Nobody listens to anyone. Nobody has patience to listen to anyone. Simple issue arose, everyone quarrells with each other. There's no peace. Peace lasts few days and ends when a tough event comes. And important fact, nobody is willing to listen to each other at all. How do I deal with this? It's not easy to get out of here. Getting out is for those whose family is good, it's easy for them not for us.
avanti · Sep 26, 2022 5:27 AM · 5,079 views
It’s easy to say but some suggestions I have are: 1. Sometimes not saying things is better. No one wins a shouting match 2. Don’t let emotions take over 3. Discuss with facts on low calm voice 4. If turns out to be a heated debate go out for half an hour and come back and talk reason when everyone is calm
chicagoan · Sep 26, 2022 7:44 AM
Narcissism is real. Please do some research on narcissism. Narcissistic people have high tendency to control and low level of empathy. It's better you minimize communication with these type of people and disengage. If possible, move to a different city. Narcissism can do a a lot of physical and mental damage. Act before its too late.
ujl · Sep 27, 2022 2:15 AM
"Narcissism" is the right word and very relevant, we face it every where you name it. What do you do even moving out of city or country, still not able to get rid of it ( they find ways to cling with you)? I have read and I have used many times "पर्पिडनम रतिसाधनाम" is it true narcissistic person fall on this category? Sometime I feel that our ancestor who had vast knowledge and wisdom had more psychological knowledge on last two century and they had used in very well "Upanisad and Purans". UJL I admire your knowledge on Sankrit and I would like to ask on Narcissism or Aryan behavior . Is there any correlation with their hierarchy ( cast ) and the status they acquired ( political, wealth , wisdom etc)? Little knowledge is dangerous, is it fueling them or narcissism is the byproduct it?
Logan · Sep 27, 2022 9:43 AM
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