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Aja ko din ma US land gareko aja bhanda 10 barsa agadi. Padna ko lagi F1 visa leara aeyo with hazaar sapana. University bata VA community college ma transfer gariyo, Associate degree complete gariyo, then started OPT, again back to college for Bachelor degree, then started OPT again, employer filed H1B for past three years, unfortunately luck was not on my favor. Then again went to back to college for master and completed in Spring 2016. After a tragic natural disaster in Nepal, TPS was granted then started working for same employer as Accountant. Finally, employer is processing GC but don't know how it's going to end. Got travel document through TPS, so excited traveling to Nepal to meet parents after 5 years. I have learnt very important lesson. Most importantly, no matter what kind of jobs you do- blue or white collar. Work hard and respect your job. This is my faith to learn hardship so that no matter how much hardship I have to face in future, I feel like I am ready for it and will not give up easily. Do not value on others success else you will never be happy and satisfied with your small achievement. Praise your work and do at your best with honesty. You won't paid off right away but you will enjoy a lot from small achievement. Last edited: 26-Aug-16 03:19 PM

1800-HELP · Aug 26, 2016 3:19 PM · 39,698 views

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Mitra timro yo kura malai man paro, kam vaneko sano thulo hundaina. I wish all the best for your green card sathi you deserve it.

taremam_bhai · Aug 26, 2016 3:25 PM

Same to you :(

instagram · Aug 26, 2016 3:27 PM

1-800 को कहानी त मेरै जस्तो देखिन आयो त ! 😧

atomic · Aug 26, 2016 3:29 PM

Estai ho jindagani .. maaathi tala. Mero ni Aile ukaalo din chaldai cha. Aba 2-4 Barsha ma oraali laagne din aauncha ki...

Oh_Gaathe · Aug 26, 2016 3:47 PM

Share your story too Sajha mitra @atomic -Glad to hear from you.

1800-HELP · Aug 26, 2016 4:24 PM

2,4 crore kamaune sapana thiyo

spritual · Aug 26, 2016 4:26 PM

Sapana sapanai rahyo

spritual · Aug 26, 2016 4:29 PM

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Hanuman1 · Aug 26, 2016 4:55 PM

Sapana 2, 4 Crore ma na rakhauu @spiritual mitra Maile pani tehi sochthe but didn't drop my educational career. At the end, may be I haven't earned money like others but I am satisfied with my achievement. Just don't give up and the day will come you will have $,$$$,$$$ in your pocket. Afu 20 ma aeyo US ahile 30 ko bhaeyo.

1800-HELP · Aug 26, 2016 5:02 PM

Same here guys. America aayera 4 Barsha ma college sakaayera tanna paisa chaapaula bhanera basethe. Padha padhdai 8 Barsha gayiyo. Kaam gareko 2 Barsha bhayo , savings zero. Dhanna ghar kharxha pathaauna sakiyeko cha. 8 Barsha agadi aayera gas station ghanta Hanna thaaleka haru le kathmandu ma ghar banaaisake. Aba aafu 30 pugne laagi Sakyo. Dhewa kaile kamaaune ho khai kunni.... Professional bhayera ni khaas kei garnu sakiyena...

Oh_Gaathe · Aug 26, 2016 6:17 PM

@oh_gaathe @salikofan le deako advice accept gareko chu aba November ma gaera bihe garnu parla to make life comfortable which is very difficult when you are single. Aba chahi dhilo garna bhaena biheko lagi. Pheri paisa paisa bhanda na gharjam huncha na ta sahara dine kohi huncha. Aja pani paisa chahincha bholi pani paisa chahincha parsi pani tehi abasta huncha. Tesaile bihe garne soch ma chu. Yaso kehi ramro advice paee hunthyo biheko barema sajha mitra haru. @oh_gaathe yatro patience garera study complete garayauu dheraii khusi lagyo. Kasaile bhancha mihenat gara tara faal ko asaa nagara, tara end result ma mihenat ko faal ramraii huncha. Haiina aja ke bhayo bhayo Sajha ma afno 10 year anniversary in US celebrate gari rakheko chu. Yaso drink garum bhane afu eklaii ke piune baru lekhdaii chu Sajha ma. Kohi ta chaan reply garna ko lagi. Happy Friday Everyone.

1800-HELP · Aug 26, 2016 9:30 PM

Ho bihe ta time mai garna parcha. Eta aayera budhi le ni haat bataarchan ni. Ma ni aba combined income garera save garne bichar mai ho. Aba feri baccha janme pachi save bhane chai uhi holaaa. 10 years anniversary manaaune eklai. Khasi bhaat ra chill beer diyera. Aba next 10 years ma chai millionaire samma hos bhanera best wishes dost lai... Aba 20 years anniversary post garnu Na birsanu ni feri...

Oh_Gaathe · Aug 26, 2016 10:05 PM

म पनि अमेरिका आको १० वर्ष पुगो साथीहरु. २००६ हिजो जस्तो लाग्छ. समय बितेको पत्तै भएन. U .S आउदा बल्ल beer किन्ने उमेर पुगेको थिये आब त ३० पनि काटियो. University बाट Community College ट्रांस्फेर गरेर Gas Station मा घण्टा हान्दै पढ्दा अल्मोस्त ७ वर्ष लग्यो पढाई सक्न. क्रेडिट कार्ड सबै max out भयो tution तिर्दा तिर्दै . Graduate भएर निस्किदा अल्मोस्त 20K debth मा थिये. त्यसपछि OPT file गरेर job hunt गर्न तिर लागे. साथी भाई धेरै जस्तो I .T तिर लागे तर आफ्नो मजोर कम्प्युटर न भा को ले जान मन् लागेन. आफै apply गरेर job खोज्छु भन्ने विचार आयो. केहि समय कम खोज्दै बित्यो . त्यसपछि एक दिन कता बाट मलाई आर्मी मा जाने विचार आयो. आब नेपाल को ताल येस्तै हो . आफु ले त दुख पाइयो आफ्नो सन्तान ले दुख न पयोस भन्न को लागि अमेरिका मा settle हुन जरुरि छ जस्तो लाग्यो. धेरै सोचे अनि यो paper को लफडा बाट बच्न सबै भन्दा सजिलो आर्मी को बाटो नै लाग्यो. अनि यो job hunt लै गोलि मारेरा भर्ति को लागि तयारी सुरु गरे. Gas Station मा घण्टा हान्दै भुडी लागेको सरिर ...सुरु सुरु मा त धेरै गह्रो भयो तर हिम्मत हारिन. घर मा बुडी ले न जौ भनेर खुब कर गर्थी तर मैले सुनिन. जिन्दगि मा कहिले न सोचेको आर्मी भैयो. आर्मी training मा हुदा barrack को wall मा लेखिएको थियो "pain is temporary but if you quit it lasts forever ". यो quote ले मलाई आज सम्म motivate गर्दै आएको छ.

rockey07 · Aug 27, 2016 12:08 AM

@rockey07 bro Army ma try gareko but didn't go through complete processing. It was a good experience. And I am really proud of you "A member of armed forces". Go Army. Hope you are having really good life with your wife and family. Brother, that quote is really a painful one if we quit in the middle of our journey. Thanks for the motivation.

1800-HELP · Aug 27, 2016 7:43 AM

३० नाघेर नि बिहे नभाका हरू यता हाजिर गरौं न त !!!

atomic · Aug 27, 2016 8:24 AM

Sathi haru le study ko kura gare. Malai pani study complete garna mann cha tara sarai garo huncha vanne sunera join gareko chaina. Iam an average student. Can you guys plz share your university experiences kattiko easy or hard huncha pass garna lai

Naman · Aug 27, 2016 3:47 PM

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Hanuman1 · Aug 27, 2016 4:53 PM

@Naman Mero college experience bata degree dheraii important cha. Malai pani dheraii garo bhathyo for the first time in my life as I depend on myself to study. What I did was I always try to finish all the assignments as it almost covers 40-60% of grade and you learn a lot too by doing assignment. So you don't have to worry much about messing your exam unless you want grade 'A'. And it also depend on college. I completed my undergrad where most of the classes were held in the evening and weekend only and the courses were structured for adult people- most of them were full time professional people. So it was not like old school style classes. I did pretty good on my undergrad degree. Most of those professional adult people came to college to get a promotion on their job even though they have tons of years of job experience because of not having educational degree. At the end, it depends on you how much effort and sacrifice you can give to achieve your educational career. If you have made up your mind then pretty soon you will figure it out your own way to study. Once you figure it out, then you won't be an Average Student. You will be like-"Can do attitude person". So, wish you all the best and find colleges accordingly. As @rockey07 bro has mentioned - "pain is temporary but if you quit it lasts forever".

1800-HELP · Aug 28, 2016 11:09 AM

What about the assignments? Are they tough ? I have heard people say that its too tough. and how about the classes? Is it interactive?

Naman · Aug 28, 2016 11:22 AM

@Naman Evening and weekends colleges are easier than regular day time colleges. I went to weekend college. Most students work full time so you will have light competition and easy grading.

dindukhi · Aug 28, 2016 12:51 PM

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