SOME NARI!!

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Can't beleive what my best friend just told me over the phone!!! Well, he was very intimate with a girl for several years. Me and other guys in our gang was witness to their 'prem kahani' for years. We thought they were made for each other and he had to go abroad for many reasons including the humiliation he had to face from his partner's parents and relatives. Still, he never stopped caring for her and her family in every way he could including monetary help too. But when he was ready to go back and get married, she eloped with somebody else. The thing is - he was loyal to the last minute hoping she was too. But recently, he met a classmate and through him, he found out that she was seeing someone and not only that she was seeing another classmate of his on dailay basis. And when he met her, she blamed him cause people thought she was cheap! WTcheap F**K?? Now you all tell me, if a gal with a bf meets somebody else everyday, you are sending wrong signal, right?? People would certainly think such male/female is cheap. So my friend contacted her and asked why he was blamed for something he did not commit? As most of us, he felt infuriated because first he was cheated, second he wasted his time, money and effort for a deceitful person like that and third, she still blames for nothing. Well, guess what! she thrashed him back saying how her hubby is filthy rich and how much he makes in a week etc. So my friend was asking for my suggestion - this great 'NARI' still owe him dinero and he was saying - maybe I should ask for it?? So, as usual, I am turning towards sajhagoers with the same question - Should he ask for it or not?? See, my friend is happily married with a wonderful kid and nother is on the way while that NARI is still banjo after so many years. I think that's PAAP. So, what do you say guys?? Last edited: 15-Feb-09 10:06 AM Last edited: 15-Feb-09 10:07 AM

darlagdo_manche · Feb 15, 2009 9:09 AM · 17,711 views

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its easy to point fingers..may be she had her own reasons..just coz u dont find her reasons satisfying doenst mean, it wasnt imp to her.....i mean common...u can find 100's  of guys who has dumped a girl for one reasons or another..or cheated on their wifes..gf...and many other things....so accusation aparts...if she owes him money..he should def ask...whats the harm in it. who are we to judge whats right or wrong....  

mansion · Feb 15, 2009 9:54 AM

thanks mansion. their relation was perfect but lacked one thing - her insecurity and that got her. she used to get envious even when he spent more time with us or spoke with another girl. we even used to warn him from time and again to watch for her possesiveness. both family members were happy etc. i know there are 100s of guys who has dumped nice girls but i am talking about a friend whom i know since childhood. i know the pain he went through when all that crap happened. and maybe we would not be thinking about asking the money back but it is the way she wrote. it is the way she bragged about her hubby and the way she is still blaming him for nothing!! all he did was to stand by her side in highs and lows of life. he showed me her response and even i could not refrain from saying BIATCH!! other suggestions please. where are all the lovelorn sajha visitors? Last edited: 15-Feb-09 10:09 AM Last edited: 15-Feb-09 10:11 AM

darlagdo_manche · Feb 15, 2009 10:06 AM

Hey darlagdo manche,  I think whatever happened to your best friend has already happened. Now nothing is left other than remembering the way he innocently trusted the girl. As mansion said, we can't blame a person (the girl) with the only reasons that's apparent. She may have other reasons that made her so. Unless and untill one doesn't knw the truth behind her behaviours and actions, it is not good to blame .. Your best friend should be strong to forget wat that girl did to him, coz it will only leave pain and regrets in him. As u said your friend is blessed with a wonderful kid and wife, he should rather focus on his beautiful married life, coz his family is the ones who he shud love and trust 100% . If he starts to think about that girl's deeds and her life and others, then it will be a waste of time for him, coz its useless crying for one who even doesn't care his feelings. Forget the past, and live for the present-his wife, kid and he himself. And Its your decision to ask or not ask the money, but i think it will just shatter his married life and even the girl's if their family come to know about their past love life. Everything goes round....Its just my opinion.

aaisha · Feb 15, 2009 11:00 AM

thanks aaisha, it would be very long if i write everything what she wrote. briefly, her hubby knows the past just like my pal's wife. maybe he doesn't know how badly my pal was cheated. on top, she as calling him names. that pissed us off. JO CHOR USAIKO THULO SOR bhanya jastai. we will see what to do.

darlagdo_manche · Feb 15, 2009 11:38 AM

Hey darlagdo manche, Since i don't the depth of wat she had wrote to ur best friend, so I guess if u heartly feel that girl used up ur friend in terms of money, time and everything, you guys may be right in taking wise action on her coz its really bad to play with other's life, but Be careful that she won't take dreadful revenge on him and his family, coz some people are like that---aafle nai galti garne ani ajha afunai jhan aruko bejat garne. They are so pshyco that we never know wat they will land upto.    

aaisha · Feb 16, 2009 10:08 AM

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