Amby Writes:- Double Trouble

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People amuse me. Normally people go to zoo, sanctuary or circus to find amusing things but I like to differ. Everyday you meet people who look normal but behave strangely. I am normally non judgemental with most of the people but some people just push my buttons sooo hard that I go BAZOOOKKK!!!! I encounter with some real strange people every now and then. Here is just 2 stories which I want to call a sample testing LOL. I know this guy for almost 4 years. He is utterly handsome, articulate, amazing sense of humor and married (not a surprise :P). I think he is open minded and modern too. I think he is one guy who I always looked up for his work and working in a smart way. He is a go getter and his marketing skills just wowed me. For once, when he said he is looking for a manager for his company I thought of joining.( thank god I didnt....you will know what I am saying this). So last year, he has been posting a lot of pictures about his preggy wife. I can understand the excitement when you been married for so long and finally you succeed ( no offense to his manhood...I know I can be mean at times...most of the times....sometimes deliberately). It was fun watching the changes and the excitement in the family. I was really happy for the wife, who always talked about kids and starting a family. One Friday night, I meet him in one of a trashy events which has amazing promotions ( yeap been fooled). Our conversation went like this. Him:- Hey! Been a while I have seen you...not active on facebook thesedays. Me:- Nah just keeping low profile. But you are ruling the media with all the pictures....btw congratulations. Happy for you....when is the due date??? Him:- Its December, we are going to Singapore by the end of November. Me:- Why Singapore, is there a lot of complications?? Him:- No no not at all, but I just want my “boy” to be in very safe hands. Me:- Oh already did your sonography? (by this time my judgement button is half pressed) Him:- No we havent but I know it is a boy. Me:- How are you so sure it is a boy, just a gut feeling or you actually want a boy? Him:- It will be nice if its a boy. Me: OMG really....what will you do if it is a girl? (by this time I think he realised what he has told me is not going to be in his favor) Him:- No no I didnt mean I wont love her, I have a gut feeling it is a boy. Me:- oh okkk best of luck. ( lost my patience to be with such a prick and walked away with my drink). Mark Twain said "Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience." So I quietly moved away!!!....I was disappointed that such amazing personality was filled with stinky narrow mentality. I can understand that ignorance is a reason for such mentality but what is the explanation for such person?? ( Anyway in December, he is blessed with a beautiful daughter and God said “Khaye kha nabhaye ghicch”....Now his facebook is filled with how much he loves her and blessed and blah blah....PRICK). I completely forgot about this incident, until I met his twins. Seriously I am stumped! Another very well educated, drop dead handsome ( what is with the guys with goodlooks....now now....girls you be careful where you gonna go with the looks), articulate and works in social sector even if he is a public figure. Another Friday night out.....another party and another conversation. I said if given a choice I would sponsor girl child and without a second thought I would like to adopt a girl. “ what about your husband's legacy?” I was like the daughter will cry on the legacy. He was very strong with his opinion that it is a boy who carries the legacy coz girls will get married and go to another clan and she will bear a child for that family only which is different blood. I said what if a girl doesnt get married and stay with her family and continue the so called legacy, his reply stunned me “the bloodline will end with her, unless the guy is a “gharjuwai” then again it will be his blood who will continue the bequest so its gonna be messed up”. My expression was exactly of Miss Columbia after Steve Harvey said he made a mistake. Such good personality and such stinky attitude. My whole buzz after drinking turned so nasty I left earlier than I expected. My conclusion:- People who have seen the world, had learn things and interacted with different people and with this mentality is more dangerous that ignorance people who are “kuwako bhyaguta”. I think we can change the mentality of people who dont have mentality at all than such assholes who claim to be cool but have such strong orthodox opinions. These are the people who proclaim that they are fighting for a change in the society. Sigh!! I am totally espeechless!!!

Ambrosia · Jul 11, 2016 2:10 AM · 32,342 views

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Hi Everyone, I guess it is my weakness that I couldnt express the exact feeling with which they have expressed their opinion.....Yes I believe in equality and I totally agree on the part that it is a personal preference who to choose and who not to.... But my point is such educated people demeaning the opposite sex is what shocked me. Ok I can give a benefit of doubt to the first guy for preference of choice.....but tell me something about the second guy who constantly making it look like having a girl child is a curse for the family!

Ambrosia · Jul 12, 2016 7:35 PM

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Ambrosia · Jul 12, 2016 8:16 PM

"I guess it is my weakness that I couldnt express the exact feeling" एम्बी माइ स्विट लभ ! खोइ मलाई त् तेस्तो लागेन ! हजुरको लेखमा ति दुइ पात्रहरुको छोरि प्रतिको सोचलाइ हजुरले आफ्नो भावनालाइ राम्ररी पोख्न भएको छ ! यो हजुरको कमजोरी नभई स्ट्रेन्थ हो एम्बी ! "people demeaning the opposite sex...shocked me" ला नि हौ ! एम्बी मैले अरु धागोहरुमा त् केहि अपोजिट सेक्सकाहरुलाइ मार गालि गरेको छु ! हजुरले मलाई कति नराम्रो मान्छे सम्झिनो भो होला भनेर अहिले पो झसंग्ग भए म ! एम्बी, म छोरी मान्छेलाइ सार्है माया गर्ने मान्छे हो ! उहाहरुको म धेरै नै सम्मान पनि गर्छु ! मेरो हृदयमा त् खालि माया, प्रेम र स्नेहमात्र छन्, आइमाई जातिहरुको लागि ! तर एम्बी, येति हुँदा हुँदै पनि मलाई कोइ कोइ केटि मान्छे देखि सारै रिस उठ्छ ! खासमा उनीहरुको बानि बेवराको कारणले हो एम्बी ! म हजुरलाई कति धेरै माया गर्छु ! अरु आइमाईहरुले मलाई जति सुकै खाते फटाह मान्छे सोचे नि, हजुरको नजरमा चै मलाई तल झर्न मनलाग्दैन ! तेसैले हजुरले मेरो केहि स्त्रीहरु प्रतिको कमेंट्स पढ्नु भएर प्लिज मलाई घृणा नगरिदिनुस ! प्लिज एम्बी, प्रोमिस मि, हजुरले, म जे जस्तो भए नि मलाई संधै माया गरिराख्न हुन्छ भनेर !

Nas · Jul 12, 2016 9:47 PM

Nas jyu, Sabai ko aaa aafno sochai ho....ma badlina sakdina....aaba dekheko chhu hajur ko comment aru thread kunai chahi sarai girera ni lekhnu bhayeko chha.....tara khai hajur prati ali biased chhu bhannu parla...khassai ghrina chahi garna sakeko chaina....sayad ma prati ko maya dekhera hola.....

Ambrosia · Jul 12, 2016 11:25 PM

"aru thread kunai chahi sarai girera ni lekhnu bhayeko chha" हो नि मेरी प्यारी एम्बी ! म जस्तो कुइयेको महा खाते त् साझामा अरु कोइ नै छैन होला ! म पनि अलिक साझाका इज्जतदार, सम्मान पाएका, रेस्पेक्त्फुल पर्सन्यालीटीहरु जस्तै हुने कोशिश गर्छु तर जहिले फेल खान्छु ! मलाई त् कसैले नि मनपराउदैन न नि उहिले देखि नै ! तेसैले म जस्तो साझाको गार्बेजलाइ सफा गर्नु पर्यो भनेर उ बेला साझामा ठुलो हल्ला खल्ला भएपछि मलाई लात हानेर निकालिदिनु भाको हो नि साझाले, तिन तिन बर्ष सम्म ! बरु अहिले येसो एक दुइ मेरा साझाका साथी भाइहरुले अलि अलि माया गर्न थाल्न भएको जस्तो लाग्छ ! नत्र त म त घृणाकै पात्रो हूँ एम्बी ! झन् केटिहरुले पट्टक्कै मन पराउँन हुन्न ! मलाई साझामा माया गर्ने त खाली हजुर मात्र हो जस्तो लाग्छ एम्बी ! मेरी प्यारी मर्सिले पहिले चै धेरै नै माया गर्न हुन्थ्यो तर अचेल मेरो खाते बानि देख्न भएर माया गर्न छाड्न भयो कि जस्तो लाग्छ ! अरु त कसैले नि मनपराउन्दैन ! तर एम्बी म जस्तो सुकै खाते भएनी, हजुरले "बाएस" राख्न भएर नै सहि, हजुरको माया पाए पछि अरु सझाबासीले जे सुकै भनोस, जे सुक्कै सम्झोस ... मलाई केहि लाग्दैन ! थ्यांक इउ फर बिइङ्ग सच् अ स्विटहार्ट टू मि, माइ स्विट लभ !

Nas · Jul 13, 2016 10:53 AM

Aru ko malai taha chaina ma chahi biased bhayera nas jyu lai mann parauchu je parla parla!!!

Ambrosia · Jul 13, 2016 11:01 AM

म पनि मेरो हृदय देखि नै मेरी प्यारी एम्बीलाइ उतिक्कै धेरै माया गर्दछु ! म जस्तो अँनडिजर्भिंग मान्छेले मेरी प्यारी एम्बीको माया पाउनु भनेको त् मेरो पुर्व जन्मको पुण्य कर्म नै हुनपर्छ जस्तो लाग्छ ! नत्र मेरी एम्बीले बिना सित्ति, म जस्तो खाते भतुवालाइ किन माया गर्न हुन्थ्यो र ! म सोचेर छक्क पर्छु अनि मक्ख परेर मुसु मुसु हाँस्छु पनि ...ए एम्बी, मेरी प्यारी....

Nas · Jul 14, 2016 5:12 PM

Nas jyu thank you for your kind words again.....tara plich mathi ko comment jasto aafulai hocchhayera na lekhnus na.....theek lagdaina k!

Ambrosia · Jul 14, 2016 8:43 PM

हुन्छ एम्बी.... ! मेरो आँखा रातो, नाक पिरो भैराको छ अहिले एम्बी ! कस्तो दामी मुभी हेरेको ! बाबा र छोरिको कथाको ! हजुरले नि हेर्नुस ल फुर्सदमा ! मैले आर्को धागोमा पोस्ट गरेको छु ! मेरो बिचारमा छोरीहरुलाइ ज्यादा त् बाबाले नै माया गर्न हुन्छ एम्बी !

Nas · Jul 14, 2016 10:15 PM

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