This is based on Nepali Context only, (not americanized yet). Generally when a boy friend (keta sathi) marries and both of his friends (keta and keti) call his wife as 'bhauju'. This situation is not so hard but when it comes to keti sathi's husband, how do you call him? For girls most of them say as vinaju but how about guys? If he is in your age and already introduced to you, name may be enough. But if he is little aged than and you have to show sorta respect, how do you call him? calling him as 'jwai' or 'vinaju' is definitely embarassing. I came through this situation couple of times and I could not determine, what's your logic?
Stat · Mar 26, 2009 9:24 AM · 24,871 views
stat i dont see anything wrong calling your fren's hubby vinaju...well jwai..u cant call jwai to your frens hubby ofcourse...thats like calling buhari to your frens wife...think
aingnam01 · Mar 26, 2009 9:31 AM
If its same age...call by name else use dai...i guess thats easier than calling bhenaju or jwai...
deshbhaktanepali · Mar 26, 2009 9:39 AM
In english you never call your jwai as hello brother in law. It's easier to just use name.
grgDai · Mar 26, 2009 9:42 AM
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Nas · Mar 26, 2009 9:45 AM
grgdai...smart huh?? we are not talking about english or americans...try to be nepali..
aingnam01 · Mar 26, 2009 9:56 AM
calling Dai should work.
AAAA · Mar 26, 2009 10:09 AM
Dai or Vinajyu.
Riten · Mar 26, 2009 10:16 AM
के छ यार or के छ साथी or Hi or How r u doing? of course not vinaju (wtf)
Free H1B · Mar 26, 2009 10:22 AM
How about this then: "What up dawg? You ma fren's man? Yeah? You da man!"
Riten · Mar 26, 2009 10:25 AM
I had this situation so many times. Mostly I call them by their name. If the guys is younger then me then I call by Name and if the guy is older then me then I call by is name followed by Ji. I felt so difficult at the beginning, but now already married for 5 yrs, I used to be this way. I directly call by their name and they feel comfortable too.
PeaceSoul · Mar 26, 2009 10:36 AM
sir
ek@l · Mar 26, 2009 11:56 AM
Easy name G e.g. V2001 G
V2001 · Mar 26, 2009 12:04 PM
Easy name G e.g. V2001 G
V2001 · Mar 26, 2009 12:04 PM
Easy name G e.g. V2001 G
V2001 · Mar 26, 2009 12:08 PM
You lecher Stat eying on your friend's husband. Call him your "Launda" as the Hindus call, you adulterous swine. Sleeping with him behind your friend's back. Asks the logic on what to call his smut boyfriend who is cheating his woman with this filthy worm. Jesus curses upon ye and cast ye out of his holy land. Die in the hollow depth of hell you obscene feces.
Jesus Christ · Mar 26, 2009 12:20 PM
ha ha ha.. "k cha jaar?' bhane kasto hola helmet lagaaera ... he he he
sajha_addict · Mar 26, 2009 12:26 PM
ya i would go for... name + jee like krishna jee, bharat jee etc..
zeran · Mar 26, 2009 2:45 PM
भेना (If a little aged) _____जी (+/-3-4 yrs is OK these days) ____सर (Anyone who is literate deserves it in Nepal) अथवा साईनो नलगाइ passive-voiceमा बोल्ने नि।
lamjung · Mar 26, 2009 2:56 PM
Generally I go by Name+jee ,,, I know its difficult sometime,,,, I have so many female frens who are married now,,, Its hard coz most of my female frens are married to guys 6 or 7 years older than me,,,, its difficult but i still calll Name+jee,,, I tell all my fren to call my wife by her name not as "bhauju" ... but many dont. I hate being called vinaju by my wifes' frens... I tell them to call by my name too... and almost all do.
gyanguru · Mar 26, 2009 4:41 PM
gyandai kina wife ko sathi harulai extra marital affair ko lagi apply garira ho??
aingnam01 · Mar 26, 2009 8:13 PM
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