Nepali-gladiator, Nice one. My story is somewhat like yours. I was in a relationship for 7 years. Before that I was alone and single. He was my best friend before we started dating. I am an attractive,smart woman who simply never knew how to approach guys.We finally got married one year ago in Nepal. Things were so different after marriage. I felt unloved, he started staying with his friends as he has lots of female friends. We were drifting apart day by day.One fine day I accidentally; opened his sex email to his female friend.I approached him but he denied. Recently, he gave me a Divorce papers on my Birthday. One year 3 months marriage was over. It hurt me a lot. I thought my entire world was going to collapse. Its been 4 months since he filed for a Divorce. I am getting over it ( not really). Now he wants to come back to me but I do not want him back. I want to get over this soon. It takes time to heal but I know I will get there. I dont know about loving again but I certainly do not trust any men.
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syd_acid · Jun 19, 2010 11:31 PM
i dint read the whole story but the way people are replying...amazing gladiator!!!!!! keep up the good work....@dance zone: a bend in the road is not the end of the road unless u fail to make the turn...gud luck
naya nepali · Jun 19, 2010 11:38 PM
Naya Nepali, Thanks!! But you know its easy to say than done. Sooner or later I have to get over it. We woman are so stupid sometimes. He cheated on me few times while we were in relationship. I forgave him hoping he would make some changes since I have invested 7 years of my life with him. Well his life still remained the same even after our marriage. I am never looking back again. This man has hurt me so much in our 7 years of life together. Well not anymore. He aint worth it!! He took me for granted because he knew I would forgive him every time he makes a mistake. I know we all are humans and we do make mistakes but we usually learn from our mistakes and never repeat it again. It was not that way with me. I quit for good this time!! I am so much happier now; than, when I was him.
Dance Zone · Jun 20, 2010 2:01 AM
@NG SP, Really hurt touching and story matches mine. But i was not strong like you to come out if it on my own, n had to take depression pills to get out of it though we never even touched each other. I am not great like you to forgive for wat she did wid me 'playing wid my innocent feeling' and can;t even curse her. But I am comptlely out of it. I was replacing me for you for other parts. Thanx nice experience share. got to konw that I am not alone. Alchhethigro
alchhethigro · Jun 20, 2010 7:37 AM
Sad but true......when u love someone..either u gonna be happy or u gonna get hurt and I know how it feels bahnera...I hab been there n done that too....n wid da same gal...so many times....We broke up after 3 yrs relationship n she was the one who dumped me....n after dat i realized the real part of me.....I was hiding myself within her all the time.....N I was the one who was foolish to love her so much....But after we broke up..i found the true side of me.....It was hard for me to get over her..buh I kept tellinf myself..Everythin happens for a reason n wat happens..happens for gud....Noe I am happy and enjoying my life without her...n da funny thing is my ex wants me back in her life.... So when something bad happens..Juz think it happened for a reason and the reason is gud one.... "Dun Worry, B Happie..:).."
newar1 · Jun 20, 2010 8:40 AM
Newar, have no grudges against her pal. You will move along with time. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves." He who knew how much I loved him did not realize. He who broke me into thousand of pieces didnot feel the pain he caused me. It took me some time to move on and now he wants to come back but no!! no!! way it will ever happen; because I know he will hurt me again. All I can do is to wish him luck,happiness,joy and laughter in his life or whatever he undertakes. " You don't know its there till its gone"
Dance Zone · Jun 20, 2010 10:43 AM
well, i do not totally agree with you all. Did you ever love her??? ................... you had mentioned, she ...............like the "God." She is a human being like us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hostile13 · Jun 20, 2010 9:05 PM
Dude's he didn't love anybody. its a article he copied and pasted and changed some words from internet. talai chor. here is the original source. read the 5th paragraph from the source and match http://breakups.com/breakingup...
houston_kancho · Jun 21, 2010 1:17 AM
Yeah he did copied and paste the article. Haha!! Nice story though!!
Dance Zone · Jun 23, 2010 7:42 PM
Dance Zone, ya got some nice love quotes from Bible (1 Corinthians 13). r ya a christian? just wondering.
syd_acid · Jun 23, 2010 11:29 PM
No I am not a Christain. I am a Hindu. Pal are you keeping track of who is typing what from different sources? Well I am not a good poet so whats wrong with that? Thanks for reading anyway.
Dance Zone · Jun 23, 2010 11:40 PM
Sorry, I didnt mean that way. I was just asking coz lot of Christians gurls mention that verse when they talk about love. so no offense to anybody!!! take it ez
syd_acid · Jun 24, 2010 12:13 AM
Well its ok. I do write sometimes. I do pour my heart here. There is no Nepal Chat anymore which sucks!! Whatever happened to Nepal Chat. I live in Beautiful California where are you?
Dance Zone · Jun 24, 2010 1:24 AM
Syd Acid, You guys actually say sorry too? There was nothing to be sorry about pal. Hey read about this guy who has posted few of his pictures for woman. He wants well educated woman. That was so stupid.
Dance Zone · Jun 24, 2010 1:31 AM
What is with People copying stuff off of the Internet? I was about to give my feedback and then I bumped into someone showing the link to the post by someone else. Crap! Anyway, I once was sent an email by a lady I was talking to during my school years. It was really awesome, only that I decided to see if one of the quotes she wrote was off the internet. I found the entire script on some love stories section. What a turn off! Regardless of even if it is not a personal feeling of the thread starter, my thoughts are that you should appreciate the person who was with you for whatever times you were together. People move on with different circumstances and unless you guys never really liked each other and separated showing middle fingers - you should learn to appreciate moments in life and who you chose to share that with!
Sleepless · Jul 1, 2010 1:19 AM
Syd_acid, now tell me where did you copy that VDO from? Its too sad.
Dance Zone · Jul 20, 2010 12:28 AM
Hey there, Break up is hard when you give someone so much of power to control your life. I was with one Nepali man for 9 years,we eventually got married and he cheated on me with my best friend who is married with 2 kids...within 6 months of our marriage. I kicked him out on the same day I caught him. For three years I blamed myself WHY ME? What did I do wrong? Now I came to realize that it was not me. I had given him so much power to break me,hurt me. I had loved him unconditionally like he was the only man alive. One big mistake I made was that I search for my Happiness in him. Its been 6 years now I have come to understand myself. I have never felt better in my life before than I feel about me right now. He got married after 2 years of our Divorce and his wife kicked him out for good. He emailed me wanting to meet me but do I want to meet him? HELL NO!
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