pull me back, but yes i realize now that i am lucky". Funny part about it is he is still lying... lying and lying and lying...hiding back his emotions...his expectations of getting nice,beautiful and a good looking life partner.He still wishes he could travel back in times to re fix the whole idea about love, relationship and marriage. I married him i don't regret.i loved him i don't regret. Regration cha ta sirf ek chez ko i wish i had not messed up his life and simply walk away without making any noise.I don't  want to make my life miserable by thinking about this over and over again, so i hide it, laugh about it "Haha Chora You Got Trapped!!! " Can anyone guess what might be his guiltiness for real that he actually came back to me ? Remember he dint come back because he love me !..stay tunned...lets see .if anyone  can answer right ...

Dr Jharpaat · Apr 1, 2009 8:09 AM · 1,864 views

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First of all its very difficult to understand what you are writing here but as a guy my experience and those of my mates is that we tend to forgive and forget quite easily but for girls, its quite the opposite. Again, girls tend to take guys as liars no matter how genuine the guy might be. However there are different types of guys and different types of girls so I can't make judgement by taking few examples. There's a saying that Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus i.e. We have completely different natures. I think there is just a misunderstanding between you two, what you think he has come back for might be completely differnt to what he actually came back for. Discuss and find some concrete evidence before coming to a conclusion.

incrediblesuperbatma · Apr 1, 2009 10:59 AM

I think you guys are perfect married couple. Just don't worry about it. Whatever happening is part of your married life. It goes on. As incredible told, try to forgive and try to forget small mistakes, worries. I think there are always small issues going on between wife and husband. Try to live with it. This is how homo sapiens has come a long way since thousands of years. If any one of you expect your spouse to be 100% perfect and want him/her think or feel exactly like you then go for gay or lesbian marriage. If man and woman are there then there is always love and fight. Live with it, sort out the problems, try putting love more than fight. In the long run you will enjoy your life and feel good about yourself and your family.

Khairey · Apr 1, 2009 11:22 AM

I am not angry i simply wanted an answer ...he came back and he still regrets on coming back to me that is...i have something of his...his little life inside me ... ...

Dr Jharpaat · Apr 1, 2009 11:52 AM

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