I have a fren, he is my best buddy. He was in love with a girl during his 8th grade. Though I don't talk to girls, she was the only one I used to talk to since she was different from rest of the girls. She was descent, came from a descent class/ family, confidant, was studious, intelligent, kind, beautiful, had good respectful attitude, down to earth (despite of how popular, talented or rich she is) and above all she was unique. At the end of grade 10, they became close to each other, and both of them had crush on each other But after our SLC, she went to her granny's home to continue her high school, and was far from her school frens. SHe also told my buddy that she just had crush on him, and love doesn't happen by force. Since then to till now, my fren is so crazy about her. But I don't think he is in love, though he is my best buddy ever. He is so reluctant to spread the news that she is his ex-girlfren ( which is obviously untrue), he himself tells me that they have never even gone for a date. but He tells everyone that she deceived him just because she had crush on him. He tells that she broke his heart and else..Why is he putting the girl in the middle.He tries to mentally torture her, and I have told him many times to stop bugging her for nothing. He is so possesive about her that he beats every guys who likes her. If she doesn't love him, why is he bothering her everytime? She lives next to my house and my family and her family are really close, so I know how she is. I can't see him lieing and flattering his feelings, and i don't even think he is in love,,its only madness...can someone fall in love at the 8th grade?